View Full Version : Post-Verdict: I am sick and heartbroken
MissJames
07-23-2011, 01:24 PM
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Please watch your blood pressure......I followed this since day31, had to just get off the boards and change the channels after the verdict. I was heartsick.....and then physically ill....had a small TIA stroke due to spike in BP. Okay now, but have to wonder.....can I join the "sue ICA bandwagon" for pain and suffering, so that "person" never makes a dime off our sweet baby Caylee.....we all need to take comfort from the fact that we can go on with our lives, keep Caylee in our hearts, and know that ICA will ALWAYS be a miserable excuse for a human being, will never truly know love, or the joy that comes from unconditionally loving a child....JMO
I'm so glad you are okay !
Last year I started having joint pain until I was unable to walk (like all the bones in your feet are broken) ,use my hands or raise my arms. I was finally diagnosed with sero-positive Rheumatoid arthritis , an auto-immune disorder.It's not at all like osteo -arthritis.The body literally turns on itself and with the inflammation ,releases an enzyme that destroys bone and tissue surrounding vital organs. I have significant erosion in my feet and hands ,which places me in the severe category.
I swear it's from following this case. It's all negative,all the time . And like an alcoholic ,I can not put it down. :banghead:
Loving all my peeps here makes it that much harder.:seeya:
jon_burrows
07-23-2011, 01:28 PM
I'm not even a MOTHER, and I am still in tears over it all! That innate maternal streak that runs through us women, and the absolute love that overflows in my heart for a child, makes me want to enact my own brand of harsh justice on this monster. You could hear this same sentiment mirrored in Linda Drane Burdick's voice, as she closed out the case last Monday. If you AREN'T outraged, double check if you are HUMAN.
I live in Central FL, as well. It's storming fiercely outside. That beautiful baby lay out in the wet filth, through many a night like this. :cry:
Heartbroken?! Heartbroken is not nearly adequate a description to describe the incense and grief I feel, over a precious baby tossed into a trash dump. This is gonna take a LOT of time for me, so if any fellow WS-ers are also slower in processing, feel free to share and know I'll understand. But I WILL harness my sentiments for something positive; likely eventual realization of a law career.
We will all work through the emotional whirlwind. Meanwhile, know you're in PLENTY good company.
Rest with God, Little One. :rose:
BBM - Parts of her body are still out there. I wonder if that crosses their mind as they all wheel and deal, squeezing every penny they can exploiting her death.
IMO
concentric
07-23-2011, 01:40 PM
[QUOTE=DietitianVicky;6897038]I'm not even a MOTHER, and I am still in tears over it all! That innate maternal streak that runs through us women, and the absolute love that overflows in my heart for a child, makes me want to enact my own brand of harsh justice on this monster. You could hear this same sentiment mirrored in Linda Drane Burdick's voice, as she closed out the case last Monday. If you AREN'T outraged, double check if you are HUMAN.
I live in Central FL, as well. It's storming fiercely outside. That beautiful baby lay out in the wet filth, through many a night like this. :cry:
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Thanks for that. Like I said on an HLN thread, I appreciated the reporter going out to the site and showing us a stunning contrast:
the decrepit site the murderer placed this beautiful baby's body in.
then showing the outpouring from people all over making a pilgrimage and laying down their offerings of love to this beautiful child.
I hope this reporter goes back with a crew and walks the interior and periphery of this area to show the access and exit points and also where the Anthony home was in conjunction to this area.
Who knows, they may happen upon another piece of evidence...not that it will overturn the verdict, but maybe there might be something to project to the public what a travesty this was.
jon_burrows
07-23-2011, 01:54 PM
1.) lies to family and friends
2.) steals from family and friends
3.) kills daughter
4.) Lies to investigators
5.) Has no problem getting legal representation
6.) causes the biggest legal circus in FLA history
7.) Throws her family and others under the bus
8.) Gets acquitted
9.) Apparently goes on her merry way and prospers
I just can't bang my head hard enough. Somebody wake me up from this nightmare.
BBM - I don't think she threw her family under the bus. They willingly went along with this to set their murderous daughter free.
There is absolutely no excuse for the state of Florida not to prosecute CA for perjury in a first degree murder case, NONE.
IMO
Amity
07-23-2011, 02:26 PM
There is NO WAY:
1. If in fact I believed an accident happened to my dearly Precious Grandbaby in my pool....with the horrible after affects ie; media, protesters, trial, etc...... there is NO WAY that pool would still be assembled in my back yard!
AND
2. There is NO WAY I could continue to live in a home after all that has transpired in the last three years, KNOWING that there are still pieces (tiny bones) of my Beloved Precious Granddaughter laying less than a half a mile away in muck, smelly swampy water, vegetation and trash.
Nefriahaia
07-23-2011, 02:30 PM
BBM - I don't think she threw her family under the bus. They willingly went along with this to set their murderous daughter free.
There is absolutely no excuse for the state of Florida not to prosecute CA for perjury in a first degree murder case, NONE.
IMO
JB's opening statement throws both GA and LA under the bus.
kelian36
07-23-2011, 04:38 PM
This is taking longer for me to get over than I thought. I'm still mad about the verdict. :banghead:
Still can't stand the thought of FCA walking around free. :loser:
Sustained
07-23-2011, 05:03 PM
This is taking longer for me to get over than I thought. I'm still mad about the verdict. :banghead:
Still can't stand the thought of FCA walking around free. :loser:
And CM spouting off about Caylee drowning in the swimming pool with the pool still standing in the A's backyard. And the DT wonders why there is venom in the air ...
logicalgirl
07-23-2011, 08:26 PM
I'm going through kind of an interesting evolution about this case. On one hand, my heart is still terribly bruised about Caylee not receiving justice - and there will always be one spot there that will never heal - but on the other hand, CFCA has almost become some kind of weird bug species I am keeping an eye on.
I've given up on George and Cindy - I don't think they will ever regain any credibility on my world viewing lens, just always that spot on the glass I am trying to rub off. Just when I think they can't possibly pull another stunt that surprises me - they do.
But I am curious about CFCA. I take it for granted she will self destruct - but how, where and when will be interesting. And how long will it take Baez to completely dump her....and how will she react then?
kelian36
07-23-2011, 08:33 PM
And CM spouting off about Caylee drowning in the swimming pool with the pool still standing in the A's backyard. And the DT wonders why there is venom in the air ...
Omg Sustained!!! I know.
(And may I say I LOVE your avatar. :floorlaugh:)
denjet
07-23-2011, 08:49 PM
I too was sick and heart broken to hear the verdict and walk around for days thinking "How could this happen" ?? Then the defense took a second punch at the public with their comments and actions after the verdict ... then the jurors explaining their "logic" ... brought that sickening feeling back all over again ...
So I tried to deal with it as best I could ... starting with deleting EVERYTHING about the case and the scum of the earth involved in it off of my hard drive ... I was surprised to see I had accumulated 3 GB of files ...
That's when I told myself to get a grip ... what goes around comes around ... and KC sure isn't out of the woods yet ...
IMO she will not be received as the celebrity she thinks she is and offers will be rescinded or dry up when folks see just what they are dealing with ...
Although, I still get angry and upset when I hear these people are being "sponsored" and catered to, I think about all of the LE agencies, prosecution, expert witnesses who worked tirelessly on the case and how they must feel ... then I don't even feel I have the right to feel the way I do ...
I can't even imagine how much of a disappointment it is for them ...
Aside from Caylee's Law which IMO will be passed in every state, I would like to see more done about educating jurors and more time spent explaining the law to them and testing them for simple comprehension ... just something to try to learn from the gross mistakes that were made in this trial ...
Thinker Belle
07-23-2011, 09:10 PM
I don't know why this is affecting me so deeply, even 2 and a half weeks post verdict. There are times where I believe I am coming to terms with it, but then I get caught up in all of the what if's and why's... or I see Caylee's picture and I get angry, sad and frustrated all over again. I never even personally knew these people yet the pain I feel from this is so real. I was 8 months pregnant with my daughter when I first saw Caylee's picture on the news. I remember instantly falling in love with her beautiful and trusting smile. On December 11, when I heard the breaking news that skeletal remains had been found near the A's home, my heart sank but I still held out hope (naively) that maybe it wasn't Caylee. We all know what news came that next week.
My daughter will turn 3 in August, a milestone that Caylee Anthony was denied to the right to reach, and I sometimes look at her and think, "How could someone do something so awful to such a tiny, vulnerable child?" She is the same age and size as Caylee was when she was murdered and it literally just breaks my heart every time I think about it..
It does seem that since it is likely that no one will ever be held accountable for this senseless death, that it will always be an open wound. I hope we can all find peace and closure somehow throughout all of this..
:grouphug:
denjet
07-23-2011, 10:41 PM
I don't know why this is affecting me so deeply, even 2 and a half weeks post verdict. There are times where I believe I am coming to terms with it, but then I get caught up in all of the what if's and why's... or I see Caylee's picture and I get angry, sad and frustrated all over again. I never even personally knew these people yet the pain I feel from this is so real. I was 8 months pregnant with my daughter when I first saw Caylee's picture on the news. I remember instantly falling in love with her beautiful and trusting smile. On December 11, when I heard the breaking news that skeletal remains had been found near the A's home, my heart sank but I still held out hope (naively) that maybe it wasn't Caylee. We all know what news came that next week.
My daughter will turn 3 in August, a milestone that Caylee Anthony was denied to the right to reach, and I sometimes look at her and think, "How could someone do something so awful to such a tiny, vulnerable child?" She is the same age and size as Caylee was when she was murdered and it literally just breaks my heart every time I think about it..
It does seem that since it is likely that no one will ever be held accountable for this senseless death, that it will always be an open wound. I hope we can all find peace and closure somehow throughout all of this..
:grouphug:
AMEN ! It's hard to understand how someone could do what KC did ... and probably remains impossible to understand for most of us and society ...
bbm
I hope we can too .. it's great to have a place to come to for support !! :grouphug:
Nefriahaia
07-23-2011, 10:45 PM
BBM - Parts of her body are still out there. I wonder if that crosses their mind as they all wheel and deal, squeezing every penny they can exploiting her death.
IMO
At one point I thought they cared about Caylee . Now I realize all they care about are appearances and the almighty dollar. They make me physically sick to my stomach when i think about them for any length of time.
This is taking longer for me to get over than I thought. I'm still mad about the verdict. :banghead:
Still can't stand the thought of FCA walking around free. :loser:
Me too. Still mad. But, I am starting to take some comfort in knowing that she may have gotten away with killing her daughter legally but there is nowhere she can go to outrun the memories of what she did. Hers or ours.
com n sense
07-23-2011, 11:57 PM
[QUOTE=DietitianVicky;6897038]I'm not even a MOTHER, and I am still in tears over it all! That innate maternal streak that runs through us women, and the absolute love that overflows in my heart for a child, makes me want to enact my own brand of harsh justice on this monster. You could hear this same sentiment mirrored in Linda Drane Burdick's voice, as she closed out the case last Monday. If you AREN'T outraged, double check if you are HUMAN.
I live in Central FL, as well. It's storming fiercely outside. That beautiful baby lay out in the wet filth, through many a night like this. :cry:
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Thanks for that. Like I said on an HLN thread, I appreciated the reporter going out to the site and showing us a stunning contrast:
the decrepit site the murderer placed this beautiful baby's body in.
then showing the outpouring from people all over making a pilgrimage and laying down their offerings of love to this beautiful child.
I hope this reporter goes back with a crew and walks the interior and periphery of this area to show the access and exit points and also where the Anthony home was in conjunction to this area.
Who knows, they may happen upon another piece of evidence...not that it will overturn the verdict, but maybe there might be something to project to the public what a travesty this was.
What breaks my heart into many pieces is Caylee's own family has not been seen weeping at that site, , not ever!
Total strangers have wept more for that precious baby then her own blood.
It's that sweet baby that keeps us all coming back to this story.
There's something screaming inside of us all that will not rest - until Caylee gets justice.
Duckley
07-24-2011, 09:32 AM
1.) lies to family and friends
2.) steals from family and friends
3.) kills daughter
4.) Lies to investigators
5.) Has no problem getting legal representation
6.) causes the biggest legal circus in FLA history
7.) Throws her family and others under the bus
8.) Gets acquitted
9.) Apparently goes on her merry way and prospers
I just can't bang my head hard enough. Somebody wake me up from this nightmare.
Great list ... for me :banghead: I would add
Casey's lying arrogrant sociopathic behaviour was reinforced (she must feel so empowered... Jose too!)
Her family - with perhaps the exception of George - still doesn't seem to get it...
Bobbisangel
07-24-2011, 03:17 PM
I don't think anyone is going to get over this for a long time. If Casey Anthony sticks her ugly mug out there again..which she will...the strong resentful feelings are going to be back full force. If anyone does an interview with her it will bring up all of the bad feelings full force. But she doesn't have enough sense to go away and led a quiet life somewhere. There is also all of that money involved. I'm sure Baez is out there trying to dig up some interview for Casey but it doesn't sound like he is making much headway so far. I'll bet he sees dollar signs in his sleep!
Does anyone remember who paid for that trip to Disneyland..I think it was..for juror #3 and whoever she took with her? Was it the defense team???? That trip followed right on the heels of the verdict.
Bobbisangel
07-24-2011, 03:26 PM
and george was not on trial. its wasnt their right to decide to determine with no evidence he covered up "something" the more i hear the more i think their verdict was actually illegal. they way they came to their decision had NOTHIN to do with the law. in cases like these the state should have grounds to appeal. this is asinine these jurors should keep quiet becasue the are twisting the knife in my heart
I couldn't agree more. Everytime I saw juror #3 on tv I just want to slap her flat. She thinks she is so intelligent and she didn't get any of it. I think the judge should talk to the jurors one at a time and have them explain how they came to their verdict...what did they understand about the instructions. This is not fair. Just because a bunch of ignorant people couldn't understand the judge's instructions a killer should walk free???? Who paid for her vacation that took place right after the verdict? Didn't she get paid for talking to reporters but she said they had to send her on a vacation first? That young lady really put me off. I think her and the foreperson got together and bullied the other jurors to vote not guilty so they could all get out of there.
RR0004
07-24-2011, 04:02 PM
I don't think anyone is going to get over this for a long time. If Casey Anthony sticks her ugly mug out there again..which she will...the strong resentful feelings are going to be back full force. If anyone does an interview with her it will bring up all of the bad feelings full force. But she doesn't have enough sense to go away and led a quiet life somewhere. There is also all of that money involved. I'm sure Baez is out there trying to dig up some interview for Casey but it doesn't sound like he is making much headway so far. I'll bet he sees dollar signs in his sleep!
Does anyone remember who paid for that trip to Disneyland..I think it was..for juror #3 and whoever she took with her? Was it the defense team???? That trip followed right on the heels of the verdict.
Whatever you do...do not read the daily news thread because it will make your head explode...and your heart hurt that the death of a little girl comes to this...money and "fame" for the DT and Casey.
ITA with you...feeling raw emotion...all over again.
Thinker Belle
08-06-2011, 12:55 AM
Well it's been one month since Caylee was denied justice. To be honest, I am still in disbelief. Looking back on the past month, it has been very similar to the grieving process for me. I still cannot seem to swallow the pill that NO ONE WILL EVER BE HELD ACCOUNTABLE FOR CAYLEE'S DEATH. I will never respect or understand that ridiculous verdict, but I am TRYING to come to peace with it. I do trust that karma and a higher court will take care of Casey EVENTUALLY. Hope everyone else is doing well :)
listening-in
08-06-2011, 01:21 PM
I wish there was some cosmic guarantee that karma would come and slam ICA however I fear that she has got away with MURDER and is only receiving gratification for her crime with her new found fame.
Caylee has not gotten JUSTICE. JMO :rant::rant::rant:
pinkfly
08-06-2011, 04:28 PM
I just got home from a gun show in Tampa where I did NOT buy the bumper sticker that said "Guns Don’t Kill People -- Party Moms Do” with a picture of FCA.
cloud9
08-06-2011, 06:33 PM
I stopped in to say "Hi" to everyone. It's very hard for me to post. I still can't get past how the felon threw Caylee away in the dark, wet woods and she walks free. I still can't get past that poor excuse for jurors. There is nothing anyone can say to change my mind. This aquittal was a travesty.
Dcstew
08-06-2011, 08:26 PM
1.) lies to family and friends
2.) steals from family and friends
3.) kills daughter
4.) Lies to investigators
5.) Has no problem getting legal representation
6.) causes the biggest legal circus in FLA history
7.) Throws her family and others under the bus
8.) Gets acquitted
9.) Apparently goes on her merry way and prospers
I just can't bang my head hard enough. Somebody wake me up from this nightmare.
And I would like to add....
Only serves 538 days on 4 yr sentence because FL DOC doesn't know the difference between consecutive and concurrent
feddup
08-06-2011, 09:10 PM
BBM - Parts of her body are still out there. I wonder if that crosses their mind as they all wheel and deal, squeezing every penny they can exploiting her death.
IMO
Maybe its wrong for me to judge but I still cant get over the way they didnt even get Caylee a decent grave. This "cremation" jewelry just gives me the creeps. Does anyone here do that with their loved ones?
If so, I apologise. It must be something new.
I think Caylee at least deserved a proper burial. :(
logicalgirl
08-06-2011, 09:14 PM
Maybe its wrong for me to judge but I still cant get over the way they didnt even get Caylee a decent grave. This "cremation" jewelry just gives me the creeps. Does anyone here do that with their loved ones?
If so, I apologise. It must be something new.
I think Caylee at least deserved a proper burial. :(
You will get answers from posters here on WS to that question - first and foremost from MissJames, and I understand it is to keep part of the dear person they lost closest to their hearts.
ExpectingUnicorns
08-06-2011, 09:28 PM
Maybe its wrong for me to judge but I still cant get over the way they didnt even get Caylee a decent grave. This "cremation" jewelry just gives me the creeps. Does anyone here do that with their loved ones?
If so, I apologise. It must be something new.
I think Caylee at least deserved a proper burial. :(
I can't decide how I really feel about it. But I do know the idea isn't really new. One of the hot antique markets is in "victorian hair jewelry," made of course from their departed loved one's hair:
http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_DPowIRbowFk/S3DaufMluII/AAAAAAAAAQM/qaakVbfkLkU/s1600/victorian-hair-jewelry.jpg
hornswoggled
08-06-2011, 09:33 PM
Maybe its wrong for me to judge but I still cant get over the way they didnt even get Caylee a decent grave. This "cremation" jewelry just gives me the creeps. Does anyone here do that with their loved ones?
If so, I apologise. It must be something new.
I think Caylee at least deserved a proper burial. :(
feddup,
I understand your feelings. I know that more and more, people are using different means of handling their loved ones ashes. That's not my problem with the Anthonys. I have a huge problem with Caylee's initial "sendoff". The handling of her body and where she was "placed" sickens me. And to blame that on the person who found her skeleton is beyond any understanding I have. I don't know which family member did it, so I guess I'll just blame all of them. This family has managed to trash Caylee as well as the character of many other innocent people who genuinely wanted to help find a lost little girl. They lied. They lied about something too important to lie about.
They put on a big production for her memorial service and I am apalled at that. That was for the public. It was nothing more than an attempt to whitewash their daughter's name and make everything ok. It did not work. Caylee deserved more than this family could ever hope to offer. Now they have a few ashes left. But one thing is for sure and certain. They can never touch that child again. They have each other. They deserve each other.
kelian36
08-06-2011, 09:57 PM
feddup,
I understand your feelings. I know that more and more, people are using different means of handling their loved ones ashes. That's not my problem with the Anthonys. I have a huge problem with Caylee's initial "sendoff". The handling of her body and where she was "placed" sickens me. And to blame that on the person who found her skeleton is beyond any understanding I have. I don't know which family member did it, so I guess I'll just blame all of them. This family has managed to trash Caylee as well as the character of many other innocent people who genuinely wanted to help find a lost little girl. They lied. They lied about something too important to lie about.
They put on a big production for her memorial service and I am apalled at that. That was for the public. It was nothing more than an attempt to whitewash their daughter's name and make everything ok. It did not work. Caylee deserved more than this family could ever hope to offer. Now they have a few ashes left. But one thing is for sure and certain. They can never touch that child again. They have each other. They deserve each other.
Excellent post.
kelian36
08-06-2011, 10:08 PM
Maybe its wrong for me to judge but I still cant get over the way they didnt even get Caylee a decent grave. This "cremation" jewelry just gives me the creeps. Does anyone here do that with their loved ones?
If so, I apologise. It must be something new.
I think Caylee at least deserved a proper burial. :(
feddup,
I know this won't give you much comfort but I wanted to tell you that I know quite a few people who keep their loved ones ashes in urns and keep the urns in their home. I don't see anything wrong with it---especially if it gives someone peace and helps them still feel connected to their deceased loved one.
ZsaZsa
08-06-2011, 10:41 PM
feddup,
I understand your feelings. I know that more and more, people are using different means of handling their loved ones ashes. That's not my problem with the Anthonys. I have a huge problem with Caylee's initial "sendoff". The handling of her body and where she was "placed" sickens me. And to blame that on the person who found her skeleton is beyond any understanding I have. I don't know which family member did it, so I guess I'll just blame all of them. This family has managed to trash Caylee as well as the character of many other innocent people who genuinely wanted to help find a lost little girl. They lied. They lied about something too important to lie about.
They put on a big production for her memorial service and I am apalled at that. That was for the public. It was nothing more than an attempt to whitewash their daughter's name and make everything ok. It did not work. Caylee deserved more than this family could ever hope to offer. Now they have a few ashes left. But one thing is for sure and certain. They can never touch that child again. They have each other. They deserve each other.
My dogs get better treated after death than Caylee was.
ZsaZsa
08-06-2011, 10:50 PM
I don't think anyone is going to get over this for a long time. If Casey Anthony sticks her ugly mug out there again..which she will...the strong resentful feelings are going to be back full force. If anyone does an interview with her it will bring up all of the bad feelings full force. But she doesn't have enough sense to go away and led a quiet life somewhere. There is also all of that money involved. I'm sure Baez is out there trying to dig up some interview for Casey but it doesn't sound like he is making much headway so far. I'll bet he sees dollar signs in his sleep!
Does anyone remember who paid for that trip to Disneyland..I think it was..for juror #3 and whoever she took with her? Was it the defense team???? That trip followed right on the heels of the verdict.
IIRC it was ABC that paid for her entire family to go to Disneyworld... the same people that paid the A's $20K for their photos, the same people who paid ICA over $200K for Caylee memorabilia.
They don't pay for interviews though....:innocent:
RR0004
08-06-2011, 11:19 PM
I just got home from a gun show in Tampa where I did NOT buy the bumper sticker that said "Guns Don’t Kill People -- Party Moms Do” with a picture of FCA.
How did you resist?
feddup
08-06-2011, 11:52 PM
I can't decide how I really feel about it. But I do know the idea isn't really new. One of the hot antique markets is in "victorian hair jewelry," made of course from their departed loved one's hair:
http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_DPowIRbowFk/S3DaufMluII/AAAAAAAAAQM/qaakVbfkLkU/s1600/victorian-hair-jewelry.jpg
I have an antique cross I inherited...it is supposed to have a piece of hair in it. I am not going to open up to see!
I guess a Greek custom, I am not sure? Will have to finally look up.
DesSands
08-07-2011, 12:17 AM
JB's opening statement throws both GA and LA under the bus.
Yes with the FCA's family blessings according to their very own attorney. ML was on tv saying his clients, GA and CA were called into Baez's office 6 weeks before trial and told this is how they were going to proceed.
They not only went along with it as a great possible strategy to get FCA aquitted, but I'm willing to bet, CA agreed to take the hit for the computer searches. And Mallory got on the stand and put on quite a performance too. Sobbing that FCA was an AMAZING mother? They played on the juror's emotions with the CA head hanging down, GA's affair etc etc.
The jury didn't know the A's like we do, they didn't realize what they ALL are capable of.
The State should have stopped putting her friend's up on the stand when they reached 6 or more, so that so many could say they didn't smell the car and answer JB's famous question to all of them, was she a good mother? UGH
Good mothers don't kill their children. But putting on an act on video tapes for mama CA pretending she adored Caylee so that CA would continue to shell out money, didn't prove anything. The end result is the only thing that counts. That's what shows what kind of MOTHER she really was. :banghead:
And one last thing, as long as the defense was playing dirty, they should have called Kio Marie and Tracy Morgan. So what if Kio sold her story. So did GA's supposed mistress. And because he may have had a mistress and we don't like him, we'll let her walk. :crazy:
wallflower67
08-07-2011, 12:42 AM
I just got home from a gun show in Tampa where I did NOT buy the bumper sticker that said "Guns Don’t Kill People -- Party Moms Do” with a picture of FCA.
I hate to admit it, but I probably would have bought the bumper sticker. Probably wouldn't have put it on my car, but maybe just pin it on my kitchen bulletin board lol.
wallflower67
08-07-2011, 12:52 AM
Maybe its wrong for me to judge but I still cant get over the way they didnt even get Caylee a decent grave. This "cremation" jewelry just gives me the creeps. Does anyone here do that with their loved ones?
If so, I apologise. It must be something new.
I think Caylee at least deserved a proper burial. :(
I find it creepy too, but I know people who have done this. I do want to be cremated, with no real plans for my ashes. Not sure I'd want them worn by my family though! That said, if I died in a suspicious manner, I would want to be burried in case my body would need to be exhumed to look for more evidence.
My ex and I shared joint custody of our dogs, and when they passed, he wanted the cremation and kept their ashes. What I did was donate to the Humane Society in their memory and purchase a brick that was engraved with their names and placed into the Humane Society's sidewalk.
lowens1975
08-07-2011, 01:34 PM
You will get answers from posters here on WS to that question - first and foremost from MissJames, and I understand it is to keep part of the dear person they lost closest to their hearts.
I have a vial of my brother's cremains on a key chain for that very reason.
logicalgirl
08-07-2011, 06:16 PM
This is O/T with what you've been discussing but I think I may be somewhat on the mend - while I was choosing paper towels, I found myself singing along in the supermarket - and then realized it was Gordon Lightfoot's "Rainy Day People" and thought of my good friends here at WS.
I haven't heard that song in many years.....
feddup
08-07-2011, 06:59 PM
I have a vial of my brother's cremains on a key chain for that very reason.
If it brings you comfort, thats all that matters.
Maybe this was always around and I didnt know.
When my husband died over 20 yrs ago they never mentioned this to me.
But...I do still go to the cemetary altho now he seems so far away. Its hard to explain. Maybe cause I went thru 3 yrs of horrible depression.
I tend to look more at old pics for happiness and memories with my son, etc.
I am sorry about your brother:(
I wonder if Casey will request a cremains bracelet? wow, one more knock down drag out between her and CA lol
I try to keep my sense of humor.
Caylee is at peace now.
When I saw that video of her in the kitchen and CA and her (holding Caylee) smashing cake in each others faces, kind of made me think of what she was in the middle of. I wouldnt have done that to a little kid.
And if GA is a pedophile like Casey claims.......:sick:
Since it seems to get her off well, then she will always have to stick by that statement. Id hate to make that claim against my Dad. how sad, but I get the feeling it was to get sympathy. JMO
kelian36
08-07-2011, 08:29 PM
If it brings you comfort, thats all that matters.
Maybe this was always around and I didnt know.
When my husband died over 20 yrs ago they never mentioned this to me.
But...I do still go to the cemetary altho now he seems so far away. Its hard to explain. Maybe cause I went thru 3 yrs of horrible depression.
I tend to look more at old pics for happiness and memories with my son, etc.
I am sorry about your brother:(
I wonder if Casey will request a cremains bracelet? wow, one more knock down drag out between her and CA lol
I try to keep my sense of humor.
Caylee is at peace now.
When I saw that video of her in the kitchen and CA and her (holding Caylee) smashing cake in each others faces, kind of made me think of what she was in the middle of. I wouldnt have done that to a little kid.
And if GA is a pedophile like Casey claims.......:sick:
Since it seems to get her off well, then she will always have to stick by that statement. Id hate to make that claim against my Dad. how sad, but I get the feeling it was to get sympathy. JMO
Judge Perry said there was NO evidence that George abused Casey. MO--Baez should be sued for whatever he's worth for stating that lie as fact during his OS. Karma will bit his arze for saying such a terrible thing, especially when he knew it was a lie. :banghead: still makes me livid.
feddup
08-07-2011, 09:08 PM
Judge Perry said there was NO evidence that George abused Casey. MO--Baez should be sued for whatever he's worth for stating that lie as fact during his OS. Karma will bit his arze for saying such a terrible thing, especially when he knew it was a lie. :banghead: still makes me livid.
I didnt think so. I said: I think she said it to get sympathy.
I dont understand how people can make those kind of accusations against other people. She might have had it in for GA cause he was not as ex on her as CA was. (the gas cans, following her to see if she worked at that one place, etc)
Sounds like a revenge thing IMO
pinkfly
08-07-2011, 10:26 PM
I hate to admit it, but I probably would have bought the bumper sticker. Probably wouldn't have put it on my car, but maybe just pin it on my kitchen bulletin board lol.
I am seriously considering several items from here
http://shop.cafepress.com/caylee
like “did you heed my previous admonitions?”
GiantPickle
08-07-2011, 11:58 PM
One thing that sticks in my side here is why there can't be a charge about improper disposal of Caylee's body. There's all sorts of laws about digging up graves etc...something has to be possible there :(
I am seriously considering several items from here
http://shop.cafepress.com/caylee
like “did you heed my previous admonitions?”
I like the first Ashton for President mug, the Pinellas Co shirt and Belvin is my homeboy but some of the others are scary.
3doglady
08-08-2011, 12:13 AM
One thing that sticks in my side here is why there can't be a charge about improper disposal of Caylee's body. There's all sorts of laws about digging up graves etc...something has to be possible there :(
I like the first Ashton for President mug, the Pinellas Co shirt and Belvin is my homeboy but some of the others are scary.
This one is my personal favorite. http://www.zazzle.com/pinellas_county_jury_joke_tshirt-235693332267310140
logicalgirl
08-08-2011, 09:20 AM
This one is my personal favorite. http://www.zazzle.com/pinellas_county_jury_joke_tshirt-235693332267310140
OMG! Too funny - thank you for posting that.
Too bad it's true...
natsound
08-08-2011, 09:30 AM
feddup,
I understand your feelings. I know that more and more, people are using different means of handling their loved ones ashes. That's not my problem with the Anthonys. I have a huge problem with Caylee's initial "sendoff". The handling of her body and where she was "placed" sickens me. And to blame that on the person who found her skeleton is beyond any understanding I have. I don't know which family member did it, so I guess I'll just blame all of them. This family has managed to trash Caylee as well as the character of many other innocent people who genuinely wanted to help find a lost little girl. They lied. They lied about something too important to lie about.
They put on a big production for her memorial service and I am apalled at that. That was for the public. It was nothing more than an attempt to whitewash their daughter's name and make everything ok. It did not work. Caylee deserved more than this family could ever hope to offer. Now they have a few ashes left. But one thing is for sure and certain. They can never touch that child again. They have each other. They deserve each other.
Bold by me... I watched it. What does this say about the people who watched it?
lowens1975
08-08-2011, 02:56 PM
If it brings you comfort, thats all that matters.
Maybe this was always around and I didnt know.
When my husband died over 20 yrs ago they never mentioned this to me.
But...I do still go to the cemetary altho now he seems so far away. Its hard to explain. Maybe cause I went thru 3 yrs of horrible depression.
I tend to look more at old pics for happiness and memories with my son, etc.
I am sorry about your brother:(
I wonder if Casey will request a cremains bracelet? wow, one more knock down drag out between her and CA lol
I try to keep my sense of humor.
Caylee is at peace now.
When I saw that video of her in the kitchen and CA and her (holding Caylee) smashing cake in each others faces, kind of made me think of what she was in the middle of. I wouldnt have done that to a little kid.
And if GA is a pedophile like Casey claims.......:sick:
Since it seems to get her off well, then she will always have to stick by that statement. Id hate to make that claim against my Dad. how sad, but I get the feeling it was to get sympathy. JMO
Awww, Thank you! I still go through bouts of depression too. My husband, mother and stepfather all died of cancer, each within months of each other, the past three years, my brother committed suicide, just a little over a year ago, I think that hurt the most. Prolly because I couldn't blame it on anything :banghead: As the 'grief lady' put it, I've had my share of 'grief overload' at times.
IMO, FCA doesn't know what 'grief' is...I never once had to stop myself from entering a hot body contest after the death of a family member. :floorlaugh:
JennaB
08-08-2011, 02:58 PM
Maybe its wrong for me to judge but I still cant get over the way they didnt even get Caylee a decent grave. This "cremation" jewelry just gives me the creeps. Does anyone here do that with their loved ones?
If so, I apologise. It must be something new.
I think Caylee at least deserved a proper burial. :(
I worked with a woman who used cremation jewelry. This was back in 2004. At the time I was working for an insurance office and my boss hired a friend of hers for a part time position. My boss told me that the woman had lost her duaghter a year before and was looking for part time work just to get out of the house. This woman worked mostly with me and she told me that she had her daughter cremated and she sometimes wore some of the ashes in silver vial that was on a silver chain.When I heard that it creeped me out a bit. But in time I didn't find it so creepy.
lowens1975
08-08-2011, 03:03 PM
One thing that sticks in my side here is why there can't be a charge about improper disposal of Caylee's body. There's all sorts of laws about digging up graves etc...something has to be possible there :(
I like the first Ashton for President mug, the Pinellas Co shirt and Belvin is my homeboy but some of the others are scary.
Did any of you see JA's retirement party photo where he was wearing one of the "J A for President" T shirts? Lots of signatures and farewell wishes written on it as well as "Casey Will You Marry Me?" :floorlaugh:
I am seriously considering several items from here
http://shop.cafepress.com/caylee
like “did you heed my previous admonitions?”
I like some of them too! The one that said "Nicole, take care of Caylee.":prayer::cry:
sweetmop
08-08-2011, 07:41 PM
Judge Perry said there was NO evidence that George abused Casey. MO--Baez should be sued for whatever he's worth for stating that lie as fact during his OS. Karma will bit his arze for saying such a terrible thing, especially when he knew it was a lie. :banghead: still makes me livid.
Makes me livid too, kelian! What an evil @&*%$ CFCA is to ever suggest something like that about her father! It is unbelieveable to me that JB could state that as fact- with nothing whatsoever to back it up IOW, another big fat Casey lie!
The entire trial and then the verdict was unbelievable to me! I'll never get over it!
sweetmop
08-08-2011, 07:42 PM
Did any of you see JA's retirement party photo where he was wearing one of the "J A for President" T shirts? Lots of signatures and farewell wishes written on it as well as "Casey Will You Marry Me?" :floorlaugh:
Oh my goodness, I haven't seen that! Got to go Google and see if I can find it! Gotta see it!:seeya:
Oh my goodness, I haven't seen that! Got to go Google and see if I can find it! Gotta see it!:seeya:
http://i1123.photobucket.com/albums/l559/llclcf2011/ja.jpg
feddup
08-08-2011, 10:22 PM
Awww, Thank you! I still go through bouts of depression too. My husband, mother and stepfather all died of cancer, each within months of each other, the past three years, my brother committed suicide, just a little over a year ago, I think that hurt the most. Prolly because I couldn't blame it on anything :banghead: As the 'grief lady' put it, I've had my share of 'grief overload' at times.
IMO, FCA doesn't know what 'grief' is...I never once had to stop myself from entering a hot body contest after the death of a family member. :floorlaugh:
That dfinately is grief overload!!! No, I wouldnt have had a hard time saying no to a hot body contest either. Not my idea of grieving. I didnt buy alot of what the "grief lady" said.
BigFatMommyDog
08-08-2011, 10:25 PM
Oh my goodness, I haven't seen that! Got to go Google and see if I can find it! Gotta see it!:seeya:
...find me a couple of others - LDB and FG
MissJames
08-08-2011, 10:48 PM
Maybe its wrong for me to judge but I still cant get over the way they didnt even get Caylee a decent grave. This "cremation" jewelry just gives me the creeps. Does anyone here do that with their loved ones?
If so, I apologise. It must be something new.
I think Caylee at least deserved a proper burial. :(
Yes,I have a silver heart "locket " with a minute amount of my son's ashes in it. For me ,his death was so sudden and unexpected, I felt it was symbolic of keeping him with me ,still a part of my everyday life.
Consider that ,beyond the grief when a child dies,you still want to "mother" them,make sure they are okay,that they are happy and not afraid. It's hard to turn them over,even if it's to God. Heaven is so hard to conceptualize when that's where your child is,the one that was just jumping on the trampoline and asking you to make pizza for dinner.What are they up to in Heaven ? Who are they with ? what are they doing? How will they be able to do anything without you?
It takes time to wrap your brain around it,and since we chose cremation,I chose to also have the locket. The funeral home does everything,and you can't see the ashes. My 3 daughters each wanted one .
After 6 years,I'll admit,it doesn't do that much for me. I've worked through a lot,but I do remember why it seemed so important to get it at the time. We ordered them at the funeral home the day after he died. It just seemed like the thing to do at the time.
That's the best explanation I can give.
You see,nothing about my son gives me the creeps . Nothing. I cherish everything about him,even his ashes.
Well Done 99
08-08-2011, 10:54 PM
Sheesh MissJames. I'm a grown man ... and you just put a tear down my cheek. My sympathy's to you
MissJames
08-08-2011, 11:10 PM
If it brings you comfort, thats all that matters.
Maybe this was always around and I didnt know.
When my husband died over 20 yrs ago they never mentioned this to me.
But...I do still go to the cemetary altho now he seems so far away. Its hard to explain. Maybe cause I went thru 3 yrs of horrible depression.
I tend to look more at old pics for happiness and memories with my son, etc.
I am sorry about your brother:(
I wonder if Casey will request a cremains bracelet? wow, one more knock down drag out between her and CA lol
I try to keep my sense of humor.
Caylee is at peace now.
When I saw that video of her in the kitchen and CA and her (holding Caylee) smashing cake in each others faces, kind of made me think of what she was in the middle of. I wouldnt have done that to a little kid.
And if GA is a pedophile like Casey claims.......:sick:
Since it seems to get her off well, then she will always have to stick by that statement. Id hate to make that claim against my Dad. how sad, but I get the feeling it was to get sympathy. JMO
Now they can make a medal with your loved ones fingerprint stamped in it to wear on a necklace . I would have picked that if it had been available to us 6 years ago.
MissJames
08-08-2011, 11:18 PM
Awww, Thank you! I still go through bouts of depression too. My husband, mother and stepfather all died of cancer, each within months of each other, the past three years, my brother committed suicide, just a little over a year ago, I think that hurt the most. Prolly because I couldn't blame it on anything :banghead: As the 'grief lady' put it, I've had my share of 'grief overload' at times.
IMO, FCA doesn't know what 'grief' is...I never once had to stop myself from entering a hot body contest after the death of a family member. :floorlaugh:
:hug: You've had grief overload and complicated grief. I'm so sorry.
smart blonde
08-08-2011, 11:56 PM
Okay, it has now been a little over a month since the verdict. I am still sick, and I'm still heartbroken. I've just gotten better at hiding it from the day-to-day people (friends & coworkers) in my life.
After the first week, I realized I had to stay off the 'Casey threads' for awhile. I also made myself turn off the t.v., in hopes of letting myself 'get over it'. Of course, now I know I will never fully be over it.
I work the over-night/ graveyard shift, so I am up all night, and must sleep during the day. I remember allowing myself to go to bed earlier than usual that day, 'knowing' there was no way a verdict would be returned that soon.
My first clue that something was amiss should have been my ex-boyfriend ringing my phone off the hook. I didn't answer his call, but it awakened me enough to be curious as to whether a verdict had been reached.
I will never be able to completely shake the shock of turning on the television, not even all the way awake yet, and seeing the words 'NOT GUILTY' next to a picture of Casey Anthony. It was like waking into a nightmare. Suddenly I couldn't breathe, I was so stunned. Never in a million years did I even entertain the chance that she would be acquitted.
I followed this case from Day 1/31, read every available document, watched every minute of the trial. Fell in love with Caylee from the beginning.
I am still so angry and disappointed.
Well Done 99
08-09-2011, 12:17 AM
Happy Birthday, little sweetheart
CanManEh
08-09-2011, 12:18 AM
Im just sick period. Enough with this crap who cares . You wanna hear a real Bombschell. tonight NG show was in 2 segments one of a beautiful 3 year old girl that was most likely abducted that got about 15 minutes the rest was weather or not this POS was living in a 5 million dollar house or not weather the computer analasys of her face matched that of a girl shopping thats what the real bombshell is that anyone is still talking about this waste of space . enough allready .
Caligram
08-09-2011, 12:53 AM
smart blonde ~ I know how you feel, and I have tried to hide my devastation from my daughter, who told me she was worried about me spending so much time reading about dead children. There was something about Caylee Marie ...can't define it, maybe it was those big eyes and sometimes solemn expression that seemed to need a reassuring hug.
I won't forget her, ever, and I believe that she was a babe with a wounded soul. My one hope is that someday karma is going to get FCA, and there will be no exit door giving her another out.
lowens1975
08-09-2011, 12:57 AM
:hug: You've had grief overload and complicated grief. I'm so sorry.
Thank you MissJames, you and everyone else have been awesome to be around. I appreciate all of you so much.
RR0004
08-09-2011, 02:27 AM
My heart hurts, especially today. She should be here getting ready for her party...taking delight in blowing out her candles and opening countless gifts. I can't believe it has been three years and still no justice for this beautiful little girl. Yes, still very much heartbroken. Bless you Caylee Marie.
Whisperer
08-09-2011, 03:06 AM
If it brings you comfort, thats all that matters.
Maybe this was always around and I didnt know.
When my husband died over 20 yrs ago they never mentioned this to me.
But...I do still go to the cemetary altho now he seems so far away. Its hard to explain. Maybe cause I went thru 3 yrs of horrible depression.
I tend to look more at old pics for happiness and memories with my son, etc.
I am sorry about your brother:(
I wonder if Casey will request a cremains bracelet? wow, one more knock down drag out between her and CA lol
I try to keep my sense of humor.
Caylee is at peace now.
When I saw that video of her in the kitchen and CA and her (holding Caylee) smashing cake in each others faces, kind of made me think of what she was in the middle of. I wouldnt have done that to a little kid.
And if GA is a pedophile like Casey claims.......:sick:
Since it seems to get her off well, then she will always have to stick by that statement. Id hate to make that claim against my Dad. how sad, but I get the feeling it was to get sympathy. JMO+-
That video sticks in my craw. I hate it. It sums up the whole dynamics between the two grown females. They are using Caylee who is stuck in the middle. The poor kid didn't even get her cake. Cindy, in her cleaning obsession threw it away; then she wiped the poor child down with a wet dish rag...ugh!
Do you notice how much CFca holds caylee around CA? It seems to have been a very competitive environment. I think she only held her when her mother was around....done so cindy couldn't get her.:banghead:
Solace
08-09-2011, 09:47 AM
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That video sticks in my craw. I hate it. It sums up the whole dynamics between the two grown females. They are using Caylee who is stuck in the middle. The poor kid didn't even get her cake. Cindy, in her cleaning obsession threw it away; then she wiped the poor child down with a wet dish rag...ugh!
:banghead:
Cindy can't get away with anything here, no matter what she does. Caylee was having fun in that video as were Cindy and KC.
Dignity4Victims
08-09-2011, 10:01 AM
Cindy can't get away with anything here, no matter what she does. Caylee was having fun in that video as were Cindy and KC.
That particular video just exemplifies the tug-of-war between Casey, Caylee and Cindy.
Let us not forget that it was Cindy herself who wrote about the evil jealousy Casey had over Caylee.
MissJames
08-09-2011, 10:57 AM
Im just sick period. Enough with this crap who cares . You wanna hear a real Bombschell. tonight NG show was in 2 segments one of a beautiful 3 year old girl that was most likely abducted that got about 15 minutes the rest was weather or not this POS was living in a 5 million dollar house or not weather the computer analasys of her face matched that of a girl shopping thats what the real bombshell is that anyone is still talking about this waste of space . enough allready .
Was the 3 yr old's abduction recent? Maybe we should switch OUR focus. Do you have the info? I'm willing .
MissJames
08-09-2011, 11:00 AM
Cindy can't get away with anything here, no matter what she does. Caylee was having fun in that video as were Cindy and KC.
Yes,we view everything about them through jaded glasses,but that's because they showed us who they are. JMO
Aedrys
08-09-2011, 11:10 AM
You know, I feel like that dream I had once. The one where Caylee was in my grandparent's house (I think my brain used the grandparents' house I knew since I don't know what the interior of the Anthony's house looked like), and all the A's were there, including Caylee. But none of them saw her, or paid any attention to her. They were blurs, go about their business, like they were in a different world than Caylee, who looked like a ghost, but was there and felt real. She kept staring at me, like you can see me, why can't they? Why are they ignoring me? Why won't they talk to me?
I didn't talk in the dream, but I thought, I can see you Caylee. I don't know why they can't or won't. And now when I think about that dream I add to it. Those twelve couldn't see you, sweet baby. They ignored you like your family, and I'm so sorry there's nothing I can do about it. I think of that dream, and it makes me want to cry. That's how bad this verdict hurts. She wasn't worth that jury's attention or consideration. Summer vacations and getting out of sequestration was important than a murdered little girl to this particular jury. *sigh*
I'll always remember you, Caylee. Especially today on your birthday. I hope they throw a grand party for you up in heaven!
MissJames
08-09-2011, 11:33 AM
I am seriously considering several items from here
http://shop.cafepress.com/caylee
like “did you heed my previous admonitions?”
Too cool! The baby onesies weird me out,but most of the items are neat. I'm pretty sure a lot of it came from here. There's a "What About Caylee?" T-shirt in toy block letters.Essie's (I think) Has Caylee's name in toy blocks in her siggie line.
Hmmm.......I need to update my fall wardrobe.:crazy:
tiredofthis
08-09-2011, 12:57 PM
Yes,I have a silver heart "locket " with a minute amount of my son's ashes in it. For me ,his death was so sudden and unexpected, I felt it was symbolic of keeping him with me ,still a part of my everyday life.
Consider that ,beyond the grief when a child dies,you still want to "mother" them,make sure they are okay,that they are happy and not afraid. It's hard to turn them over,even if it's to God. Heaven is so hard to conceptualize when that's where your child is,the one that was just jumping on the trampoline and asking you to make pizza for dinner.What are they up to in Heaven ? Who are they with ? what are they doing? How will they be able to do anything without you?
It takes time to wrap your brain around it,and since we chose cremation,I chose to also have the locket. The funeral home does everything,and you can't see the ashes. My 3 daughters each wanted one .
After 6 years,I'll admit,it doesn't do that much for me. I've worked through a lot,but I do remember why it seemed so important to get it at the time. We ordered them at the funeral home the day after he died. It just seemed like the thing to do at the time.
That's the best explanation I can give.
You see,nothing about my son gives me the creeps . Nothing. I cherish everything about him,even his ashes.
I am sitting here with tears rolling down my cheeks. Thanks for explaining why a person would want to keep the ashes of a loved one.
I am so sorry for your loss! :hug:
feddup
08-09-2011, 02:37 PM
Yes,I have a silver heart "locket " with a minute amount of my son's ashes in it. For me ,his death was so sudden and unexpected, I felt it was symbolic of keeping him with me ,still a part of my everyday life.
Consider that ,beyond the grief when a child dies,you still want to "mother" them,make sure they are okay,that they are happy and not afraid. It's hard to turn them over,even if it's to God. Heaven is so hard to conceptualize when that's where your child is,the one that was just jumping on the trampoline and asking you to make pizza for dinner.What are they up to in Heaven ? Who are they with ? what are they doing? How will they be able to do anything without you?
It takes time to wrap your brain around it,and since we chose cremation,I chose to also have the locket. The funeral home does everything,and you can't see the ashes. My 3 daughters each wanted one .
After 6 years,I'll admit,it doesn't do that much for me. I've worked through a lot,but I do remember why it seemed so important to get it at the time. We ordered them at the funeral home the day after he died. It just seemed like the thing to do at the time.
That's the best explanation I can give.
You see,nothing about my son gives me the creeps . Nothing. I cherish everything about him,even his ashes.
Oh why oh why do such lovely people like yourself lose their children and then go thru such anguish:tears:
Im so sorry about your son and thank you for your explanation. It seems like a good idea now.
smart blonde
08-09-2011, 02:49 PM
Yes,I have a silver heart "locket " with a minute amount of my son's ashes in it. For me ,his death was so sudden and unexpected, I felt it was symbolic of keeping him with me ,still a part of my everyday life.
Consider that ,beyond the grief when a child dies,you still want to "mother" them,make sure they are okay,that they are happy and not afraid. It's hard to turn them over,even if it's to God. Heaven is so hard to conceptualize when that's where your child is,the one that was just jumping on the trampoline and asking you to make pizza for dinner.What are they up to in Heaven ? Who are they with ? what are they doing? How will they be able to do anything without you?
It takes time to wrap your brain around it,and since we chose cremation,I chose to also have the locket. The funeral home does everything,and you can't see the ashes. My 3 daughters each wanted one .
After 6 years,I'll admit,it doesn't do that much for me. I've worked through a lot,but I do remember why it seemed so important to get it at the time. We ordered them at the funeral home the day after he died. It just seemed like the thing to do at the time.
That's the best explanation I can give.
You see,nothing about my son gives me the creeps . Nothing. I cherish everything about him,even his ashes.
Thank you, Miss James.
Your post is beautiful.
feddup
08-09-2011, 02:54 PM
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That video sticks in my craw. I hate it. It sums up the whole dynamics between the two grown females. They are using Caylee who is stuck in the middle. The poor kid didn't even get her cake. Cindy, in her cleaning obsession threw it away; then she wiped the poor child down with a wet dish rag...ugh!
Do you notice how much CFca holds caylee around CA? It seems to have been a very competitive environment. I think she only held her when her mother was around....done so cindy couldn't get her.:banghead:
I know....at 2 they can sit in a high chair and enjoy their cake:(
Where was the rest of the birthday video? Why did CA and CFca always seem to have to be in it? Im thinking these 2 women were a couple of show offs.
I thought Caylee looked a little bewildered during that video. Maybe they werent being rough but it looked odd.
I guess considering what happened, the 2 women seem a little strange (and loud) to me.
MissJames
08-09-2011, 03:05 PM
I know....at 2 they can sit in a high chair and enjoy their cake:(
Where was the rest of the birthday video? Why did CA and CFca always seem to have to be in it? Im thinking these 2 women were a couple of show offs.
I thought Caylee looked a little bewildered during that video. Maybe they werent being rough but it looked odd.
I guess considering what happened, the 2 women seem a little strange (and loud) to me.
There is so little we know about Caylee's young life.She's been gone now,longer than she was here on Earth. The pictures can be misleading ,either way. Jesse Grund and his family have told us a bit,but we really don't know much else.
Some friends mentioned Casey bringing Caylee to parties,but how long had she been doing that?
GA left the home for many months ,then returned .How did that affect Caylee?
Casey's friends changed like her wardrobe with Jesse possibly being around the longest .Was she confused?
There must have been tension in the home. Between the stealing and jealousy over Caylee,she must have felt it.
So many unanswered questions,because those involved won't talk or won't tell the truth.
natsound
08-09-2011, 03:59 PM
There is so little we know about Caylee's young life.She's been gone now,longer than she was here on Earth. The pictures can be misleading ,either way. Jesse Grund and his family have told us a bit,but we really don't know much else.
Some friends mentioned Casey bringing Caylee to parties,but how long had she been doing that?
GA left the home for many months ,then returned .How did that affect Caylee?
Casey's friends changed like her wardrobe with Jesse possibly being around the longest .Was she confused?
There must have been tension in the home. Between the stealing and jealousy over Caylee,she must have felt it.
So many unanswered questions,because those involved won't talk or won't tell the truth.
We can glean a few bits and pieces from what we've seen and heard. Caylee never looked unhappy in pictures or video, and there were A LOT of pictures. Also, while lots of people have come out to say KC was an adequate (or loving :banghead:) mother, no one has mentioned they've seen her abused in any way. Yes, there was the incident where Caylee was left alone on the apartment balcony.
I do not want to be judged again by posters who don't like optimism, but here goes.... I think Caylee had a happy two years. The affection and attention she did not get from her mother seems to have been supplied by her grandparents.
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