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shadowangel
01-28-2006, 10:25 PM
In order to provide some clarification and background in this new development on the Sharon Marshall case, I wanted to organize the various elements in the case of Melissa Highsmith. I am posting this here as well as the Sharon Marshall forum as the sisters of Melissa, not yet born when she disappeared, are now actively searching for any information and assistance available.

In August of 1971, Alta Highsmith was a 22 year-old divorced single parent, trying to raise her 21-month old daughter Melissa. Alta had taken a job as a waitress at a restaurant in their hometown of Ft Worth. On the morning of August 25th, at about 7:30 am, a woman who had answered an ad for a babysitter arrived at the apartment Alta shared with a roommate. The woman, described by Alta as "real nice", with "three kids of her own and a big fenced-in yard with a gym set and swings", took Melissa and her clothing.

The babysitter failed to return Melissa by 8:00 pm that evening, so Alta called the police. At the time, Alta stated "maybe the woman was just lonely and wanted a child". The Fort Worth police in turn contacted the FBI. A composite drawing of the babysitter was circulated. Several leads, many from out of state, were received but none "panned out". Alta made several public pleas for the return of Melissa.

Investigators initially agreed that the girl was taken by a woman with "maternal instincts", but as weeks went by they developed doubts about this theory. Alta was given a polygraph test at the request of investigators. The investigation seemed to center on Alta and her ex-husband, who had since moved to Illinois.
No arrests were ever made in Melissa's disappearance, and no serious leads were ever developed.

WS member Hollow came across several articles from a Texas paper detailing Melissa's disappearance. Knowing of my intense interest in the Sharon Marshall case, she forwarded the articles to me. I researched the case, contacting both the Fort Worth PD and the Dallas bureau of the FBI. I was highly intrigued, due to several factors. First, the time frame. Though Franklin Floyd, kidnapper of the girl known as Sharon Marshall, was in prison at the time Melissa disappeared, it has long been theorized that someone else kidnapped Sharon and later gave he to Floyd. The age is correct-Melissa was 21-months old in '71, and Sharon was approximately 6 in 1975. The first record of Sharon was when Floyd registered her into an Oklahoma elementary school under the name Suzanne Davis (Melissa's middle name is Suzanne).

Neither the Fort Worth PD or FBI were able to provide any assistance. I then discovered Alta's present address on a website and mailed her letter. At about the same time, by coincidence, fate, or divine intervention, Alta's youngest daughter "Googled" Melissa's name and found the discussion of her under the Sharon Marshall forum. At that time, her older sister Rebecca posted on the forum. We made contact, discussing some of the various details of Melissa's disappearance and the mystery surrounding Sharon. Rebecca informed me that Melissa had brown hair and hazel eyes. To me, this did not immediately eliminate her as a possible match to Sharon, who had blonde hair and blue eyes. (There are later photos of Sharon with brown hair, and so little is known of her earlier life-beside her abuse at the hands of Floyd-that we can't know anything for certain). Matt Birkbeck, author of A Beautiful Child, also saw Rebecca's post. He and Rebecca have also made contact. Matt has expressed interest in facillitating DNA testing comparison between Sharon and members of Melissa's family. Rebecca is working to collect photos of Melissa for comparison and other information from her parents.

Regardless of whether Melissa is a match to Sharon, this girl deserves to have her story known. She may still be out there, with no idea who she really is. I have discussed with Rebecca the need to have Melissa listed with the various missing persons' organizations, such as the NCMEC, Doe Network, Charley Project, and the Texas Missing Persons Clearinghouse.

Kelly
01-28-2006, 10:45 PM
Oddly enough, the sister just contacted me and I have responded. Hopefully, we will be working with them and help out in any way that we can.

shadowangel
01-28-2006, 10:53 PM
That's great to hear, Kelly. It amazes me to see how things all come together sometimes.

Hollow
02-07-2006, 01:09 PM
Melissa Suzanne Highsmith has just been listed as missing with Texas missing persons.

Hollow
02-16-2006, 02:07 AM
http://www.txdps.state.tx.us/mpch/mpdetails.asp?id='M2/15/20063:01:02PM'

Bobbisangel
02-16-2006, 05:27 AM
What an adorable little baby Melissa was. That would really be something if she was found after all of this time.

meggilyweggily
02-16-2006, 12:22 PM
I'll post her case on the Charley Project tomorrow, now that I have a picture of her.

meggilyweggily
02-17-2006, 08:42 PM
Posted: http://www.charleyproject.org/cases/h/highsmith_melissa.html

Hollow
02-22-2006, 08:29 PM
http://www.sanluisobispo.com/mld/sanluisobispo/news/nation/13932856.htm


http://www.doenetwork.us/cases/1902dftx.html

*02
02-23-2006, 12:55 PM
I am so glad they have all of this onfo out there and posted now.

I just want to add a note after reading the description. Her 3" birthmark may have faded or completey disappeared over time. Our youngest was born with a bright red 1" circular birthmark on her upper back, you couldn't miss it, but now that she is almost 10 years old it has faded and moved to her lower back as she has grown. Now it is a light brown color that you have to actually look for to see it.
This may or may not be the case with Melissa -just wanted to through it out there in case someone got hung up on the birthmark.

jolayne1963
02-23-2006, 01:48 PM
I'm so excited! Yesterday, as I was entering a restaurant, I glanced at the Ft. Worth Star-Telegram newspaper rack and was surprised and happy to see front page news about the reopening of Melissa Suzanne Highsmith's disappearance. I'm posting the whole article otherwise a link won't be viewable after a week, as it will go into archives and will have to be paid for. I think Melissa's baby picture looks somewhat like Suzanne Davis, but brown hair doesn't usually turn blonde, does it? I also noticed she appears to have a "lazy" left eye. If this is the case, would she outgrow it, or could she still have it? The article is as follows=
http://www.dfw.com/mld/dfw/news/13932309.htm

Police reopen case in 1971 kidnapping

By DEANNA BOYD

STAR-TELEGRAM STAFF WRITER

FORT WORTH -- Alta Apantenco packed away her mementos of her eldest daughter long ago.

Her ex-husband, Jeff Highsmith, keeps the little girl's photograph in his bedroom, where he can see it every day.

They are parents who have coped with the loss of their daughter in very different ways. What they share is a grief that few others know, grappling not with the untimely death of a child but with a mystery that's gone unsolved for 34 years.

That's when Apantenco says a woman who answered an ad she placed for a baby sitter picked up 21-month-old Melissa Suzanne Highsmith from the single mother's south Fort Worth apartment and never brought her back.

Now the abduction case has been reopened, and police hope modern technology may finally bring answers.

"I want it to be true, that they're going to be able to actually find her through this. But I'm not going to get my hopes up, because I've gotten my hopes up so many times and it's provided nothing," said Apantenco, 57, now remarried and living in Aurora, Ill. "It would make me the happiest person on Earth if I could find her, even after all this time."

Jeff Highsmith, 55, who also lives in Aurora, gets goose bumps imagining that he might someday see his daughter again.

"I've never really given up hope. I feel like someone took this kid and raised her as their own child," Highsmith said. "She's probably got kids of her own, and she doesn't even know her real name. She's probably content and happy, thinking the person who raised her is her parent."

Toddler disappears

Melissa vanished on a Monday morning. A few months before, Apantenco, then 22, had returned to Fort Worth after separating from Highsmith, a musician.

A waitress at a downtown restaurant, Apantenco placed an ad in the Star-Telegram seeking a baby sitter for the rambunctious toddler, who loved spaghetti and cookies.

The reply from a woman who identified herself over the telephone as Ruth Johnson seemed too good to be true.

"She said that she had a nice big house, had a big back yard and other children to watch," Apantenco recalled in a recent interview. "I said that sounds really good, because Melissa loves to play outside."

The two made plans to meet at Apantenco's job, but Johnson never showed up. The woman later called Apantenco again and convinced the young mother that she really wanted the job. In a decision she regrets, Apantenco agreed that Johnson could pick up the girl that Monday morning.

"She sounded like somebody who would be capable of taking care of Melissa," Apantenco recalled. "I didn't like the idea of not meeting her, but that's just the way it happened. ... I think of all the mistakes I made. It's too late to go back."

When Johnson arrived at the Spanish Gate apartments on East Seminary Drive on Aug. 23, 1971, Apantenco was already at work. Apantenco's roommate would later tell police that the woman seemed nice, was wearing white gloves and appeared dressed to impress.

The roommate handed the woman a pink dress, a pair of white sandals and some diapers for Melissa, and the woman and child left.

Apantenco returned home from work and waited for her daughter to be brought back.

"She didn't come, and so I thought, well she's running a little late. I waited an hour. I was starting to get a little bit worried. Two hours went by and I said, 'Something's wrong.'" With no way to reach the woman, Apantenco called police. Within days the FBI would join in the search for Melissa.

A composite of the suspect was released to the media.

Days slipped into weeks, and weeks dissolved into months, with no word of Melissa's whereabouts.

Apantenco said she felt police and some of her relatives suspected that she was behind Melissa's disappearance, something she strongly denies.

"That baby was all I had. That was my world. When my world was taken away, I was crushed," she said. Apantenco said that for a time, she turned to alcohol and drugs.

"I cursed God," she said. "I said, 'Why don't you just kill me? You took my baby. Why don't you just kill me now?'"

Later, Apantenco said, she reclaimed her life, reuniting with Highsmith, whom she remarried in 1973.

Although she would never understand Melissa's disappearance, Apantenco said she came to accept it.

"I just believe that she was raised somewhere where someone loved her and was taking care of her," Apantenco said. "Maybe I wasn't a fit mother. I was young and stupid. Maybe God thought someone else needed to take care of her.

"But I've always believed that she was alive somewhere. I've never felt in my heart that she was dead."

Searching for a sister

Highsmith and Apantenco had three more daughters and a son together before separating again in 1998.

Their first daughter, Rebecca, born in 1974, seemed the spitting image of the older sister she would never meet. "I couldn't believe how much this baby looked like Melissa," Highsmith said. "You can never replace one child with another, but it was like the Lord was saying, 'I know you've lost your daughter, but I'm giving you more children.' I felt some joy in that."

Rebecca Delbosque, 31, said she grew up knowing she had an older sister. "There were a few times when my parents actually thought they found her. I remember them taking trips," Delbosque said. "Then it turned up not being her. I think that kind of discouraged them. They kind of gave up because no one was really helping them."

Delbosque said her father was open about talking about Melissa. She remembers poring through a file he kept at work filled with newspaper clippings about the abduction.

But in front of her mother, the topic of Melissa was taboo.

"I think my mom probably feels very guilty about what happened," Delbosque said. "She's very hurt."

Apantenco said the pain was then, and is still now, too great.

"When they brought her name up, I said I'm not going to talk about it. It hurts. It hurts so much," Apantenco said, breaking into tears. "I didn't put her photo in a frame where I could see it. I stored it all away. I kept them, and every once in a while I'd look through them for a few minutes and then put it away."

But the photographs that had been tucked away are seeing light again.

Detective Bryan Jamison reopened the case after a caller to the Star-Telegram raised questions about it. Although that call hasn't led to a break in the case, Jamison said he is hopeful that Melissa is still alive.

"I think they were probably correct initially when they assumed it was someone with a maternal instinct that wanted to have a child of their own and, for whatever reason, didn't," Jamison said.

Because of Melissa's age when taken, Jamison believes that her kidnapper could have easily concealed the girl. As the girl grew older, he theorizes, the woman could have enrolled her in school under a new identity.

"She could possibly be walking around today at 36 years of age, having no idea whatsoever that her mother is not her natural birth mother," Jamison said.

Using old photographs of Melissa and her parents, the National Center for Missing and Exploited Children has created a computer-generated photograph of what Melissa might look like today.

Jamison said he plans to send DNA samples from Melissa's parents to the University of North Texas Health Science Center. The database compares DNA samples from family members with unidentified remains.

"That's not exactly the ending we're looking for, but at least it would allow for closure," Jamison said.

For Melissa's family, any news would be welcome. "Even if she doesn't turn out to be living, at least my family will have the knowledge of how she grew up and what happened in her life, and we'll have some closure," Delbosque said.

But, like her parents, Delbosque said she believes her sister is alive. She'd like Melissa to one day meet her 9-year-old daughter, Caitlin Melissa Delbosque.

"I might have nieces or nephews or a brother-in-law I don't know about," Delbosque said. "Family is very important to me. I think it's important for my family -- my kids -- to know they have an aunt that is out there somewhere that they just don't know."

Anyone with information about the case is asked to call Jamison at (817) 392-4440.

Deanna Boyd, (817) 390-7655 dboyd@star-telegram.com (dboyd@star-telegram.com)

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