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Indiana at Heart
03-06-2008, 10:03 AM
TRENA FAITH SLINKARD (Abductor)
I would like to see if maybe we can find these children that she took, if this has been posted somewhere else on here please let me know
http://www.missingkids.com/missingkids/servlet/PubCaseSearchServlet?act=viewCsawDetail&caseNum=812593&orgPrefix=NCMC&seqNum=1&caseLang=en_US&searchLang=en_US
meggilyweggily
03-06-2008, 10:04 AM
http://www.charleyproject.org/cases/s/slinkard_andrew.html
http://www.charleyproject.org/cases/s/slinkard_nathan.html
http://www.charleyproject.org/cases/s/slinkard_sydney.html
Indiana at Heart
03-06-2008, 10:08 AM
Thanks I sure would like to find these children! It's one case that hit close to home has I'm from Indiana and getting ready to end back in a month to live after 17 years away. I want to find these children. I'm sure by now Mom has brainedwashed them!!!!!
forthelost
03-07-2008, 05:16 PM
www.forthelost.org/family/slinkard.html
letters to kids from dad: http://www.webbsleuths.com/dcf/MC/11.html
forthelost
03-07-2008, 05:27 PM
And I just found dad's myspace - http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewprofile&friendid=202767814
christine2448
10-03-2008, 08:39 PM
Thanks to Phenolred and her awesome sleuthing....we have a POSSIBLE match. After discussion with agent via tele, I sent this to FBI this morning at request of Pheno. (after rereading tonight it says "I" a lot, this is mostly copied and pasted from Pheno's emails to me!, Just to clarify, I am just the messenger here, all of this work was done by our awesome sleuther Phenolred!)
Dear Sir,
As promised, please see the below information.
http://www.fbi.gov/wanted/parent/slinkard.htm
We believe we have located Nathan (who would be 18 now) on MySpace. We did a side by side comparison of Nathans picture on FBI website and the MySpacer we found, to our untrained eyes, it is very similar.
http://i5.photobucket.com/albums/y171/christine2448/nathanchild.gif http://i5.photobucket.com/albums/y171/christine2448/possnathan.gif
He also has a couple of pics on there that say they are his sisters,
It's sideways but here it is compared with the missing sister Sydney I think the one in the red scarf looks like her
http://i5.photobucket.com/albums/y171/christine2448/nathansis.gif http://i5.photobucket.com/albums/y171/christine2448/sis.gif
link to his myspace
http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm...endid=26992990 (http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewprofile&friendid=26992990)
Also,
I found the Nathan Slinkard listing this as His MOTHER, she looks like Trena
http://i5.photobucket.com/albums/y171/christine2448/mom.gif
she is listing her age as 42 name SLINKYMOMMA
http://i5.photobucket.com/albums/y171/christine2448/possmomnow.gif http://i5.photobucket.com/albums/y171/christine2448/mom.gif http://i5.photobucket.com/albums/y171/christine2448/possmomnow2.gif
I understand this will be passed on to someone else to work on and I pray they will let us know the outcome so that our volunteers will know to continue working on this case or to close it.
We are a special group that works with missing and unidentifieds all over the country. We partner with families and law enforcement and you can get a sense of this organization by going to view our website contained within www.websleuths.com (http://www.websleuths.com/). What you see on the website is simply the tip of the iceberg. We work with the Georgia Bureau of Investigation, we participate in the Department of Justice initiative to get the DNA of the missing into central databases, we keep stories alive in the media and we support law enforcement any way we can. We are foot soldiers.
Recent case in the news:
http://www.abc15.com/content/news/in...c-c0ff7835d010
TRUE CRIME REPORT
If you need some further verification of legitimacy we are working with Bill Kirkconnell, Savannah office of the FBI regarding an amnesia victim and his possible identity, Mr. Benjaman Kyle.
I appreciate your time, consideration and attention!
Regards,
Christine Jones
www.websleuths.com (http://www.websleuths.com/)
Idaho4Groenes
10-03-2008, 11:03 PM
Wow! That appears to be very likely! Have you (or phenolred) heard back from the father? What does he think?
forthelost
10-04-2008, 04:26 PM
I'll be very happy if that is indeed the case. I wish you guys luck.
Cubby
10-06-2008, 10:36 AM
I don't see how this could not be him. Friend message copied from Mar 2008: Mar 19 2008 12:05 PM
mr. slinkard! what are you doing this weekend?
or any of the next few days for that matter. lol i don't have school and work. so let's do something fun.
:)
Awesome find phenolred!
winston
10-06-2008, 12:15 PM
I find it interesting that one of his college courses is Criminal Justice. If you compare the baseball pic with the pic of Nathan at 5 its a striking resemblance. Except for the eye color. Its listed as brown on the wanted poster and they are blue in one of the Hawaii shots.
phenolred
10-06-2008, 01:22 PM
I find it interesting that one of his college courses is Criminal Justice. If you compare the baseball pic with the pic of Nathan at 5 its a striking resemblance. Except for the eye color. Its listed as brown on the wanted poster and they are blue in one of the Hawaii shots.
I thought the exact thing about the Criminal Justice Course, I need to go back and take a look at what you are referring to on the Eye color thing.
Are you sure that it wasnt the Brother that had a different color eyes. Andrew Slinkard.
Also, wanted to mention I found something else on myspace (different profile) but Im in a huge hurry right now I will post it when I get back....
winston
10-06-2008, 02:43 PM
Here is a crop of the pic I was speaking of. The other brother has black eyes and the sister has blue eyes.
believe09
10-06-2008, 02:54 PM
Thanks to Phenolred and her awesome sleuthing....we have a POSSIBLE match. After discussion with agent via tele, I sent this to FBI this morning at request of Pheno. (after rereading tonight it says "I" a lot, this is mostly copied and pasted from Pheno's emails to me!, Just to clarify, I am just the messenger here, all of this work was done by our awesome sleuther Phenolred!)
Dear Sir,
As promised, please see the below information.
http://www.fbi.gov/wanted/parent/slinkard.htm
We believe we have located Nathan (who would be 18 now) on MySpace. We did a side by side comparison of Nathans picture on FBI website and the MySpacer we found, to our untrained eyes, it is very similar.
http://i5.photobucket.com/albums/y171/christine2448/nathanchild.gif http://i5.photobucket.com/albums/y171/christine2448/possnathan.gif
He also has a couple of pics on there that say they are his sisters,
It's sideways but here it is compared with the missing sister Sydney I think the one in the red scarf looks like her
http://i5.photobucket.com/albums/y171/christine2448/nathansis.gif http://i5.photobucket.com/albums/y171/christine2448/sis.gif
link to his myspace
http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm...endid=26992990 (http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewprofile&friendid=26992990)
Also,
I found the Nathan Slinkard listing this as His MOTHER, she looks like Trena
http://i5.photobucket.com/albums/y171/christine2448/mom.gif
she is listing her age as 42 name SLINKYMOMMA
http://i5.photobucket.com/albums/y171/christine2448/possmomnow.gif http://i5.photobucket.com/albums/y171/christine2448/mom.gif http://i5.photobucket.com/albums/y171/christine2448/possmomnow2.gif
I understand this will be passed on to someone else to work on and I pray they will let us know the outcome so that our volunteers will know to continue working on this case or to close it.
We are a special group that works with missing and unidentifieds all over the country. We partner with families and law enforcement and you can get a sense of this organization by going to view our website contained within www.websleuths.com (http://www.websleuths.com/). What you see on the website is simply the tip of the iceberg. We work with the Georgia Bureau of Investigation, we participate in the Department of Justice initiative to get the DNA of the missing into central databases, we keep stories alive in the media and we support law enforcement any way we can. We are foot soldiers.
Recent case in the news:
http://www.abc15.com/content/news/in...c-c0ff7835d010
TRUE CRIME REPORT
If you need some further verification of legitimacy we are working with Bill Kirkconnell, Savannah office of the FBI regarding an amnesia victim and his possible identity, Mr. Benjaman Kyle.
I appreciate your time, consideration and attention!
Regards,
Christine Jones
www.websleuths.com (http://www.websleuths.com/)
Any word, Christine??
phenolred
10-06-2008, 04:03 PM
Im back as promised I found another person going by Slinkard using a different first name but HE ALSO looks remarkably like Nathan Slinkard, and now that I look at him closer he has brown eyes and he sort of resembles Andrew Slinkard as well as Nathan, and the person I think might be his mother ( this person is shown on the myspace too) She is show with very bright red hair looks to be dyed red to me.
i did some side by side pics see what u think
Cubby
10-06-2008, 04:53 PM
amazing work Phen'! As for the blue eyes, they look blue in some, brown in others. My mother has hazel brown eyes. We call them hazel because they are brown on the outside with the blue color closer to the iris. My eyes are odd in that they have a mustard color on the inside. I'm still undecided on what to call them, as they are more aqua/mustard but call them green?
Also, it would be quite easy to play around with eye color on photo bucket or numerous sites.... as well as color appearances from clothing or background.
Phen, I showed this to my moms SO last night. He was LE for 20+ years, and Cheif of police ages ago in a tiny town in IL. He has almost no interest in cases these days and usually listens to appease me... He REALLY studied these pics and I saw something in his eyes, I have not seen with any other cases I have mentioned.
The new pics you posted really resemble Andrew. WOW!
I hope someone has screensaved this, as I am concerned about it disappearing, and of course concerned about parental alienation and whatever Trena might have said about the childrens father....
If this is really them, how did she get away with enrolling them in school etc. etc... under the same last name as it appears and no one caught on?
IF this is a match, we really need to investigate how the system failed.... in all regards.
phenolred
10-06-2008, 05:21 PM
Hi Cubby Wow that is very interesting.
I really need to go in and save the screen shots....
and OMG I just did a side by side comparison of the age enhanced photo of Trena Slinkard with the Red Headed Slinkard lady and OH WOW they really DO LOOK LIKE THE SAME PERSON to ME....
What do you guys think? Im really excited about this one......
Christine I dont think we sent this one to the FBI to look at but wow she looks just like her to me.....
I am going to try to give the ae enhanced pic red hair and see what we get
this one gave me goosebumps
Cubby
10-06-2008, 05:28 PM
Phen, the other picture on either the FBI site, or Charley project really resembles Trena.
I am worried now about parental alienation, and what might have been said about dad. I am fearing the children not wanting to talk to dad.... after so much reading about parental alienation. I am glad to know resources exist here at WS, and at Charley Project as well as other places to assist in that avenue.
I had the same feeling about Tawni..... we knew and just had to wait out that confirmation. I have the same certainty with these tips and what you found... but what if Mom is tipped off and tries to run again?
My prayers for the Slinkard father and children.
Julessleuther
10-06-2008, 05:30 PM
Great work--I think they look so similar!! I would not be surprised if you have found a match!!
Hi Cubby Wow that is very interesting.
I really need to go in and save the screen shots....
and OMG I just did a side by side comparison of the age enhanced photo of Trena Slinkard with the Red Headed Slinkard lady and OH WOW they really DO LOOK LIKE THE SAME PERSON to ME....
What do you guys think? Im really excited about this one......
Christine I dont think we sent this one to the FBI to look at but wow she looks just like her to me.....
I am going to try to give the ae enhanced pic red hair and see what we get
this one gave me goosebumps
ginzy
10-06-2008, 05:36 PM
that is the same smile...has anyone notified the father?
Lucy's mom
10-06-2008, 05:38 PM
I think if Trena has dimples, then that is a great match! Keeping my fingers crossed! Good job Phenol!
phenolred
10-06-2008, 05:43 PM
Ok I did a side by side of the age enhanced pic ( in which I changed the hair to red as best I could LOL) and the woman with red hair
what do you think
phenolred
10-06-2008, 05:49 PM
Phen, the other picture on either the FBI site, or Charley project really resembles Trena.
I am worried now about parental alienation, and what might have been said about dad. I am fearing the children not wanting to talk to dad.... after so much reading about parental alienation. I am glad to know resources exist here at WS, and at Charley Project as well as other places to assist in that avenue.
I had the same feeling about Tawni..... we knew and just had to wait out that confirmation. I have the same certainty with these tips and what you found... but what if Mom is tipped off and tries to run again?
My prayers for the Slinkard father and children.
yes I know what you mean, who knows what those poor children have been told about their father, I had read that they thought they might have been told he died.
however he has blogs out there documenting birthdays and
pouring his heart out to his kids for years so they could always go back and read the posts that he has written for years about him being heartsick about them being gone.
They might not even know he is looking for them which sure beats them being brainwashed against him which could also be a possibility
Oh the funny thing is with the red hair lady and the boy that is named slinkard on myspace that looks like Andrew, they are listed as being in TEXAS which based on the missing reports that is one of the states they indicate they could have fled to when they left Indiana
Lucy's mom
10-06-2008, 06:10 PM
Ok I did a side by side of the age enhanced pic ( in which I changed the hair to red as best I could LOL) and the woman with red hair
what do you think
Dang, you're good! :blowkiss:
Nose looks the same. Smile looks the same. The teeth look different (however the lady with red hair is not a close up so can't really tell) as well as the eyes and the eyebrows.
audrey77
10-06-2008, 10:35 PM
I hope she doesn't see this and run!
Cubby
10-07-2008, 01:22 AM
yes I know what you mean, who knows what those poor children have been told about their father, I had read that they thought they might have been told he died.
however he has blogs out there documenting birthdays and
pouring his heart out to his kids for years so they could always go back and read the posts that he has written for years about him being heartsick about them being gone.
They might not even know he is looking for them which sure beats them being brainwashed against him which could also be a possibility
Oh the funny thing is with the red hair lady and the boy that is named slinkard on myspace that looks like Andrew, they are listed as being in TEXAS which based on the missing reports that is one of the states they indicate they could have fled to when they left Indiana
I saw that, and I/we know enough about parental alienation....
and we have the resources here at WS, if that is the case.... many offered on links from Charley project amongst others...
I'm just afraid after so long the children being over age... I pray they will be open to talking to dad..... a dad, who we have documentation going waaaay back...
I pray the children have someone in their life so they have an adult example of two sides. two stories... one may be different than the other, but look at both sides...
I pray they have some yearning for dad... and to wonder or know about dad. On one hand, it has been so long... on the other hand, they are old enough to make their own decision and I pray they have had some examples from both genders... to embrace dad and forgive/understand mom... though I know that will take a lot...
Though I do NOT condone kidnapping your kid...
I am a never married single mom and as much as I could live without my sons father - we have a child together - and our child having BOTH parents comes first.... we are old as or older than Trena... with a kg'r.... as much as he gets on my nerves, and court - years of it, got on my nerves.... our child knows none of that... and it is between us as parents for us to work out.... You just DO it for your child... Oh. I pray these children are able to find that within themselves. They are almost adults now and have missed out on a father for soooo long....
It is very cool that docs support many letters to them for ages ago....
and we know... we have links and resources from here for the childrens situation too..... What a wonderful thing about WS.... :blowkiss:
Everyone else asked, have you talked to or heard from dad?
MrsG728
10-07-2008, 02:01 AM
nothing good on facebook except that the location of some slinkards matches up with Kansas City, MO
phenolred
10-07-2008, 10:05 AM
This is sad i found a posting looking for them from 1995 on Cyberpages for the missing the same year they were taken
Sydney Faith Slinkard White Female born Apr.05,1992.Aprox.35 Lbs.3'tall.Blonde hair Blue eyes. Birthmark on right calf. Taken by mother Trena Faith Slinkard. Thought to be in Mexico or near Longview , Texas. City: Email: musicmaster@iquest.net (musicmaster@iquest.net) Entry #19 added on December 30, 1995
Nathan Phillip Slinkard White Male born Aug.01,1990. Aprox. 45 Lbs.3'6" tall.Blond Hair and Brown Eyes.A small scar on his right wrist and also on his right abdomen.Taken by Trena Faith Slinkard and posibly in Mexico or near Longview,Texas. City: Email: musicmaster@iquest.net (musicmaster@iquest.net) Entry #18 added on December 30, 1995
Andrew Thomas Slinkard White male born Sept. 14 1988 , Aprox. 50 Lb. and 4' tall.Brown Hair and Dark Brown eyes.as of Oct.1995 he was missing two front teeth. Taken from his father by Trena Faith Slinkard during a custody battle. Thought to be in Mexico or near Longview Texas. City: Email: musicmaster@iquest.net (musicmaster@iquest.net) Entry #16 added on December 30, 1995
phenolred
10-07-2008, 10:06 AM
More info from the dads page
Sydney may have a birthmark on the left side of her neck and on her calf. Nathan has a surgical scar on the right side of his abdomen and a scar on his inner, right wrist. Trena has a half-moon shaped scar between her nose and upper lip and a mole on the right side of her jaw line. She may use the alias last names Mahurin or Scott. They have been missing for 12 almost 13 years now.There have been spotting all the way from Mexico to California to even Illinois. PlEASE! We need your help to find these kids and bringing them home. Their mother may have told thm that their family [Dad and Grandmother] died in a car accident or that they abanded them as children. These are my family. Please help us find them and bring them home!
phenolred
10-07-2008, 11:57 AM
I found a link to where the Slinkard Kids dad was on CNN in 2001
here is a bit and then the link to the CNN transcripts
It says they think they shaved the little girls head and dressed her as a boy right after they left with her......POOR THING
KELLEY: So, that is hopeful at least. Steven, you believe that your wife has your three children? Is that right?
STEVEN SLINKARD, FATHER OF MISSING CHILDREN: Yes, ma'am.
KELLEY: And where do you think she's taken them?
SLINKARD: I have no idea. We're not sure if she is in United States or if she is taken the children to Mexico with the gentlemen that she had married about a year after she took off with the kids.
KELLEY: How long have they been gone?
SLINKARD: Since October 17, 1995. So about five years and nine months. KELLEY: Well, now we have some pictures of them. And that's another problem, but it's the new technology that may be of help. Can you tell us about the kids and as we look at them, we've done some of this new technology that actually ages the children?
And your little girl, you thought they have changed her appearance allegedly when your wife took her and took the kids?
SLINKARD: Evidently, they shaved her head and dressed her like a little boy for period of time to kind of change from two girls -- or a girl and two boys. So, into three boys
http://premium.asia.cnn.com/TRANSCRIPTS/0107/07/cst.09.html
MrsG728
10-07-2008, 12:15 PM
I just thought of something, and when I tested it on facebook, it worked! Check the last name SLINK instead
I just thought that because the last name is slinkard and may be too easy to find, how about "slink". When I tested it out on facebook, there are hundreds of people with that last name, slink! One of them is Nate Slink. and is listed as being in Bakersfield, California! It doesn't show his picture BUT
he's only friends with one person, a girl, and her picture on Her profile shows her and a guy nuzzling. This is clearly her boyfriend. Now, I can't view either of their profiles since i am not their "friend", but I can view her friends. She's from Canada, and is a graduate of a HS called Sir Sanford Fleming academy.
That's where most of her friends are from, and I don't see anyone else who is friends in bakersfield california. IF she went away to college, she'd have friends on her facebook from California, etc. but she doesn't. She has all friends from Toronto.
This leads me to believe that this nate slink is in canada right now. I could be wrong, but you never know.
BBL w/more after I sleuth more.
MrsG728
10-07-2008, 01:45 PM
nothing more on facebook. I may have hit a dead end.
phenolred
10-07-2008, 04:54 PM
I just found ALOT of info from posting by the father OLD ONES but they do contain ALOT of INFO that is NEW to me and will help in out search I think...
this is from 1999
I will highlight all the new info in RED LETTERS
Andrew, Nathan & Sydney Slinkard were abducted on 10/17/95, by their non-custodial mother
Trena Slinkard. I have sole custody of all three of my children. Trena was assisted by her mother
Maydell Joyce Basso, whom is still frequently traveling with them.
There aren't any warrants for Maydell, but Trena has a state felony warrant for "Violation of a
Custody Order" and an FBI warrant for "Unlawful Flight To Avoid Prosecution"
There is another person whom also assisted with their abduction and is now Trena's new husband
Miguel Karlin. Mr. Karlin, as of one year ago, was one of Indianapolis, Indiana's Top Ten Most Wanted.
Trena and her mother both knew this when they took off, because Maydell Basso told me that she
had given Miguel $3000 to leave the state because he was facing six years in prison.
It was much to my surprise, when I was informed about six months later that Miguel and Trena had
actually left together and that they were having an affair. The FBI later informed me that they were
married on Father's Day 1996.
Prior to their abduction Trena purchased complete new identities for my children, herself and I
assume Miguel. Miguel already has six alias identities and I'm unsure whether he is an American citizen
or Mexican National.
I don't know how to forward my children's photograph's to you, but they are listed with the National
Center for Missing & Exploited Children and the new age progressions are listed as well. Miguel Karlin's
photograph is listed on APB Online, but I'm not sure if you'd be able to use that or not. Karen Ireland
was my contact person there and writes the stories on Missing Children.
I know that you already had my story on your web site, but I thought that I would include it again. I
hope that you don't mind and I hope that it helps.
Thank you so very much for taking your valuable time to read my story and for all of the attention
that you give to your web site. It truly is appreciated by all the victim families and friends of the
missing. Steven Slinkard
.................................................. .................................................. ANYONE HAVING
INFORMATION SHOULD CONTACT : Office of the Prosecutor (Hancock County, Indiana) -
1-317-462-1139
Or Your Local FBI
phenolred
10-07-2008, 05:00 PM
oh this is just heartbreaking posted june 18 2001 by the dad
My little angels; Andrew, Nathan and Sydney,
Yesterday was Father's Day and after almost six years, I still have no idea where you are. Please know that I will never give up the hope that we will be reunited, and I will never stop searching for you. I miss you so much. For as long as I can remember, my dream has always been, to have children and for my children to know wholeheartedly that they are loved. Each of you have been a dream come true and a blessing that only the Lord could give. I haven't been with you since October 16th, 1995, but you have always been with me in my heart and the visions of you are always in my mind. The last night that we were together Andrew, you asked me for a picture of myself, so that you would never forget me. I wish that I could have found a picture to give to you. I wish that I would have known what you meant when you asked me for that picture, and the heartache and loneliness that you must have had knowing that you were being taken away, never to see your daddy again. I believe that my prayers will be answered someday and we will be together again. I hope that you will read these messages one day and understand that I posted them for each of you, so that you would always know that I love you, miss you and that it was not my choice to be away from you. I love you Andrew, Nathan and Sydney with all of my heart, Daddy.
phenolred
10-07-2008, 05:12 PM
On one hand, we want to do anything to find our children- we'll hang up flyers, place their pictures on the internet, travel across the world to track down possible leads and whatever else it takes to find them. On the other hand, if we give out information to whomever asks for it, we could inadvertantly say something that would jeapordize their recovery.
I have a problem with divulging information, especially on the internet for all to read. We had a private investigator that offered his services for free in an area of the USA, and after giving him all the information, known and unknown, that we had gathered on the family, and of the possible locations of my children- we couldn't understand why the information failed to gather any leads or find my children. It just so happened that a lawsuit came about in another case that he was investigating and during the investigation of his conduct from that case, the courts informed us that he was actually working for Trena's family, gathering all the information that we had on them, so that they would know how to proceed in their abducting affairs.
The local detective and I learned a valuable and costly lesson concerning trust, and we have been as careful as humanly possible since that day.
Post #4: The authorities have placed the concentration on finding the abductors and grandmother. It was the grandmother that introduced Trena to the felon from Indiana that she eventially married on father's day 1996. The grandmother had even moved this man into her home, under the guise that he was helping take care of her 12 acre property, that she couldn't
do alone.
Their names and personal information were changed before they were even abducted. They purchased new identities from some individuals in Indianapolis that make fake ID's for a living. This has been one of the biggest obstacles, in my opinion, because we don't know who they have become.
My children are with their mother and it's well known that her family has constant contact with them. Their grandmother does visit them, but how they get this done, I have no clue.
Concerning photo's, from my understanding we could only use Trena's and her husbands, because they both have warrants for arrest. The grandmother and brother were indicted by the Grand Jury, but have no current warrants for them, so to avoid a law suit for myself or web site administrator's, I will have to avoid using the grandmother's photo.
They got mixed up in Feb. or March 1995, after Trena's mother introduced and helped them continue their affair until we finally seperated, then they began living together, with her blessings of course.
Yes, there was a custody battle; Trena wanted custody of the children, but live in Texas- mainly because the boyfriend was facing several years in prison here in Indiana. I told her that if she would live in Indianapolis, we could have joint custody, but if she wanted to live elsewhere then I wanted sole custody. At this point, we were heading to our first court hearing and I was still unaware of this man and Trena's relationship. Trena had never been in trouble with the law prior to all of this craziness.
I believe that Trena's mother and maybe two or three others know Trena's whereabouts. The grandmother financed the whole abduction. It was also Trena's mother that had her set-up a bank account for herself, in our first year of marriage and we were married eight years, for "When" we divorced, not "If" we divorced. I found this out after my children were missing about six or eight months, and a relative told me about it at church one night. I was needless to say, stunned. Yes, that is interferring or obstructing an investigation, but they haven't cooperated at all and from my understanding, can't be forced to divulge info. if they don't want to. I wish they would be found in contempt of court for failing to provide info, but that has yet to happen. The authorities have tried to get them to cooperate, but all to no avail.
I wish that I knew if she has put them in school, but I don't know the answer to that. Birth Certificates, I don't know if she had fake ones made up when they put together their other information. The nationwide fax to all schools, is actually a good idea and one that I will inquire about. If it's something that I can do, I will surely get that done. Although, when they had the ID's made, I understood that they changed all of their info., including the SSN's.
I was given a message the night before the final court hearing from Trena and her father relayed it to me; "You should have known better than to ever make me mad". I didn't give in to her request to live in Texas and keep the custody of my children and me visit them every other week. It was over 1000 miles away, one-way to visit them and by the time I got there after work, it would be time to leave again. I wanted my children near me, so I could watch them grow up and be a factor in their lives, not just some guy they see for a few minutes once in a while.
I have Sole Custody.
Her phone records are almost impossible to retrieve, since her mother doesn't have a home of her own any longer and travels extensively, and lives with other family and friends, when she is not with Trena. They took off at the exact same time and except for once in a while, when her mother sneaks back to Indiana, she doesn't come to this state.
Trena left with alot of money and through her mother, has the financial means to continue.
No, they have never considered foul play in this case. Trena has never been a victim and she is a kidnapper.
I hope that this post has answered some of your requests or comments that you have provided. I hope that you will continue to help me find my children,Thank you for your time and any attention you can give to find my missing children, Andrew, Nathan & Sydney.
phenolred
10-07-2008, 05:17 PM
last bit of info sorry so long but all these contained important information relavent to the search
I was told that my children had been informed that I had, "Died". Maybe that is why they haven't tried to look for me. I wish I knew what they had been told and how I could let them know the truth, and how to find me.
Trena's mother had a considerable amount of money when she left. There was death insurance from her husband, the sale of her home and money in the bank. Those finances won't last forever, esp. when you are helping people on the run, but I don't know what prospects she has for the future. Yes, it is very possible that they left the country
phenolred
10-07-2008, 05:28 PM
I just sent an email to the dads sister to see if she can take a look at the trena comparison
I would also like to start a search for the GRANDMA.....I think if we find HER we find the KIDS.
also found out that the dad appears to be running for county coroner here in Indiana
GRANDMOTHER THAT HELPED THEM AND WHO I THINK KNOWS WHERE THEY ARE HER NAME IS
Maydell Joyce Basso
phenolred
10-07-2008, 06:02 PM
after looking up the Grandmas name I found this girl using that last name Susie Basso, and somewhere it said greenfeild indiana but she really looks like Trena to me I wonder if she has a sister?
Susie Basso, and it looks like she might have a mole on her right cheek they said Trena had a mole on the right side of her Jawline
oh and it is a post looking for freelance work
http://app-susie-basso-1.aidpage.com/
raeann
10-07-2008, 09:11 PM
Phenolred, Christine and all....this is a very interesting case and looks like you have done great work so far!
Since I live not too far from the Kansas City area, one thing from this information really stood out and surprised me. The school listed on the possible MySpace page for Nathan is Belton, Missouri. That is the same high school that Kara Kopetsky disappeared from in May 2007. I know there is probably absolutely no connection, but it just jumped out at me when I saw that school listed as where he graduated from!
CuriousCity
10-07-2008, 10:57 PM
The last known address record I can find for the grandmother is under the first name "May" in 1999 - Indianapolis.
MrsG728
10-08-2008, 01:11 AM
I found a few in Indiana, too under that name. 13, to be exact. She may have moved around a bit.
:doh: This is so complicated, knowing nothing about the names now. UGH. I have to dig my heels in and get back to work.
Cubby
10-13-2008, 10:53 PM
Phenolred - Any news from dads sister?
wadahoot
10-26-2009, 06:02 AM
I live in Indy ... is there anything I can do (lookups, drive arounds, etc.) that would help?
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