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southcitymom
04-27-2008, 05:05 PM
For purposes of the discussion of this case, whether FLDS is a cult or a religion does not matter much to me. But since different posters keep referring to it as one or the other, I guess we should spend some time figuring it our here....

Floh
04-27-2008, 05:08 PM
This is a very difficult question. is a religion not a cult of kind? :confused:

what is the difference?

thanks for starting the thread SCM.

southcitymom
04-27-2008, 05:23 PM
This is a very difficult question. is a religion not a cult of kind? :confused:

what is the difference?

thanks for starting the thread SCM.

Hey Floh! :) As I said on one of the endless earlier threads, I have never been able to make a satisfactory distinction. "Religions" have "cultish" aspects and "cults" have "religious" aspects. The line is completely blurred because it is all a matter of perspective.

Are you being brainwashed against your will or is it your will to stay? Two different people might give a very different answer. Who gets to decide which answer is right.

It seems that lots of people start throwing around the "cult" word when they perceive a certain mode of spritual belief/practice to be dangerous and scary. That's not a definition I find particularly helpful.

I look at "religion" and "cult" as, for all practical purposes, synonymous terms.

KOOL LOOK
04-27-2008, 06:05 PM
I don't know alot about the terming. I only have this to add for the time being. The Bible mentions the Occult, dark principalities and forces, magic, soothsayers and witches, I don't know if this is how the word "Cult" was derived.

In the Bible the Lord likens controlling others to these practices listed above. So whether your in a cult or not, the Lord considers you to be of that nature if your even forcing your will upon another. For we know he created mankind to be free and with self will.

Cults do exist. People do practice the occult, witchery and magic. Yes curses can be spoken and accomplished by the one wishing harm for their on the dark side and do not walk in the light. Hope this helps the discussion. I'm actually quiet up to speed on these types of matters and concerning God's spoken word and meaning of such practices.

Floh
04-27-2008, 06:09 PM
Hey Floh! :) As I said on one of the endless earlier threads, I have never been able to make a satisfactory distinction. "Religions" have "cultish" aspects and "cults" have "religious" aspects. The line is completely blurred because it is all a matter of perspective.

Are you being brainwashed against your will or is it your will to stay? Two different people might give a very different answer. Who gets to decide which answer is right.

It seems that lots of people start throwing around the "cult" word when they perceive a certain mode of spritual belief/practice to be dangerous and scary. That's not a definition I find particularly helpful.

I look at "religion" and "cult" as, for all practical purposes, synonymous terms.

I do too, as it happens. there may be things we disagree upon, you and i: this isn't one of them. reason being all things you've mentioned in your post: it's all relative, *innit? :)

i do deeply abhor what i have learned over the 11 years i have known of FLDS practices, though. and cult or no, i'm against them.

*innit = isn't it — lazy British English amongst commoners.

adnoid
04-27-2008, 06:18 PM
This is a very difficult question. is a religion not a cult of kind? :confused:

what is the difference?

thanks for starting the thread SCM.

A cult is a small, unpopular religion.

A religion is a large, popular cult.

southcitymom
04-27-2008, 06:55 PM
A cult is a small, unpopular religion.

A religion is a large, popular cult.

Exactly!

southcitymom
04-27-2008, 06:57 PM
I do too, as it happens. there may be things we disagree upon, you and i: this isn't one of them. reason being all things you've mentioned in your post: it's all relative, *innit? :)

i do deeply abhor what i have learned over the 11 years i have known of FLDS practices, though. and cult or no, i'm against them.

*innit = isn't it — lazy British English amongst commoners.

Perhaps this should be a new thread, Floh, but why now? People have been talking about (and ignoring or live and let living) abhorrent FLDS practices for over a decade as you point out. Did Texas not care about the children until it received a crank phone call?

Jolynna
04-27-2008, 07:10 PM
A cult is whatever you don't agree with. (IMO)

According to some books found in the Christian section of Barnes and Nobles, both the Church of Latter Day Saints (Mormons) and Jehovah Witnesses are cults.

However, people that belong to those denominations consider themselves the true Christians.

If you are Sikh, Muslim, Hindu and Budhist, Bahai etc. you have a different definition of true religion.

I think cult is a word that is used too freely. But, if you think you will be killed for choosing to leave and the area where you are living is fenced to keep you in...you might be part of a cult.

My opinion only.

Floh
04-27-2008, 07:12 PM
A cult is a small, unpopular religion.

A religion is a large, popular cult.

By George i think you've got it! :woohoo:

Floh
04-27-2008, 07:15 PM
Perhaps this should be a new thread, Floh, but why now? People have been talking about (and ignoring or live and let living) abhorrent FLDS practices for over a decade as you point out. Did Texas not care about the children until it received a crank phone call?

Yes, i think they did. i think they were awaiting the right moment to act and they believe they have their ducks in an infallible row. to be continued . . .

Floh
04-27-2008, 07:19 PM
A cult is whatever you don't agree with. (IMO)

According to some books found in the Christian section of Barnes and Nobles, both the Church of Latter Day Saints (Mormons) and Jehovah Witnesses are cults.

However, people that belong to those denominations consider themselves the true Christians.

If you are Sikh, Muslim, Hindu and Budhist, Bahai etc. you have a different definition of true religion.

I think cult is a word that is used too freely. But, if you think you will be killed for choosing to leave and the area where you are living is fenced to keep you in...you might be part of a cult.

My opinion only.

I should coco! :eek:

Truly
04-27-2008, 07:28 PM
Perhaps this should be a new thread, Floh, but why now? People have been talking about (and ignoring or live and let living) abhorrent FLDS practices for over a decade as you point out. Did Texas not care about the children until it received a crank phone call?
David Steed Allred lied when he bought the YFZ property in Texas in, I believe, 2004. Local neighbors thought it was going to be a hunting retreat. When the barbed-wire fences went up (facing in!) and the armed guards were posted in their night-vision goggles, the locals started to wonder.

Texas did not go in to disturb anyone's religion. Religion vs cult is an interesting discussion, but Texas has not intruded on their beliefs. Child Protective Services has responded to allegations of child abuse. Warren Jeffs was prosecuted for accomplice to the rape of a child. His religious beliefs did not even enter the picture. He broke the law. He was charged with violating those specific laws, not for belonging to a religion. That is the case here as well. They will prosecute those men who broke the laws regarding sex with children. Not for their religious beliefs.

Jolynna
04-27-2008, 07:35 PM
A cult is a small, unpopular religion.

A religion is a large, popular cult.

I think at some point a line can be crossed.

The Jim Jones group, the people that killed themselves waiting for spaceships and the group from Missouri that killed an entire family (including children) and buried them in a barn...they did those things in the name of religion.

I think I would define a cult as when the group injures(or worse) people to get to heaven. (or because their religious leader tells them "God says so".)

IMO

southcitymom
04-27-2008, 10:42 PM
I think at some point a line can be crossed.

The Jim Jones group, the people that killed themselves waiting for spaceships and the group from Missouri that killed an entire family (including children) and buried them in a barn...they did those things in the name of religion.

I think I would define a cult as when the group injures(or worse) people to get to heaven. (or because their religious leader tells them "God says so".)

IMO

Some Islamic fundamentalists injure themselves and others to get to heaven, yet I believe most of us recognize Islam as a religion.

Also, I am assuming you mean when a group injures physically, it is a cult because religions the world over injure people emotionally and spiritually and mentally and psychologically all the time because the leader tells them to.

Finally - those folks who kill themselves and/or others (like Jim Jones, the spaceship people, etc..) to get to heaven - we don't know that they didn't. We can call something a crazy-a$$ cult, but honestly, for all we know - they're (you know - the nutty ones) right and we're (you know - the sane ones) wrong.

Religion and cults both hinge on faith. Faith is the belief in things that we can't verify with the knowledge at our human disposal. One man's faith may be another man's folly, but we can't really know who's right and who's wrong.

Leila
04-28-2008, 04:17 AM
I believe that a religion is a choice freely made - to choose to join a particular religion. A religion is open to all, welcoming guests, and engaging in dialog about beliefs. Members are free to choose to leave a religion if they don't agree with the tenets of that religion. In some mainstream religions, members don't always follow all the rules. As an example, when the Catholic church back in the 60's issued a rule about not using birth control other than abstinence, many Catholics used contraceptives.

A cult, on the other hand, is usually secretive and not open to public scrutiny. There is a dominant person within the cult that is revered to the point of worship. Members are expected to conform to a set of rigid rules with no deviation. Once involved in a cult, a person finds it difficult to leave the cult, and in some cases is forced to stay against their will.

mysteriew
04-28-2008, 04:32 AM
I believe that a religion is a choice freely made - to choose to join a particular religion. A religion is open to all, welcoming guests, and engaging in dialog about beliefs. Members are free to choose to leave a religion if they don't agree with the tenets of that religion. In some mainstream religions, members don't always follow all the rules. As an example, when the Catholic church back in the 60's issued a rule about not using birth control other than abstinence, many Catholics used contraceptives.

A cult, on the other hand, is usually secretive and not open to public scrutiny. There is a dominant person within the cult that is revered to the point of worship. Members are expected to conform to a set of rigid rules with no deviation. Once involved in a cult, a person finds it difficult to leave the cult, and in some cases is forced to stay against their will.

Well said and I agree.

southcitymom
04-28-2008, 02:30 PM
I believe that a religion is a choice freely made - to choose to join a particular religion. A religion is open to all, welcoming guests, and engaging in dialog about beliefs. Members are free to choose to leave a religion if they don't agree with the tenets of that religion. In some mainstream religions, members don't always follow all the rules. As an example, when the Catholic church back in the 60's issued a rule about not using birth control other than abstinence, many Catholics used contraceptives.

A cult, on the other hand, is usually secretive and not open to public scrutiny. There is a dominant person within the cult that is revered to the point of worship. Members are expected to conform to a set of rigid rules with no deviation. Once involved in a cult, a person finds it difficult to leave the cult, and in some cases is forced to stay against their will.

That is well-said.

Medusa
04-28-2008, 11:38 PM
I don't know alot about the terming. I only have this to add for the time being. The Bible mentions the Occult, dark principalities and forces, magic, soothsayers and witches, I don't know if this is how the word "Cult" was derived.

In the Bible the Lord likens controlling others to these practices listed above. So whether your in a cult or not, the Lord considers you to be of that nature if your even forcing your will upon another. For we know he created mankind to be free and with self will.

Cults do exist. People do practice the occult, witchery and magic. Yes curses can be spoken and accomplished by the one wishing harm for their on the dark side and do not walk in the light. Hope this helps the discussion. I'm actually quiet up to speed on these types of matters and concerning God's spoken word and meaning of such practices.

"Witchery" or Witchcraft is not as cult. It is a religion, just like any other.


ETA - I think we should keep this to the topic at hand, the FLDS, and not start making statements about other faiths.

Floh
04-29-2008, 02:04 AM
"Witchery" or Witchcraft is not as cult. It is a religion, just like any other.


ETA - I think we should keep this to the topic at hand, the FLDS, and not start making statements about other faiths.

Hear hear. :)

Spotted1
04-29-2008, 08:17 PM
A cult is a small, unpopular religion.

A religion is a large, popular cult.

Amen.

txsvicki
04-29-2008, 08:38 PM
Established world religions usually follow the laws of their country. Cults want to be their own law and break the laws of society. In my opinion, most cults are nothing but psychopaths trying to create and enslave other psychopaths.

csds703
04-29-2008, 08:59 PM
Established world religions usually follow the laws of their country. Cults want to be their own law and break the laws of society. In my opinion, most cults are nothing but psychopaths trying to create and enslave other psychopaths.

That's not necessarily true. Look at the people who have denied medical help or vaccines and claim it is their religious right.
Look at how different religious groups try to get their beliefs to become laws.

Vegas Bride
04-29-2008, 09:42 PM
A cult to me is something that uses many forms of force to keep their members, both physical, emotional and spiritual. The breaking down of the persons spirit to keep them in line.
A religion, to me is something that helps build a persons spirit up.

I do not belong to any specific religion but have visited many different churches through the years to explore their faiths, with each one I was made to feel welcome and was always free to leave, never any type of pressure. With the flds, if there was anyone wishing to leave and could not do so in broad daylight with everyone watching, then to me that spells c u l t.

VB

Pepper
04-29-2008, 09:46 PM
That's not necessarily true. Look at the people who have denied medical help or vaccines and claim it is their religious right.
Look at how different religious groups try to get their beliefs to become laws.

Maybe I'm misunderstanding you, but there is no law requiring someone to seek medical help or vaccinations for themselves. It's a grey area when it comes to one's children. But even then I think you can refuse vaccinations for your kids unless required for entrance into public schools.

mic730
04-29-2008, 09:56 PM
Cult or religion - I don't know.
IMO when any organization abuses girls underage they are breaking the law and harming the girls.

csds703
04-29-2008, 10:09 PM
Maybe I'm misunderstanding you, but there is no law requiring someone to seek medical help or vaccinations for themselves. It's a grey area when it comes to one's children. But even then I think you can refuse vaccinations for your kids unless required for entrance into public schools.

Look at the praying parents who had charges brought against them when their daughter died. As for vaccinations, they are required to go to school.
People can stand behind their religious beliefs to get around the law when it comes to vaccines.

LinasK
04-30-2008, 02:29 AM
But even then I think you can refuse vaccinations for your kids unless required for entrance into public schools.
Yes, even then you can get exemptions by putting it in writing(form). I have friends with children in public school who are anti-vaccine and have done this.

SieSie
05-03-2008, 01:29 AM
I believe that a religion is a choice freely made - to choose to join a particular religion. A religion is open to all, welcoming guests, and engaging in dialog about beliefs. Members are free to choose to leave a religion if they don't agree with the tenets of that religion. In some mainstream religions, members don't always follow all the rules. As an example, when the Catholic church back in the 60's issued a rule about not using birth control other than abstinence, many Catholics used contraceptives.

A cult, on the other hand, is usually secretive and not open to public scrutiny. There is a dominant person within the cult that is revered to the point of worship. Members are expected to conform to a set of rigid rules with no deviation. Once involved in a cult, a person finds it difficult to leave the cult, and in some cases is forced to stay against their will.
This is what I believe, also, Leila.

Pandora
05-03-2008, 07:15 AM
I guess I view cults as those groups who follow a man, as opposed to a "scriptural" teaching. By "scriptural" teaching, I include the Bible, Koran, Torah, Book of Mormon, etc. . . . I grew up in a fundamentalist church where the leader was not God/Jesus or the Bible--it was the pastor. And it was a cult. (Of course, the congregants would all deny that while telling me I'm going to hell because I'm a woman wearing pants, make-up, jewelry, etc. I've actually seen them deny entry to the church based upon a man not wearing a tie or the woman's skirt not being 3 inches below her knee/sleeveless blouse.) I've also visited various other churches/synagogues/cathedrals/etc. (no mosques as yet because there are none in our community), and it seems that some follow their "word" and some follow a leader who just wants what he wants.
So I see FLDS as a cult because they follow Jeffs. Make sense?
My apologies if I've offended anyone. This is not my intent.

yolorado
05-03-2008, 12:11 PM
When we're talking about men with 60, 80, 180 plus wives, about teenagers given to men as 'wives' for birthday presents, about a human being who has the right to decide who marries who and, who can force even young girls to be married, who can command that parents abandon their children on the side of road-and be obeyed, and who can 're-assign' wives and children from one husband to another at will, I think we're definitely talking about a cult. It's certainly not a religious way of life which honors God in any sense related to any version of God, the bible or any other holy book I've ever encountered. If the FLDS isn't a cult, and one of the most inhumane and abusive I've ever heard and read about, then I don't know what a cult would be.

Spotted1
05-04-2008, 10:42 PM
A cult to me is something that uses many forms of force to keep their members, both physical, emotional and spiritual. The breaking down of the persons spirit to keep them in line.
A religion, to me is something that helps build a persons spirit up.

I do not belong to any specific religion but have visited many different churches through the years to explore their faiths, with each one I was made to feel welcome and was always free to leave, never any type of pressure. With the flds, if there was anyone wishing to leave and could not do so in broad daylight with everyone watching, then to me that spells c u l t.

VB

"If you don't believe as I do, then you'll spend all eternity being tortured in a fiery hell." doesn't exactly give people the warm fuzzies.

mysteriew
05-05-2008, 01:32 AM
Ordinarily, I bristle when someone labels a religious group a "cult" -- a term that, in popular parlance, is often used to describe "a religion I don't like." Adherents of faiths considered mainstream today -- Catholics and Mormons, among others -- were derided as "cult members" in the 19th century.

FLDS, however, has all of the marks of a more academic definition of a cult: isolated from the world, secretive and beholden to a charismatic leader who exercises absolute power and authority.

Under the First Amendment, of course, cults, sects and a wide range of religious movements, new and old, are protected in the practice of their faith, no matter how unpopular or isolated from society. Although the U.S. Supreme Court has upheld some limits on religious practice (starting with polygamy in 1878), such cases are rare.

But religious freedom ends when child abuse begins. Adults, for example, may have a right to refuse life-saving health care, including blood transfusions, for themselves -- but not for their children.

Charles C. Haynes is senior scholar at the First Amendment Center.
http://www.montgomeryadvertiser.com/apps/pbcs.dll/article?AID=/20080503/OPINION0101/805020348/1006/OPINION

Pepper
05-05-2008, 10:53 AM
http://www.montgomeryadvertiser.com/apps/pbcs.dll/article?AID=/20080503/OPINION0101/805020348/1006/OPINION

Today, Texas officials are employing a sweeping definition of "child abuse" by removing 437 children from their FLDS families. Now the state must justify its actions by arguing that all of the children were harmed or potentially harmed by life in the church culture. As Tom Vick of the Texas Bar Association (who is rounding up lawyers for the children) puts it: "If it's a dangerous situation for one child, it's a dangerous situation for all."

This is a high bar, far more difficult than a limited investigation into specific allegations of under-age marriage. A victory for the state could mean that none of the children can be safely returned to the church. That could well spell the end of the FLDS community, at least above ground.

That's why Texas should proceed with caution from here on. The outcome of this case could create new grounds for intervention when the government decides an unpopular religious group is inherently detrimental to child welfare.

Temporarily removing the children may have been justified in this case -- that's what the courts will need to determine. But the ultimate decision about the children's fate should be based on whether there is clear evidence of systematic sexual abuse rather than on general condemnation of the beliefs of FLDS followers or prejudice against their way of life.

Barring such abuse, these children belong with their parents. Being raised in an unconventional religious system may appall or offend outsiders, but it is not by definition abusive. As much as Texas officials may not want to deal with it, this case is not only about child welfare. It's also about religious freedom.
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I just hope the state realizes there is more here than 'just' sexual abuse. I believe we are talking:
* systematic culling out imperfect (handicapped children) by smothering them as infants.
* a disproportionate of "accidents" resulting in the death of children due to negligence or disregard of child labor laws.
* a disproportionate amount of broken bones in young children, possibly resulting from child abuse, or at the very least, absence of supervision.
* infant abuse by slapping and holding babies under water to teach them not to cry.
* systematic removal and abandonment of teen boys due to "disobedience," the result of which is often drug abuse and suicide, but this practice serves to reduce the competition for plural wives.
* murder has been alleged as the ultimate punishment for young girls looking to escape (Flora Jessop tape concerning 3 runaways).

Then there are the financial issues:
* possible welfare fraud by collecting welfare on dead or missing children.
* extortion of unreasonable tithes to fund the church and profit its leaders.
* probable violation of child labor laws.
* probable violation of minimum wage laws.
* trading of children across state and international boundries for the purpose of becoming underage plural wives.

There's probably more, but if here isn't enough information to think RICO, then I don't know what it would take.

Amraann
05-05-2008, 11:37 AM
A cult typically by definition is an organization that takes away ones free will.
Often they separate families or members from family that are not part of the "church".
They usually require that you sign all of your "worldly" goods over to the church.
Basically a cult is the systematic break down of ones self. They are not an individual but just a part of a greater whole... Like ants in a colony.
There is also the "secretive" element ... Those in the inner circle "know" the truth and you can too if you just sign your life, will and brain over..
By definition this sect of Mormons are a cult so are Scientologists and Jehovah Witness's just to name a few.

The most predominant trait of a cult is to divide its members from society and instill an "Us Versus Them" mentality.

Pepper
05-05-2008, 11:39 AM
That is an excellent definition! I totally agree.

SewingDeb
05-05-2008, 12:07 PM
I agree with you Amra. Perfect definition.

c2cd208
05-05-2008, 12:31 PM
The bible talks of the end times in Revelations, within that subject some of the signs are FALSE PROPHETS. I dont want to turn this thread into a biblical rant, but that is just what come to mind. That being said, I feel that this paticullar sect or group whatever they chose to be called is a CULT. I have been around LDS people somewhat and I really do not think that they are all this way, nor believe in the things that have gone on at the compound. If they agreed with everything I would think this compnd would have been smack dab in the middle of UTAH!

I would call this a cult becuase of the rules imposed. A religion does have practives and ways they wish their patrons to follow but as an example if I were in a Pentacostal church ( the ones who only wear dresses ) and I chose to wear pants I do not think that I would be banished from the church or displined in any way.

By throwing these boys into the world, killing off the pets in front of the people, and the many other things we have heard I myself would call this a cult.