ami
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What I don't understand re: RO and visitation is this: Why even have an RO whose point is to keep an abusive parent away from a vulnerable child, if it can simply be "modified" at the judge's discretion at any time?
If I were married to an abusive man and feared for my life and my child's life and safety - I would file a RO, and if/when it was granted, I would feel secure that it meant what it said: no contact between abuser and me/baby for 1 year (or whatever the time limit). Why even have that legal piece of paper that says NO CONTACT and is stamped and sealed and officiated, if a few months later a judge can negate it and mandate visitation between the abuser and the vulnerable child?
Am I making sense? It makes an RO seem very flimsy and unsafe if it's not upheld.
If I were married to an abusive man and feared for my life and my child's life and safety - I would file a RO, and if/when it was granted, I would feel secure that it meant what it said: no contact between abuser and me/baby for 1 year (or whatever the time limit). Why even have that legal piece of paper that says NO CONTACT and is stamped and sealed and officiated, if a few months later a judge can negate it and mandate visitation between the abuser and the vulnerable child?
Am I making sense? It makes an RO seem very flimsy and unsafe if it's not upheld.