Yes to me she comes across as self entitled and petulant. And so does her idiot boyfriend.
They do not take responsibility for anything. Their other kids going into care? Her family's fault and the "draconian" social services.
Victoria's death? The public's fault for recognising them and "stopping" them from finding accommodation.
They have shown again and again that none of their children were a priority. They were more worried about "being judged" with their first child in a tent than about keeping that baby warm and safe (there was no public recognising them there, what was their excuse?)
They missed contact sessions with their kids and broke their hearts. They happily went for 4 months of not seeing their kids when they were in foster care.
They missed out on seeing their 4th baby in hospital because they refused a frigging covid test.
And then it's the appalling and shocking way in which they treated Victoria in life and in death.
I hope they get at least 10 years so that they are not able to have any more kids.
Remember though, it may not have been ‘happily went 4 months’. There’s often a lot of chaos in family lives that children have been removed from in general.
The reason it is important here is as evidence that they may have struggled to put the child’s needs first consistently (a big focus of SS). This is often not about the feeling of love, but about parental consistent ability to provide care.
There are plenty of reasons contact can be missed by parents, ranging from a missed bus to domestic violence to embarrassment following a missed session to simply not seeing the importance because of other priorities to finding it emotionally excruciating (and the drugs/alcohol you see in some cases). Equally, many parents do not attend final contact sessions for the emotionally excruciating reason, which is both understandable on their side, but heartbreaking for the children.
The small amount of communication with SW released to the court included a snippet about CM telling SS not to judge her based on an alternative lifestyle and the SW responding she wasn’t judging her, but her job was to protect the child and the way their living situation presented wasn’t suitable. All this is only important in the fact that they were aware of the dangers, had said they would change their lifestyle as requested and chose to take Victoria into a tent in the middle of winter anyway. It could be their defence adequately explains that, but the prosecution is basing the case on the basic needs of Victoria and the fact that, though that had information on how to meet these needs, they did not appear to provide warmth, adequate clothing, adequate shelter etc. We’ve heard from interviews they didn’t plan to live this way for long (However one takes that), so there’s lot of talk about cold exposure for very young babies etc. whereas if there was a crawling baby it would be about safe space to play and so on as well.
Hope this isn’t sub judice, I’ve read all the points but I’m still learning