CitySlick,
We know Brad lied about the dress color. To CPD he called it blue. In his deposition he referred to it as green or orange. When he went and got DD the evening of 7/12 he told DD it was black. Now I realize he might just be a really, really confused guy, but that's not my interpretation. For some reason, he misstated the color of the dress, more than one color and more than once, IMHO.
IF BRAD didn't do it.......
First, I don't think he knew any more what his wife had on than the mailman did that night. He's not really that into her, he's into the kids that night. The people at the party, especially some of those men knew what she had on more than anyone, especially while watching her play with frogs and making squirmng noises.....sorry.
Secondly, I think he probably tried to think about it and came up with a black dress....maybe, depending on who said what. Maybe someone told him a black dress. I think his mind was frazzled, mine would be and I would be on auto function, although maybe not appearing that way, too much going on.
Third, the dress was not in hiding. It was there for all to see. All it took was one person from the party to walk through with the police to see it in the basket, if indeed it was in the basket that day, which I thought it was.
Fourth, a lot of engineering type people, just on a sidenote here, see things differently. What we may see as a dominant color in something may not be what someone else may. The background design in that dress is the color that sticks out in my mind. I also have a designer type writing pen, it is white and brown....white backbrown and brown lines of a paisly type drawn on it....I think of this pen as brown. Others white.
Lastly, I don't think he cared as much as anyone normally would if a spouse were missing. If he didn't do it, and sad to say someone feels this way, but he may have felt some relief....I know that sounds so horrible, and not forgivable to feel that way, but to think that all the problems that have been going on for a while could be gone? INexcusable to feel that way, but, maybe, and certainly a reason not to be so torn up. Facts are facts.
OH well, just an observation but not an opinion of he did it or not. Certainly not trying to show any form of disrespect to the original poster, so any apologies in advance if taken that way, not intended.
BTW, does anyone know what was in the cabinet to the left of the dropcloth in the garage. It looked to me like more dropcloths of the same type packaging, as if they have a couple, but I probably am seeing it wrong, or am I? Could someone let e know?
I've been on the fence but might be able to sway today.
Thanks! PJ