These are just examples of how kids can get "overlooked" .
My oldest,was about 7 or 71/2, and on a "camping trip" with Brownies (young girl scouts). Well,camping was at a hotel..lol.They had 4 or so rooms and there were maybe 4 girls and a chaperone to each room.The following morning they were all gathered in one room ,getting ready to go to breakfast. My daughter goes into the bathroom,comes out,and everyone is GONE !! So she leaves the room and I don't recall if she wandered looking for them or what happened exactly. Anyway, some woman sees her and she tells the woman that she is looking for her Brownie Troop. The woman takes her down to the lobby and there are 2 of the chaperones, frantically searching for her. I believe they were about to go up to the room to look . Anyhowe, thank God my daughter was OK. Of course, i was miffed, but I couln't really blame anyone.
This school year, my younger daughter was in a few activities toward the end of the year ,which parents were invited to. Thiese were all in the afternoon. The first one I attended was cutting really close to another appointment I had, so as soon as it was over, I left the room (it was a music room ) I was walking toward the large hall/open lunchrrom area when my daughter comes up behind me. She asks if I'm taking her home Or if she's taking the bus (which wouln't be for another 45 mins ) I told her I had an appointment and that I didn't realize she could leave. Since she still needed to go get her things in her class, I told her to just take the bus,since I was running late.
On the last day of school she had another performance which myself and her older sister attended. at the end of the performance, we were told the students could go home with us. Of course many parents took the kiddos home. My child wanted to stay. I don't recall how the teachers were supposed to know who was leaving, but most parents told the teachers. Maybe there was a sign out sheet. This was also an hour or so before school was to get out officially. AND nobody brought backpacks on the last day. So it was just sign out and take your child. This event was in the school library. As for signing in those days.....for parents and visitors...there were tags ALREADY MADE UP ,. in the front office . Since there were a few different activities going on at once, all I and my older dd needed to do was take a tag that had LIB on it. There were others for Volunteer, Party, Etc.
AND THIS IS A SCHOOL THAT IS NORMALLY VERY VIGILANT. I am not saying that Kyron's school isn't. I am pointing out that even the most vigilant schools drop their guard sometimes.
This is also not a grammer school, but a 5th 6th grade campus. So the students are not really as young as Kyron, but still kind of young.
Last thing I wanted to say is that because of all the activities, I could have easily asked someone to give my child a ride, or had another parent's permission to take their child to my house and the school would not have really known. Especially if we met in the hall on the way out and made plans. ( I ran into 3 or 4 moms we know who were on the way in when we were leaving, who have a child in another class and their child did not participatein the event my daughter did )
I hope everyone gets what I am pointing out. Things can get VERY mixed up when there is a lot going on.