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    Fact or Fiction?

    I have been reading time and time again that JonBenet said she was going to receive a special/secret visit from Santa.

    Did she really say that?

    To Whom?

    Is that an internet fallacy or is that a witnessed fact?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Barbara
    I have been reading time and time again that JonBenet said she was going to receive a special/secret visit from Santa.

    Did she really say that?

    To Whom?

    Is that an internet fallacy or is that a witnessed fact?

    The mother of JonBenet's friend, Megan I believe her name is, told investigators that JonBenet had made this comment to her about Santa making a special visit to her after Christmas. When Megan's mother tried to correct JonBenet on the timing of the visit and tell her that Santa comes on Christmas Eve, JonBenet insisted that it was after Christmas.

    I've always felt that it was all probably easily explainable in that the Ramseys were going to celebrate ANOTHER Christmas once they arrived in Michigan at their summer home where they were gathering with John Andrew, Melinda and her fiance. Patsy had last minute wrapping of the gifts she was bringing for everyone to open and so I can see where they could have mentioned to JonBenet that "Santa was coming again AFTER Christmas to pay a special visit." It could have simply meant in Michigan and not something cryptic as some like to see it.
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    Thanks Angel,

    That certainly makes a whole lot of sense. Was this little girl's mother the only one that heard it? Just curious. I don't think it has a great deal of relevance regarding the case, but sometimes I get confused as to what is fact and fiction after hearing things so many times.

    I don't have all the materials/books handy and there are so many whose memory is better than mine, that from time to time I just ask first before I go searching.

    So much information..........so little memory
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    Quote Originally Posted by Barbara
    I have been reading time and time again that JonBenet said she was going to receive a special/secret visit from Santa.

    Did she really say that?

    To Whom?

    Is that an internet fallacy or is that a witnessed fact?

    It's a fact. On Christmas Eve JonBenet told Barbara Kostanick about the secret visit from Santa. Pg 50, PMPT pb:

    "The day before Christmas, JonBenet was at our house playing with Megan. The kids were talking about Santa, getting all excited. I asked JonBenet if she had visited Santa Claus yet. She said, "Oh, Santa was at our Christmas party the other night." Megan had seen Santa at the Pearl Street Mall, so we talked about that.

    Then JonBenet said, "Santa Claus promised that he would make a secret visit after Christmas."

    I thought she was confused. "Christmas is tonight," I told her. "And Santa will be coming tonight."

    "No, no," JonBenet insisted. "He said this would be after Christmas. And it's a secret."

    JMO

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    I think Angel is right on target. It is very likely that not only were John and Patsy going to give gifts to John Andrew and Melissa, but also John Andrew and Melinda were going to give gifts to all the Ramseys, including JB. Since JB still believed in Santa, it makes sense that Patsy would tell her beforehand that Santa was going to make a second visit to their house in Michigan to explain the gifts from John Andrew and Melinda.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Islander
    I think Angel is right on target. It is very likely that not only were John and Patsy going to give gifts to John Andrew and Melissa, but also John Andrew and Melinda were going to give gifts to all the Ramseys, including JB. Since JB still believed in Santa, it makes sense that Patsy would tell her beforehand that Santa was going to make a second visit to their house in Michigan to explain the gifts from John Andrew and Melinda.



    But why would JonBenet be told to keep it a secret? She likely knew that JAR and Melinda were also coming and there would be presents exchanged at Charlevoix. There was no apparent need to keep it a SECRET.

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    Kids love secrets. I will regularly tell my Tootsie that something is a "secret" - it's just a game. Might be that we're going to have spaghetti bolognese for tea or that Daddy is a silly sausage/dopey doughnut. Maybe JBR was told that melinda and JAR didn't know Santa was coming again to visit them and that it was a secret.

    These kinds of games are purely for the amusement of our children. We build things up for them - give them fantasies to make their little world's magical.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Jayelles
    Kids love secrets. I will regularly tell my Tootsie that something is a "secret" - it's just a game. Might be that we're going to have spaghetti bolognese for tea or that Daddy is a silly sausage/dopey doughnut. Maybe JBR was told that melinda and JAR didn't know Santa was coming again to visit them and that it was a secret.

    These kinds of games are purely for the amusement of our children. We build things up for them - give them fantasies to make their little world's magical.

    I can't disagree with Jayelles' theory, but it's only her guess. A theory alone doesn't cancel out the hard fact, supported by a credible eyewitness, that SOMEONE told JonBenet that Santa was going to pay a secret visit after Christmas.

    It's a clue that shouldn't be casually dismissed with a theory. The person who told JonBenet that should have been tracked down.

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    sounds like it

    Quote Originally Posted by K777angel
    I've always felt that it was all probably easily explainable in that the Ramseys were going to celebrate ANOTHER Christmas once they arrived in Michigan at their summer home where they were gathering with John Andrew, Melinda and her fiance. Patsy had last minute wrapping of the gifts she was bringing for everyone to open and so I can see where they could have mentioned to JonBenet that "Santa was coming again AFTER Christmas to pay a special visit." It could have simply meant in Michigan and not something cryptic as some like to see it.
    We agree on this one, for a change.
    This is my opinion, and change is good.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jayelles
    Kids love secrets. I will regularly tell my Tootsie that something is a "secret" - it's just a game. Might be that we're going to have spaghetti bolognese for tea or that Daddy is a silly sausage/dopey doughnut. Maybe JBR was told that melinda and JAR didn't know Santa was coming again to visit them and that it was a secret.

    These kinds of games are purely for the amusement of our children. We build things up for them - give them fantasies to make their little world's magical.

    Yes -- Jayelles you are right on ...


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    Secret Santa

    The secret Santa JonBenet was referring to was tied in with the letter found torn up in her bedroom trash can. It is a letter telling her to have a nice Christmas and it was signed by a secret Santa.

    She most likely got the letter along with the teddy bear from the Amerikids people.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Toltec
    The secret Santa JonBenet was referring to was tied in with the letter found torn up in her bedroom trash can. It is a letter telling her to have a nice Christmas and it was signed by a secret Santa.

    She most likely got the letter along with the teddy bear from the Amerikids people.
    Toltec where is this in writing that SECRET SANTA JB was talking about was from the trash letter?

    Was it really signed Secret Santa????

    Thanks Tressa

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    Quote Originally Posted by TressaRing28
    Toltec where is this in writing that SECRET SANTA JB was talking about was from the trash letter?

    Was it really signed Secret Santa????

    Thanks Tressa
    I think the letter in the trash was more like a tag that was addressed to 'friend.' I also think that the tag, or letter, came off of the Santa bear from the pageant. The tags were addressed to 'a friend' since the pageant directors did not know which kid would end up with which bear at the pageant. Addressing the tags in this manner would be a lot easier than making sure that JBR got the bear that said, "to JBR" and that Suzie got the bear that said, "to Suzie," etc. Make sense?

    Also, we tell my daughter that Santa will visit Grandma & Grandpa's house after Christmas, because we celebrate with grandparents after we celebrate at home.

    I am always nervous when she and her friends talk about Santa, etc. because traditions are so different from family to family. It is too soon for her to figure the whole thing out yet, so I try to change the subject.

    My daughter also wakes up to candy in her shoes on St. Pat's day. We are of Irish descent and the shoe/candy thing has always been a tradition.

    However, we are one of only a few families I know who honors this tradition.

    I did tell my daughter on at least one occasion to not talk about the candy thing much in school because she would hurt other kids' feelings if they didn't get candy also. So, I guess I have told her to keep this tradition a 'secret.' I just am not ready for my little girl to learn the truth about leprechauns from a classmate... The less she talks about it the better.

    I am sure the secret Santa visit JBR talked about was pretty much the same thing in the Ramsey house.
    The above is my opinion only based on published accounts of the case.

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    Quote Originally Posted by BlueCrab
    It's a fact. On Christmas Eve JonBenet told Barbara Kostanick about the secret visit from Santa. Pg 50, PMPT pb:

    "The day before Christmas, JonBenet was at our house playing with Megan. The kids were talking about Santa, getting all excited. I asked JonBenet if she had visited Santa Claus yet. She said, "Oh, Santa was at our Christmas party the other night." Megan had seen Santa at the Pearl Street Mall, so we talked about that.

    Then JonBenet said, "Santa Claus promised that he would make a secret visit after Christmas."

    I thought she was confused. "Christmas is tonight," I told her. "And Santa will be coming tonight."

    "No, no," JonBenet insisted. "He said this would be after Christmas. And it's a secret."

    JMO
    IMHO JonBenet was taught at a very young age that the word "secret" meant you didn't speak of such to others...IMHO this meant that JonBenet was mind-controlled by her parents and probably because John was molesting her and it was a "secret"--not to be talked/shared about to others...wake up you all (or as Cher says:SNAP OUT OF IT)...this "secret" stuff is going on all around you if only you had eyes to see. IMHO knowledge of such is neutral but to stand by and see/look at it right in the face and know abuse is going on AND then do nothing is too shameful beyond words.

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    Maybe it's not important, but according to the PMPT excerpt BC posted, the story was about a secret visit from Santa, not a visit from a secret Santa.

    imo

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