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    KH's (alleged) email to co-workers

    Apologies if this has been posted before.

    http://ackerlaw.com/posts/2010/06/07...kyron_horman_7

    In this (purported) email (which sounds to me pretty realistic) KH is telling co-workers to keep mum and that he intends to talk with Intel legal to get legal advice for them keeping quiet.

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    He asked coworkers not to speak to the media. That was smart -- if they want to talk, they should talk to LE.

    He said he will contact Intel's lawyers. That was smart. They need to know about the situation.

    Shrug. I don't have a problem with this email. Does it send up red flag for you?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Kat010 View Post
    Apologies if this has been posted before.

    http://ackerlaw.com/posts/2010/06/07...kyron_horman_7

    In this (purported) email (which sounds to me pretty realistic) KH is telling co-workers to keep mum and that he intends to talk with Intel legal to get legal advice for them keeping quiet.

    I have seen this many times on different places on the net but i'm not sure if it is confirmed legit. I have no reason to doubt that it is. I was actually relieved when i first saw it as it showed someone in the family was doing something to locate Kyron. (we hadn't heard from them). I don't think it is odd to ask people not to talk to the media as we all know how that can take the focus off of the missing child and into the realm of soap opera. I would have found it odd if he had asked not to speak with LE

    Ironically It has been things KH himself has said/done In the media that grasps attention now. Which makes me reason he knows exactly what he is saying to the media and how it will be portrayed.

    Not that i feel that it is sided one way or the other.. meaning either He feels TH is responsible and Le have convinced him & he wants everyone to know Or as some have speculated this was a way to destroy TH publicly as part of a bitter divorce case or other personal reasons. Wish LE would start giving some of those pressers so we had actual confirmed facts but that isn't going to happen anytime soon.

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    iirc there is already an entire thread on this but you may want to pm a mod to make sure?

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    Quote Originally Posted by scotslass View Post
    I have seen this many times on different places on the net but i'm not sure if it is confirmed legit. I have no reason to doubt that it is. I was actually relieved when i first saw it as it showed someone in the family was doing something to locate Kyron. (we hadn't heard from them). I don't think it is odd to ask people not to talk to the media as we all know how that can take the focus off of the missing child and into the realm of soap opera. I would have found it odd if he had asked not to speak with LE

    Ironically It has been things KH himself has said/done In the media that grasps attention now. Which makes me reason he knows exactly what he is saying to the media and how it will be portrayed.

    Not that i feel that it is sided one way or the other.. meaning either He feels TH is responsible and Le have convinced him & he wants everyone to know Or as some have speculated this was a way to destroy TH publicly as part of a bitter divorce case or other personal reasons. Wish LE would start giving some of those pressers so we had actual confirmed facts but that isn't going to happen anytime soon.
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    I agree with that. But why wouldn't LE talk with the atty's at Intel and ask them to keep quiet? I think there's a reason that Kaine did it for all of us to see.

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    I don't have a clue what the email might mean.

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    JMHO WARNING:

    This e-mail activity for me is consistent with the way we have seen Kaine behave & approach this problem - as a person on a working team with LE. IMO, Kaine has revealed that he prefers to keep control of his projects and maintain that control by communicating both up the organization, down the organization, and across the organization to keep critical people informed on what he considers a need-to-know basis.

    The e-mail's value to me was having a peek at Kaine's penchant for carefully measured words, his direct, factual, but sparsely detailed statements, his confident, almost authoritative writing style, and his working culture. Kaine doesn't use qualifiers. Things are black and white. Kaine does not see the need to support his factual statements. He withholds useful details. He's a need-to-know communicator. He protects information. Doesn't panic. Somewhat detached team player, IMO. LE probably loves the guy.

    To me he comes across as well-intentioned but frequently socially awkward.

    I see an non-creative type engineer who has of fear of being criticized or challenged. (Thus the with-holding of details.) There may be self-esteem problems here - but it's mostly personality style. Needs to be right. Needs control - probably so no one else will mess things up.

    This is not to say Kaine is a bad guy. Everyone has their own personality style. Kaine's is just very visible and untempered due to a relatively low EQ.

    The guy just doesn't bother me that much - I know lots of folks like this. Perfectly good folks who never have a clue when a loved one is suffering - until after the fact. At which point, they apply logic and sincerely try to analyze and mathematically solve what is an emotional problem.

    ((((hugs to all engineer-types, Kaine included))))

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    Quote Originally Posted by Emma Peel View Post
    JMHO WARNING:

    This e-mail activity for me is consistent with the way we have seen Kaine behave & approach this problem - as a person on a working team with LE. IMO, Kaine has revealed that he prefers to keep control of his projects and maintain that control by communicating both up the organization, down the organization, and across the organization to keep critical people informed on what he considers a need-to-know basis.

    The e-mail's value to me was having a peek at Kaine's penchant for carefully measured words, his direct, factual, but sparsely detailed statements, his confident, almost authoritative writing style, and his working culture. Kaine doesn't use qualifiers. Things are black and white. Kaine does not see the need to support his factual statements. He withholds useful details. He's a need-to-know communicator. He protects information. Doesn't panic. Somewhat detached team player, IMO. LE probably loves the guy.

    To me he comes across as well-intentioned but frequently socially awkward.

    I see an non-creative type engineer who has of fear of being criticized or challenged. (Thus the with-holding of details.) There may be self-esteem problems here - but it's mostly personality style. Needs to be right. Needs control - probably so no one else will mess things up.

    This is not to say Kaine is a bad guy. Everyone has their own personality style. Kaine's is just very visible and untempered due to a relatively low EQ.

    The guy just doesn't bother me that much - I know lots of folks like this. Perfectly good folks who never have a clue when a loved one is suffering - until after the fact. At which point, they apply logic and sincerely try to analyze and mathematically solve what is an emotional problem.

    ((((hugs to all engineer-types, Kaine included))))

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    I concur.... this is my boyfriend to a tee, I can be crying and he sits there cuz he doesn't have a clue as what to do, everything needs to be logical not emotional... (the best man I have ever been with)
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    People describe me in very much a similar manner. So they find it quite puzzling when I go all girly on them and get emotional. Better to keep them on their toes with

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    i agree with what emma said above. when i first read this email, very early on, i did take a pause and say, hmmmmm. but then i decided its not all that odd. i only have 10 coworkers, so i would notify them personally, or have the manager do it, but i really think that in this day and age i would ask them to not talk to any media until the crisis is over. intel is a huge company and this is the way they handled it. apparently it worked because nobody from intel has come forward. jmo, imo, mho and all that jazz
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    Quote Originally Posted by debs View Post
    People describe me in very much a similar manner. So they find it quite puzzling when I go all girly on them and get emotional. Better to keep them on their toes with
    I will vouch for your very high EQ any day, dear debs. Also your high LQ. (Logic quotient.)

    Do you argue with yourself all day the way I do? It's a curse. No. It's a blessing. No. It's hormonal. No. It's real. No. It's simple. No. It's very complicated. No...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Emma Peel View Post
    I will vouch for your very high EQ any day, dear debs. Also your high LQ. (Logic quotient.)

    Do you argue with yourself all day the way I do? It's a curse. No. It's a blessing. No. It's hormonal. No. It's real. No. It's simple. No. It's very complicated. No...
    it's the only way I ever win every argument, dear Emma.

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    Emma, I concur with what you said, especially this bit snipped here: "Kaine doesn't use qualifiers. Things are black and white. Kaine does not see the need to support his factual statements. He withholds useful details. He's a need-to-know communicator. He protects information. Doesn't panic. Somewhat detached team player, IMO. LE probably loves the guy."

    Key--he withholds useful details. Ah huh.

    And that thing about LE probably loves him--I've thought so all along, and that worries me. Mix that in with the fact that DY is married to a cop, and you get a volatile mix of anti-TH stuff being perhaps too easily accepted. At one point I moved from nattering to myself about LE working with Kaine to nattering that it seemed like they were working for Kaine. Yea, that was a cranky moment!

    And I also think that once KH makes his mind up, from that point on, that is Holy Writ. I doubt that he's ever wrong--at least in his world. And I think he sweeps people along with him by that detail-oriented, authorative persona, and manipulates things by the precise withholding of information as he chooses and see fit. I think that to him, "team" means any group that allow him to do things his way and get ahead.

    I also think that KH doesn't believe that vengeance is the Lord's, but his. Look how quickly he moved against DY when he got Kyron, and look how quickly he moved against TH--and marshalled all his resources, including LE--to set things up the way he thought was right.

    This would be just personal stuff except that his personality, DY's cop husband, etc. have created a situation, IMHO, in which LE may have followed more than led. Again, just my opinion.

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    Well maybe it's just me but I think it is just plan weird. Both Kaine and Terri seemed awfully worried about the media too early on for my taste.
    Just my opinion, of course.

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    I don't know why any one with a missing child would ask anyone to be quiet. How would you even be focusing enough on something like that to e-mail anyone? Seems to me the only thing you would be thinking about was your CHILD. Not what might come out about you. pppfffftttttt.
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