Okay, seems the best answer is remove it, give all to KH and DY to have. If anyone wants to plant a tree somewhere, well that should probably be up to KH and DY, and not near the school.
Just to clarify, I was one of the little ones that cried and was terrified to go to school up until 4th grade. Cannot believe I remember this, but not what I did yesterday, lol. (Add decades and mix.) I was so awful, I cried, fell in the mud and oil outside the school, cried in the school, I just could not get adjusted to all the big people and the fears, the loud voices, the mean big kids and so on.
A scary wall of objects that would have been as wide as the ocean to me at that young an age, would have made be on meds at 5 years old. No way I could have dealt with it and everyone telling me, "Oh that is for Kyron, he went missing from this hallway." Nope, not good.
I am sorry to say that, but really, it has to be removed at some point, and now is best. The community and KH/DY can decide on a tree, park bench, or any other gesture, if any, that would be less scary, and no where near the school. JMO.