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    How do you come home?

    IF you are looking for a missing person and that person might be alive, "how would they come back?" If that person wanted to come back but was scared of the reaction of Family and the community as a whole, knowing they had not commited a crime other than being a Human Being, what would you say to them to assure them it would be ok?

    If they didnt want to come back what would you do...demand an explanation...make them pose for a picture...call the cops and sit on the person wait for them to arrive and drag them back to answer for all of the trouble going missing causes.

    As you search for answers to questions about finding missing persons...would
    you not want to think about this question in advance. To be prepared?

    Think about the question...assign no names...apply it to all types of missing persons cases. There is something to be learned here for the future...

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    ...assign no names...

    There is a certain beautiful, successful, strong woman from West Valley City, Utah who would be welcomed back with open arms. It would be wonderful if that hypothesis would be proven to be fact. Her return would be met with joy by people from all parts of the world. IMHO there is a certain 'happy camper' that has made that impossible.

    nice try

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    Quote Originally Posted by SugarJames View Post
    IF you are looking for a missing person and that person might be alive, "how would they come back?" If that person wanted to come back but was scared of the reaction of Family and the community as a whole, knowing they had not commited a crime other than being a Human Being, what would you say to them to assure them it would be ok?

    If they didnt want to come back what would you do...demand an explanation...make them pose for a picture...call the cops and sit on the person wait for them to arrive and drag them back to answer for all of the trouble going missing causes.

    As you search for answers to questions about finding missing persons...would
    you not want to think about this question in advance. To be prepared?

    Think about the question...assign no names...apply it to all types of missing persons cases. There is something to be learned here for the future...
    Im glad that after 24 hours that there has only been one comment. Anyone presented with this question would need to stop and think...atleast 30 people read this post...maybe they stopped to think...instead of reacting.

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    Well, its a great question actually and I would say it would be tough to answer without going through the situation personally. If I were suspected to have a part in the "abduction" or going missing itself, then I would want my name cleared when that person was located of course. I would want that person to contact police and let them know they were okay even if they never wished to come back. The police could then make a statement and that person could go on living their new identity.

    Of course this is MOO and it relates to missing persons cases as a whole. Very thought provoking.

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    Maybe people just don't feel like playing.

    Since it isn't against the law to remove oneself from ones home, you would just go home if that's what you wished, either to your own home or to the welcoming arms of family.

    Pretty simple actually. But not so simple if one is no longer alive.

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    sorry to harsh but if you are that much of a coward to leave then you should at least make amends to let at least one person know that u are alive. write a letter with a picture of you or something. I dunno, but running away is never the answer for grown adults that know better.
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    "Assign no names.."

    It is a good question. So, for example, you ran away from home, got the cops looking for you, your husband is "suspected" of potential foul play, your children are lost and floundering without you, your parents are suffering so, the whole world is looking for you. How do you come back? I suppose you'd get a backbone and call whoever could provide you the most support and let them know you're ok and ask for their advice.

    But this is a forum about SP. From what I know of her background, beliefs, and faithfulness to family, I just don't think she ran away. She just didn't. No way, no how. No, nope...

    Susan had a backbone, for sure...If she had run away and then saw everything that was going on, she would have stepped up to the plate to resolve it. But that's not what happened...

    MOO, of course.
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    Quote Originally Posted by TallCoolOne View Post
    Maybe people just don't feel like playing.

    Since it isn't against the law to remove oneself from ones home, you would just go home if that's what you wished, either to your own home or to the welcoming arms of family.

    Pretty simple actually. But not so simple if one is no longer alive.
    I agree. Most people don't feel like playing...

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    Quote Originally Posted by diphi View Post
    I agree. Most people don't feel like playing...
    It seems that sugarjames does... some would wonder: why?

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    Big picture: If they come back, the how is irrelevant.


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    Off the top of my head I can't think of anyone who dissapeared and then came back on their own with trumpets sounding . Found maybe, but didn't come back willingly (thinking of Olivia Newton John's ex-boyfriend). Not sure what happened to him, but I thought he was found in Mexico or something after faking his death.

    To imagine that SP has been gone all this time without a single sighting, the use of a credit card, with her cell and purse (and car) still in the home, tells me (no shouts to me) foul play. Why JP is still walking the streets is beyond me.

    MOO and all that

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    Last edited by Salem; 11-13-2010 at 12:10 PM. Reason: remove unapproved quote

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    Quote Originally Posted by SugarJames View Post
    Im glad that after 24 hours that there has only been one comment. Anyone presented with this question would need to stop and think...atleast 30 people read this post...maybe they stopped to think...instead of reacting.
    This is insulting. In the future please refrain. Do not discuss this post on the thread. Just do as I ask please.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Opie View Post
    Color me dense, but I do not understand those last 2 posts. Clarification please? Thanks.
    There is a possiblity that Susan is alive...but no one wants to go there...I have allways wondered why...WVPD themselves dont believe Susan is dead. A Lt Merrit stated in an Examiner article that "nothing points police that Susan is dead, so at this time she is still considered a missing person case." this was only a few months ago.

    Everyone thinks LE is hiding info or is totally lost...They can't comment because of a on going investigation offically...but a LT from the WVPD makes this statement???

    Im not here to pizz people off...I like you want answers. Why is it that the possiblity of Susan being alive is such a don't go there subject? If she is dead I could understand wanting to protect her name/memory ect. But we dont know that she is...by looking away at any possiblity in a misssing person case only defeats the goal of finding someone. No matter how painfull it may be.

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    Quote Originally Posted by SugarJames View Post
    There is a possiblity that Susan is alive...but no one wants to go there...I have allways wondered why...WVPD themselves dont believe Susan is dead. A Lt Merrit stated in an Examiner article that "nothing points police that Susan is dead, so at this time she is still considered a missing person case." this was only a few months ago.

    Everyone thinks LE is hiding info or is totally lost...They can't comment because of a on going investigation offically...but a LT from the WVPD makes this statement???

    Im not here to pizz people off...I like you want answers. Why is it that the possiblity of Susan being alive is such a don't go there subject? If she is dead I could understand wanting to protect her name/memory ect. But we dont know that she is...by looking away at any possiblity in a misssing person case only defeats the goal of finding someone. No matter how painfull it may be.
    Thank you Salem for the transfer...

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    Quote Originally Posted by SugarJames View Post
    There is a possiblity that Susan is alive...but no one wants to go there...I have allways wondered why...WVPD themselves dont believe Susan is dead. A Lt Merrit stated in an Examiner article that "nothing points police that Susan is dead, so at this time she is still considered a missing person case." this was only a few months ago.

    Everyone thinks LE is hiding info or is totally lost...They can't comment because of a on going investigation offically...but a LT from the WVPD makes this statement???

    Im not here to pizz people off...I like you want answers. Why is it that the possiblity of Susan being alive is such a don't go there subject? If she is dead I could understand wanting to protect her name/memory ect. But we dont know that she is...by looking away at any possiblity in a misssing person case only defeats the goal of finding someone. No matter how painfull it may be.
    I suppose most people here think the circumstantial evidence points to Susan being murdered by her husband, me included. However, I'm willing to explore any possibility. Tell me, why do you think she is still alive? What led you to that conclusion?

    IMO

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