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    CA - Clara Laird, 86, dies in mercy killing, Seal Beach, 21 Nov 2010

    LOS ANGELES -- When 88-year-old Roy Charles Laird was arrested Sunday on suspicion of killing his 86-year-old wife, Clara, at her nursing home in Seal Beach, the assumption was that he was trying to end her misery.
    The couple's daughter called the single gunshot wound to the head a "mercy killing."
    But on Tuesday, prosecutors had another word for it: murder.



    Read more: http://www.kentucky.com/2010/11/23/1...#ixzz16AF06Waj



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    70 years of marriage.

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    I stopped reading after i learnt that she couldn't even feed herself.

    This is an EXTREMELY hot topic but ... heck i'll offer out my 2 cents.

    1 - I am a strong supported that in particular cases like this that it is okay to assist in someones death - if it is their wishes. NOW having said that these are the reasons why.

    A ) Ongoing suffering not only affects the person who has the disease but everyone around them. It is a huge mental drain on family freinds - Anyone that is around that person. There is nothing MORE painful than watching somebody you love just fade away powerless. We were given the right to choose.

    B ) Quality of life - When you are unable to care for yourself, and lose the ability, to ENJOY your life.. Your metaphorically gone...

    C ) It's a personal decision - They were married for 70 years, they would of discussed it.

    Now i shall go cower.. and wait for the storm to pass..

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    SEAL BEACH The 88-year-old man accused of shooting and killing his 86-year-old wife in her room at a nursing home on Sunday afternoon is scheduled to appear in court Tuesday.
    Roy Charles Laird, of Seal Beach, is in custody at Orange County Jail with bail set at $1 million, according to the Orange County Sheriff's arrest log. He has a scheduled court appearance Tuesday at West Justice Center in Westminster.

    http://www.ocregister.com/news/bowle...ach-laird.html

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    This is so sad on so many levels. Dementia is a terrible, terrible illness - it robs you of everything you know, hold dear, and cherish. You truly leave your life behind while your body functions.

    There are many reasons dementia occurs, one being Alzheimers, others being the end result of other illnesses.

    If I were on his jury, I'd have to acquit. Would it be jury nullification? Yes, quite likely. But if this even gets to a jury is a whole 'nother story, and, imho, a travesty and a waste of the court's time.

    Murder? No...not here. Deep grief, loss and sympathetic actions, yes, but definitely not murder.

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    Bail set at $1. million. These people are ridiculous.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Beyond Belief View Post
    Bail set at $1. million. These people are ridiculous.
    It's Orange County. The DA's are known for being ridiculous and for overcharging.
    Although word on the street is that the charges won't stick. Not sure why anyone thinks that though.
    charges:

    1011/21/2010187(a) PC F Murder
    1111/21/201012022.53(d) PC F Use of Firearm
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    Wow, I feel for this man .....

    I work at a nursing home, I love all the residents that live there. It is hard for me of no relation at all to watch some of them just slowly go away both physically and mentally, some I have known for almost a year and some only a few days or months, it is heartbreaking. I worry constantly about them.......

    I hope that the charges are dropped down. I do understand the DA's point of view, but this man isn't a cold calculated killer imo......
    Last edited by mysticrose; 11-24-2010 at 01:02 AM.
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    agreed - ridiculous

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    Shortly before my mum passed, she said "dogs are humanely put to sleep when they're sick", why do I and others have to suffer. You should have seen what the doctors put my grandfather (who was a navy captain) through. Stripped him naked, plugged him full of tubes, when we all knew he was going to pass. Thankfully, my dad didn't ask for any extreme measures when my mom died and she was put in a quiet room to go quietly into the night.

    Why this man is being charged with murder is beyond me. Hopefully I pray a judge will see past this nonsense and let him go. What is an 80+ year old man going to do in prison? Probably die. Can't he live out his last years with family.

    Bless him, and bless his wife.

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    Remember this?

    "Huntington's disease first appeared in the mother of Carr's husband. She passed it to a daughter who died from it, a son who committed suicide when he learned that he had it, and Carol's husband, Hoyt Scott. Eventually the disease left Hoyt, a factory worker, unable to move, swallow, talk or think. He died in 1995. By then Carol's oldest sons, Randy and Andy, both had the disease. On June 8, 2002, Carr killed both men in the room they shared at a Georgia nursing home.[3]
    James Scott of Hampton, Carr's only remaining son, who also suffers from Huntington's, said his mother acted out of love, and not out of malice. Watching the boys suffer in agony for 20 years really took its toll on both him and his mother. "I sat there and watched them with bed sores," he said. "It's just a miserable way to live...."
    [ame="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Carol_Carr"]http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Carol_Carr[/ame]


    http://hdlighthouse.org/commlinks/fa...carrstatus.php


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    This story breaks my heart...

    We have how many convicted sex offenders living among us??...child rapists, killers and the scum of the earth....but this elderly man does this out of love (I am 110% convinced) and we have him in jail with bail set at a ridiculous amount...

    As far as I am concerned, he only needs to answer the questions his family has for him and what he did...

    God Bless all of them!!!

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    This poor man and family. He should never have had to feel that it was his responsibility to take such a violent action, and one that leaves him vulnerable to criminal charges and public scrutiny. End of life decisions should be proactively examined by members of the healthcare community and there needs to be a legal avenue by which to pursue the end of one's life under one's own terms and with dignity. I know it can be an extremely volatile issue, but having worked in hospice for several years, those families that take the time and the courageous step to help prepare all involved to help a loved one die as comfortably and peacefully as possible are spared a lot of guilt and grief in the end. I hope that when the press fades away and the dust settles, the prosecutors will give up this callous, wasteful and cruel pursuit.

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    It is tragic that he felt he had to make this decision and take the action.
    I admire that he is willing to stand by his convictions and made no effort to hide it or get away with it. I agree with the analogy upthread that we are allowed to compassionately end our elderly dogs lives when their quality of life has clearly diminished. In fact if you leave a dog that cannot eat to slowly starve to death or lie in a bed of infected sores I am pretty sure you can be charged with a crime.

    I would fully support a well thought out assisted suicide law.

    My heart goes out to the entire family that is dealing with this loss, and will now face a legal battle for their father. And it is heartbreaking to me that she died the way she did when we have much gentler ways for her to have left the planet.

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    I'm not a fan of assisted suicide or mercy killings, but I do try to be compassionate about the reasons for such concepts.

    I just feel like we don't die until we are supposed to. However, I don't believe in prolonging life where the quality of life is gone either.

    I think this is just so difficult and I hope I am never, ever in a position where I feel like this poor man must have felt. I pray our legal system shows him mercy.

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    Quote Originally Posted by JBean View Post
    It's Orange County. The DA's are known for being ridiculous and for overcharging.
    Although word on the street is that the charges won't stick. Not sure why anyone thinks that though.
    charges:

    1011/21/2010187(a) PC F Murder
    1111/21/201012022.53(d) PC F Use of Firearm
    This is my county too, JBean and you are so right about the DA here. I didn't read your links but I read in an LA Times article that many other states or counties that have had such cases have either charged them with something less, not charged them at all or given them nothing more than probation at trial.
    This couple have been together since high school. 70 years, I think. The husband tenderly cared for his wife for years and was with her every day in the nursing home. He killed her when she lost the ability to eat, walk or sit up.
    I understand that it's a slippery slope. We don't want people using "mercy killings" as an excuse to off a disabled or unwanted spouse. But I think common sense needs to come into play in such cases. Clearly, this was a strong marriage with a husband who absolutely adored his wife. Clearly, she had no more quality of life and was likely suffering. I have told my spouse to not let me go on if there was no more hope. I just don't want to suffer. This man is 88 years old. His family supports him and understands. Let him go home.
    For Elizabeth, a minor child, a victim. Thank God she is home!

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