Addicts and Alcoholics have MANY ways of fooling people....I feel sorry for dad...I am sure if he had ANY clue he never would have let the little girl stay there....so damn sad.....
I'm not blaming the dad either, but he HAD to have a clue. He left her because of her drinking and they had been separated for a while. She recently got her license revoked for more drinking and driving and he was putting money in her account as well as paying her mortgage.
Husband said he wouldn't pay for this and she had to get a job, so she did.
This seems to me to be planned. Mother had a problem with alcohol for well over 9 years. I grew up with alcoholic family members and know that many alcoholics never stop drinking completely. I do have to say, though, none of my family ever left me in a running car with the garage door closed
that poor little girl.
It could be possible that the mother planned this:
- the house was "neat and tidy"
- note on the door
- buying vodka the night before
- mom's "favorite movie" in the dvd in the car
- tv's turned up loud inside the house (so as to deter anyone from hearing anything, perhaps?)
The woman must've had a very sad, sad life. She was ill. Alcoholism is a disease. It's just very sad that the daughter had to die, too. It's one thing to want to not live anymore, but to take someone with you who deserved to live is just wrong.