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    VA - Bethany Decker, 21, Ashburn, 29 Jan 2011

    http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/41858404

    "Bethany Anne Decker, 21, is believed to be about five months pregnant and was last seen Jan. 29. After weeks of failing to contact Decker, her family reported her missing Feb. 19. Investigators said they have no idea what happened to her. Her car was found at her last known address on Orchard Grass Terrace."

    And her husband is deployed?! She's tiny, 21 years old and 5 months pregnant...where is Bethany? In the below article, it also says she has a 17 month old son who lives with a family member so she can attend school full time. No activity no cards, etc. How can they NOT suspect foul play?

    Her husband was on leave and left to go back to Afghanistan on Feb. 2 - she hasn't been heard from since Jan. 29. Not saying anything. Just sayin'.

    http://www.tbd.com/articles/2011/03/...-29-55550.html
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    VA- Bethany Anne Decker, 21, Ashburn, 29 Jan 2011 -5 Mths Pregnant, Mom, GMU Student

    http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/41858404

    "Bethany Anne Decker, 21, is believed to be about five months pregnant and was last seen Jan. 29. After weeks of failing to contact Decker, her family reported her missing Feb. 19. Investigators said they have no idea what happened to her. Her car was found at her last known address on Orchard Grass Terrace."

    And her husband is deployed?! She's tiny, 21 years old and 5 months pregnant...where is Bethany? In the below article, it also says she has a 17 month old son who lives with a family member so she can attend school full time and the video says she was close to graduation. No activity on cards, phone, etc. How can they NOT suspect foul play?

    Her husband was on leave and left to go back to Afghanistan on Feb. 2 - she hasn't been heard from since Jan. 29.

    I have no idea why it took so long for her to be reported missing, but we shall see. Praying for her and her child(ren).

    http://www.tbd.com/articles/2011/03/...-29-55550.html
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    Okay this is my neck of the woods and my alma mater. I haven't heard anything, but my mom said the case was on the news this evening. She indicated that Bethany is from Ashburn.

    The information contained in the maps below are my interpretation of locations, based on MSM and input from others. They are meant solely as a guide and are not to be taken as fact.

    Possible Victims of Lloyd Lee Welch Jr ~ https://maps.google.com/maps/ms?msid...01105,0.019634

    Elizabeth Collins & Lyric Cook ~ https://maps.google.com/maps/ms?msid...406effc9c7306f

    Holly Bobo ~ https://www.google.com/maps/ms?msid=...184749,0.31414

    Kyron Horman ~ https://www.google.com/maps/d/edit?m...kQ&usp=sharing

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    Here are some pics of Bethany...

    http://www.tbd.com/articles/2011/03/...-29-55550.html




    Ashburn Woman Missing Since Jan. 29Investigators seek leads in the disappearance of a young wife whose husband is serving in Afghanistan.

    http://leesburg.patch.com/articles/a...since-jan-29#c

    She has family living in the Fredericksburg area. Mrs. Decker’s husband is with the U.S. military, currently serving in Afghanistan.

    The information contained in the maps below are my interpretation of locations, based on MSM and input from others. They are meant solely as a guide and are not to be taken as fact.

    Possible Victims of Lloyd Lee Welch Jr ~ https://maps.google.com/maps/ms?msid...01105,0.019634

    Elizabeth Collins & Lyric Cook ~ https://maps.google.com/maps/ms?msid...406effc9c7306f

    Holly Bobo ~ https://www.google.com/maps/ms?msid=...184749,0.31414

    Kyron Horman ~ https://www.google.com/maps/d/edit?m...kQ&usp=sharing

    Relisha Rudd ~ https://www.google.com/maps/ms?msid=...3bc4b55d&msa=0

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    Loudoun County Sheriff's Office has info on their FB page... http://www.facebook.com/note.php?not...d=291071386976

    The information contained in the maps below are my interpretation of locations, based on MSM and input from others. They are meant solely as a guide and are not to be taken as fact.

    Possible Victims of Lloyd Lee Welch Jr ~ https://maps.google.com/maps/ms?msid...01105,0.019634

    Elizabeth Collins & Lyric Cook ~ https://maps.google.com/maps/ms?msid...406effc9c7306f

    Holly Bobo ~ https://www.google.com/maps/ms?msid=...184749,0.31414

    Kyron Horman ~ https://www.google.com/maps/d/edit?m...kQ&usp=sharing

    Relisha Rudd ~ https://www.google.com/maps/ms?msid=...3bc4b55d&msa=0

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    Close to me as well... I hope she is found soon.
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    Pregnant Virginia Woman Missing More Than a Month

    http://www.nbcwashington.com/news/lo...117201403.html

    There is video at the link.

    A neighbor, who was interviewed, says that he would always hear arguing coming from the apartment on the 4th floor.

    The information contained in the maps below are my interpretation of locations, based on MSM and input from others. They are meant solely as a guide and are not to be taken as fact.

    Possible Victims of Lloyd Lee Welch Jr ~ https://maps.google.com/maps/ms?msid...01105,0.019634

    Elizabeth Collins & Lyric Cook ~ https://maps.google.com/maps/ms?msid...406effc9c7306f

    Holly Bobo ~ https://www.google.com/maps/ms?msid=...184749,0.31414

    Kyron Horman ~ https://www.google.com/maps/d/edit?m...kQ&usp=sharing

    Relisha Rudd ~ https://www.google.com/maps/ms?msid=...3bc4b55d&msa=0

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    Quote Originally Posted by hollye View Post
    Pregnant Virginia Woman Missing More Than a Month

    http://www.nbcwashington.com/news/lo...117201403.html

    There is video at the link.

    A neighbor, who was interviewed, says that he would always hear arguing coming from the apartment on the 4th floor.
    This doesn't sound good...
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    Quote Originally Posted by hollye View Post
    Pregnant Virginia Woman Missing More Than a Month

    http://www.nbcwashington.com/news/lo...117201403.html

    There is video at the link.

    A neighbor, who was interviewed, says that he would always hear arguing coming from the apartment on the 4th floor.
    I read that on one of the comments, but couldn't find the link yet, so thank you for finding! I also read her family was estranged from her, which is why it may have taken so long for her to be reported...and if she was going to school full time, without a workplace to raise flags, there may not have been many people to check in on her. I know for sure that my University wouldn't have called to check on me for missing classes for weeks. =P Really doesn't seem good.
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    I wonder exactly when her husband left? (ETA: I see Truthful Lies posted above it was Feb 2 - so he was 'home' at the time... Would HE have reported her sooner? I mean, she was last seen 1/29 and he didn't leave until 2/2? Also seems that his deployment would have been delayed with his (pregnant) wife just gone missing? Something doesn't sound right with this.)

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    Her husband is in the military and was deployed to Afghanistan around the time Decker disappeared, DiBenedetto said.

    Decker wasn't reported missing until Feb. 19. DiBenedetto said family members had thought she was with friends, and her friends believed she was staying with family.

    Read more at the Washington Examiner: http://washingtonexaminer.com/local/...#ixzz1FP0wCAAM
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    17 month old NOT living with her so she could finish school? That seems hinky to me, maybe I am jaded, but there are many ways to go to school, and still care for your children, even being a "single" mom (with DH deployed) IMO

    And a lot of arguing?

    Estranged from her family?

    I see an abusive relationship with hubby, and he knows exactly where he put her. And if I am wrong, I will eat my words, and my shirt

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    Here is a youtube video of the husband, Emile Decker, from the holidays.

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-L9HG5zbCzw

    Notice that he does not mention Bethany by name, but does his son. That is telling I think.
    Last edited by KateB; 04-02-2015 at 02:14 AM. Reason: repair link code.

    The information contained in the maps below are my interpretation of locations, based on MSM and input from others. They are meant solely as a guide and are not to be taken as fact.

    Possible Victims of Lloyd Lee Welch Jr ~ https://maps.google.com/maps/ms?msid...01105,0.019634

    Elizabeth Collins & Lyric Cook ~ https://maps.google.com/maps/ms?msid...406effc9c7306f

    Holly Bobo ~ https://www.google.com/maps/ms?msid=...184749,0.31414

    Kyron Horman ~ https://www.google.com/maps/d/edit?m...kQ&usp=sharing

    Relisha Rudd ~ https://www.google.com/maps/ms?msid=...3bc4b55d&msa=0

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    Quote Originally Posted by mommy23 View Post
    17 month old NOT living with her so she could finish school? That seems hinky to me, maybe I am jaded, but there are many ways to go to school, and still care for your children, even being a "single" mom (with DH deployed) IMO

    And a lot of arguing?

    Estranged from her family?

    I see an abusive relationship with hubby, and he knows exactly where he put her. And if I am wrong, I will eat my words, and my shirt
    ITA! They need to drag his fanny back here and question him!!
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    Quote Originally Posted by PoppyH View Post
    ITA! They need to drag his fanny back here and question him!!
    I totally agree!!!! But can they do that?? Will the military do that?

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    Quote Originally Posted by mommy23 View Post
    17 month old NOT living with her so she could finish school? That seems hinky to me, maybe I am jaded, but there are many ways to go to school, and still care for your children, even being a "single" mom (with DH deployed) IMO

    And a lot of arguing?

    Estranged from her family?

    I see an abusive relationship with hubby, and he knows exactly where he put her. And if I am wrong, I will eat my words, and my shirt
    I personally wouldn't be able to be separated from my 17 month old, especially since those are such crucial years, but she was at GMU, and her program may not have had a lot of night classes - I know my school didn't (huge state school). Also, if she was having a troublesome pregnancy, etc. I'm not ready to judge her for this, at all. Maybe she was struggling with depression and she really had no help (from what I understand her family did not live near GMU).

    I do understand her wanting to graduate - she has come far if almost there. I definitely suspect DH - I just hope he gives up where she is (hmmm..wonder if other soldiers will hear about this and maybe extract it?? Just crossed my mind, is all. That would be nice. :::whistling::

    Poor Bethany...geeze. I hope this case gets publicity, and I hope if he does get charged, they don't find a prior history of PTSD, etc.

    ETA: If he was home, and her 17 month old was with him, wouldn't he have wanted to spend his leave with his child, as well? How long were they married?
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