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    Quote Originally Posted by mommy23 View Post
    I totally agree!!!! But can they do that?? Will the military do that?
    I don't know exactly how it would work, Im sure LE would send someone there?? I bet you he has already been questioned, they just have to prove he caused her to disappear
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    Kim Nelson says her daughter Bethany Decker is her lipgloss and flip-flop girl.

    The college senior, who is also five months pregnant, was with her family on Christmas Day.

    That was the last time anyone in the family saw her.


    Investigators say Decker was last seen by a friend at her apartment in Ashburn on January 29. Police say her car was still in the parking lot, but she was nowhere to be found.

    http://www.myfoxdc.com/dpp/news/virg...-decker-030111

    In Lori Arrowood's case they immediately brought her husband back... but I think they knew it was a homicide, he was not a suspect and it was Army, not National Guard. So who knows if they will do the same here.

    So you are trying to tell me... that Bethany was last seen on Jan 29th.

    And her husband left for deployment on February 2nd.

    WithOUT seeing his wife?

    I have known A LOT of military couples. Very few do not see each other the day they leave for and return from deployment! And the husbands would think it was an immediate emergency if their wife disappeared for a day just 4 days before they were to leave... because that time is precious.

    I never, ever say something is suspicious about the husband. But I really don't like this. Unless they were planning on getting divorced and weren't really living as a married couple... or he claims that he DID see her February 2nd before he left. Otherwise... something isn't right here.

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    definitely need some answers from hubby here. When did he exactly leave and who was the last person to see her on Jan 29th? was it hubby? if so why did he not report her missing? or if they say had an argument and she took off and he went back to afghanistan when was the last time he had phone/internet etc contact with her and if he has had none why has he not reported that to someone.

    No it is a fine timeline between the last time she was seen (and I am assuming that is by someone other than hubby) and when he left.

    I also think it extremely odd that she does not have her 17mth old...something wrong there, was it his I wonder.
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    This article was updated a moment ago: http://www.nbcwashington.com/news/lo...117201403.html

    Says "He has been here in the country on leave, and was with Ms. Decker back in January," said a member of the Loudoun County Sheriff's Office. "We need to come up with a timeline as far as their contact with each other before he was sent back to Afghanistan.Law enforcement officials said they are trying to arrange a face-to-face meeting with Decker's husband."

    That article also answered the question of how long the marriage was - 1.5 years. So...around 18 months? Guess that doesn't answer out question about the other child.

    ETA: Whoa. The lone comment on the story is interesting.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Truthful Lies View Post
    This article was updated a moment ago: http://www.nbcwashington.com/news/lo...117201403.html

    Says "He has been here in the country on leave, and was with Ms. Decker back in January," said a member of the Loudoun County Sheriff's Office. "We need to come up with a timeline as far as their contact with each other before he was sent back to Afghanistan.Law enforcement officials said they are trying to arrange a face-to-face meeting with Decker's husband."

    That article also answered the question of how long the marriage was - 1.5 years. So...around 18 months? Guess that doesn't answer out question about the other child.
    ETA: Whoa. The lone comment on the story is interesting.

    bbm

    I was just going to post on that. A must-read, for sure. Puts a whole new spin on things... IMO.
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    Quote Originally Posted by belimom View Post
    bbm

    I was just going to post on that. A must-read, for sure. Puts a whole new spin on things... IMO.
    It definitely does - I want to type out my long-winded thoughts on this, but I can't remember if we can comment on rumor. I don't think so =P (Why does my memory stink....)
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    Okay, some of my thoughts....

    I am having a hard time understanding some of this from a couple fo different perspectives.

    Bethandy was enrolled in school at GMU. Her family said that the last time that they saw Bethany was Christmas Day. Classes didn't start back up for the Spring Semester until January 24th, per http://registrar.gmu.edu/calendars/2011Spring.html

    First day of classes; Mon Jan 24
    So she did not see her son at all for a month that she would not have been in classes? Even though he was just an hour and a half south of her apartment? Having small children myself that makes no sense to me at all. And her husband, home from deployment, didn't see their son either? How long was he home? Being that close, I would be home to see my son most very weekend that I could.

    The information contained in the maps below are my interpretation of locations, based on MSM and input from others. They are meant solely as a guide and are not to be taken as fact.

    Possible Victims of Lloyd Lee Welch Jr ~ https://maps.google.com/maps/ms?msid...01105,0.019634

    Elizabeth Collins & Lyric Cook ~ https://maps.google.com/maps/ms?msid...406effc9c7306f

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    What Happened to Bethany Decker?

    http://www.nbcwashington.com/news/lo...117214263.html

    Craig Melvin reports on a missing pregnant woman who disappeared without a trace, days before her husband was deployed to Afghanistan.
    Video with interviews with Bethany's parents

    Key Points
    * They've been married about 1 1/2 years
    * Husband was with her back in January, but does not say how long he was home on leave
    * Investigators are trying to get a face to face meeting with the husband
    * Neighbors describe fighting late at night almost every night
    * Mother would not describe relationship with husband, but Bethany would not leave behind her son
    * Bethany kept in touch via texting and phone, If she was not speaking with her mother, she would keep in touch with her siblings

    Yeah, things are pretty hinky! And I vote in the drection of the husband
    Last edited by hollye; 03-02-2011 at 11:21 AM.

    The information contained in the maps below are my interpretation of locations, based on MSM and input from others. They are meant solely as a guide and are not to be taken as fact.

    Possible Victims of Lloyd Lee Welch Jr ~ https://maps.google.com/maps/ms?msid...01105,0.019634

    Elizabeth Collins & Lyric Cook ~ https://maps.google.com/maps/ms?msid...406effc9c7306f

    Holly Bobo ~ https://www.google.com/maps/ms?msid=...184749,0.31414

    Kyron Horman ~ https://www.google.com/maps/d/edit?m...kQ&usp=sharing

    Relisha Rudd ~ https://www.google.com/maps/ms?msid=...3bc4b55d&msa=0

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    Quote Originally Posted by MsFacetious View Post
    Kim Nelson says her daughter Bethany Decker is her lipgloss and flip-flop girl.

    The college senior, who is also five months pregnant, was with her family on Christmas Day.

    That was the last time anyone in the family saw her.


    Investigators say Decker was last seen by a friend at her apartment in Ashburn on January 29. Police say her car was still in the parking lot, but she was nowhere to be found.

    http://www.myfoxdc.com/dpp/news/virg...-decker-030111

    In Lori Arrowood's case they immediately brought her husband back... but I think they knew it was a homicide, he was not a suspect and it was Army, not National Guard. So who knows if they will do the same here.

    So you are trying to tell me... that Bethany was last seen on Jan 29th.

    And her husband left for deployment on February 2nd.

    WithOUT seeing his wife?

    I have known A LOT of military couples. Very few do not see each other the day they leave for and return from deployment! And the husbands would think it was an immediate emergency if their wife disappeared for a day just 4 days before they were to leave... because that time is precious.

    I never, ever say something is suspicious about the husband. But I really don't like this. Unless they were planning on getting divorced and weren't really living as a married couple... or he claims that he DID see her February 2nd before he left. Otherwise... something isn't right here.
    This also said

    Investigators say they are checking her Facebook and credit cards, but so far, there has been no activity. At this point, they are looking at all possibilities.
    Has anyone found her FB page? I haven't found it yet.

    The information contained in the maps below are my interpretation of locations, based on MSM and input from others. They are meant solely as a guide and are not to be taken as fact.

    Possible Victims of Lloyd Lee Welch Jr ~ https://maps.google.com/maps/ms?msid...01105,0.019634

    Elizabeth Collins & Lyric Cook ~ https://maps.google.com/maps/ms?msid...406effc9c7306f

    Holly Bobo ~ https://www.google.com/maps/ms?msid=...184749,0.31414

    Kyron Horman ~ https://www.google.com/maps/d/edit?m...kQ&usp=sharing

    Relisha Rudd ~ https://www.google.com/maps/ms?msid=...3bc4b55d&msa=0

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    Quote Originally Posted by Truthful Lies View Post
    This article was updated a moment ago: http://www.nbcwashington.com/news/lo...117201403.html

    Says "He has been here in the country on leave, and was with Ms. Decker back in January," said a member of the Loudoun County Sheriff's Office. "We need to come up with a timeline as far as their contact with each other before he was sent back to Afghanistan.Law enforcement officials said they are trying to arrange a face-to-face meeting with Decker's husband."

    That article also answered the question of how long the marriage was - 1.5 years. So...around 18 months? Guess that doesn't answer out question about the other child.

    ETA: Whoa. The lone comment on the story is interesting.
    Whoa is right! I wonder how true it is.

    The information contained in the maps below are my interpretation of locations, based on MSM and input from others. They are meant solely as a guide and are not to be taken as fact.

    Possible Victims of Lloyd Lee Welch Jr ~ https://maps.google.com/maps/ms?msid...01105,0.019634

    Elizabeth Collins & Lyric Cook ~ https://maps.google.com/maps/ms?msid...406effc9c7306f

    Holly Bobo ~ https://www.google.com/maps/ms?msid=...184749,0.31414

    Kyron Horman ~ https://www.google.com/maps/d/edit?m...kQ&usp=sharing

    Relisha Rudd ~ https://www.google.com/maps/ms?msid=...3bc4b55d&msa=0


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    Here's a FB page that was started for her... http://www.facebook.com/home.php?#!/...83251775051525

    According to this, her maiden name is Littlejohn.
    Additionally, it states that Bethany's FB page is no longer available.
    Last edited by hollye; 03-02-2011 at 11:37 AM.

    The information contained in the maps below are my interpretation of locations, based on MSM and input from others. They are meant solely as a guide and are not to be taken as fact.

    Possible Victims of Lloyd Lee Welch Jr ~ https://maps.google.com/maps/ms?msid...01105,0.019634

    Elizabeth Collins & Lyric Cook ~ https://maps.google.com/maps/ms?msid...406effc9c7306f

    Holly Bobo ~ https://www.google.com/maps/ms?msid=...184749,0.31414

    Kyron Horman ~ https://www.google.com/maps/d/edit?m...kQ&usp=sharing

    Relisha Rudd ~ https://www.google.com/maps/ms?msid=...3bc4b55d&msa=0

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    Sounds like that comment may be coming from a member of the husbands family. I agree it is certainly interesting. I wondered if it was hubby's baby she was pregnant with. 5 months and he is deployed? Sounds like he was just back for R&R.

    I called my husband (Sgt Major, National Guard) and asked some pertinent questions regarding R&R.

    1. R&R is rotational and can happen any time after about 3 months if deployment is for a year or more. If deployment is less than a a year they do not have R&R trips home.
    (so it could be hubby's baby)

    2. When they leave after R&R there is usually a couple of days between leaving home and flying out of country. If he had to return by the 2nd he would have been gone by the 31st but if he didn't leave until the 2nd then he didn't have to be back over there until the 4th. (approx.)

    3. Military takes precedent and local authorities would have to request extradition.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jaxson View Post
    Sounds like that comment may be coming from a member of the husbands family. I agree it is certainly interesting. I wondered if it was hubby's baby she was pregnant with. 5 months and he is deployed? Sounds like he was just back for R&R.
    ........
    Good observation there. Don't think it's his under those circumstances. MOO
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    She would have had a scheduled OB appt in Feb.

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    Quote Originally Posted by belimom View Post
    Good observation there. Don't think it's his under those circumstances. MOO
    Quoting myself - but now I can see two suspects, really: this BF she was living with and her husband, who may have come home to find out she was pregnant by someone else... I'm leaning towards the BF, since it doesn't appear that he reported her missing? But I find it interesting that LE wants to talk to her husband in person. Seems like a phone interview or something would be more practical if they really were more or less separated, etc, unless they have other reasons to want to see him...
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