OK OK - Peggy Sweeten, 52, Grove, 17 Jan 1998

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http://www.charleyproject.org/cases/s/sweeten_peggy.html

http://www.nampn.org/cases/sweeten_peggy.html

http://z10.invisionfree.com/usedtobedoe/index.php?showtopic=62691&st=0&#last
Website that archives past articles. Excellent resourse when looking for past information published.

The 52-year-old ex-wife of the former superintendent of schools in Arma, Kan., was last seen at the couple’s home in January 1998.

James Sweeten told family members and friends that he discovered that she had left him when he returned home that month from a conference for school superintendents. He claimed to have found her wedding rings and a note stating that she had run off with a man she met on the Internet.

According to court records, the husband never filed a missing-person report until five months later at the urging of his son. By then, he had obtained a divorce, and he eventually married another woman in December 1998.

Picture from Charley Project, first link in this posting.
 

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it looks like the husband probably had something to do with this. what i will never understand is why they dont just get a divorce. and in this particular case why didnt he just get a divorce before he killed her? was he afraid he would have to give her something in the divorce and he didnt want to part with his material possessions? i wonder what his new wife knows. it seems impossible that she wouldn't at least suspect something. jmo
 
2011 article:

A two-day search underneath a tool shed did not reveal the remains of a Grove woman missing since 1998, but the search warrant indicates her husband was involved in an extramarital affair at the time of her disappearance...

According to the search warrant, the tool shed was built shortly after Peggy Sweeten's disappearance and James Sweeten told his son, Patrick, that he was building the tool shed to “pass the time.”...

An anomaly beneath the shed indicated by ground penetrating radar equipment turned out to be a tree root, Wyant said...

When interviewed in June, James Sweeten refused to submit to a polygraph test and... also refused a noninvasive search of his property...

Patrick Sweeten thinks his father was involved in Peggy Sweeten's disappearance. Patrick Sweeten said the last time he spoke with his mother was in December 1997, the warrant states.

https://www.google.com/amp/m.newsok.com/article/3608798/amp?client=ms-android-sonymobile
 
Updated Charley Project link:

Peggy Anne Sweeten – The Charley Project

The couple's adult son, Patrick, had last spoken to his mother in December 1997. James didn't tell Patrick that Peggy was missing until March 1998, and it wasn't until June that Patrick convinced his father to file a missing persons report.

Patrick doesn't believe his father's story about Peggy's disappearance and thinks James may have harmed his mother; he stated Peggy didn't use the internet, didn't have an email address and could not have met anyone through there.

James was having an affair with a married woman at the time of Peggy's disappearance. The woman divorced her husband in April 1998. She and James moved in together in June and married in December.


Authorities believe Peggy was a homicide victim, and James is considered a person of interest in her presumed death. They searched his property in September 2011, but didn't find any evidence there. Her case remains unsolved.

RBBM

Son blames father in woman's disappearance in Grove
 
Peggy A. Sweeten, 52, was last seen on Jan. 17, 1998.

She had her husband, James Lee Sweeten, a former Arma, Kan., school superintendent, lived in a lakefront home with a boat dock at Four Seasons Resort on Grand Lake, northeast of Grove.

None of Peggy’s personal belongings including her car, clothing, photos or mementos were missing, according to a search warrant filed in 2011.

“We were reviewing the old police reports and investigative reports again and a statement by Patrick Sweeten, Peggy’s son, caught my eye,” said Mark Wall, Delaware and Ottawa County Cold Case detective.

Patrick Sweeten told investigators he learned his mother was missing in March 1998 and had to force his father to file a missing person’s report in June 1998.

James Sweeten told authorities in 1998 his wife left with a man she had met online, the warrant states. The problem was Peggy Sweeten did not use email and never had an email address.

Patrick Sweeten told investigators in 1998 he noticed a 55-gallon drum on his parent’s property was suddenly missing. When he questioned his father, James Sweeten, about the barrel, the elder Sweeten shrugged his shoulders and said he didn’t know anything about it, Wall said.

On Wednesday members of the Tulsa Fire Department, Cherokee Nation investigators and Delaware County Sheriff’s deputies used an underwater drone and magnetic locating equipment to search the 15-foot waters that surround the boat dock area of Sweeten’s former residence.
 
From the new article just linked.
James Sweeten was listed as “a person of interest” when investigators dug up an old tool shed on the property in 2011.

The 2011 search warrant states James Sweeten was involved in an extramarital affair at the time of Peggy’s disappearance.

Officials said that at the time, James Sweeten refused to submit to a polygraph test and refused a noninvasive search of his property.

The warrant states that James Sweeten “appeared to be deceptive and evasive” during the interview.
 
APR 16, 2023
[...]

On Wednesday, the Tulsa Fire Department, Cherokee Nation investigators and Delaware County sheriff’s deputies used an underwater drone and magnetic locating equipment to search the 15-foot waters that surround the boat dock area of Sweeten’s former residence.

On Friday, divers located a 55-gallon drum upright submerged in sludge. Divers used mesh buckets to extract some of the contents from the drum.

[...]

While no visible bones, clothing or remains were recovered, Tulsa Medical Examiner Anthropologist Angela Burg was painstakingly sifting through muck and debris as divers pulled the buckets out of the water.

Wall said they plan to bring underwater equipment to the site to safely remove the drum without losing any of the contents.

[...]

James Sweeten filed for divorce on Feb. 9, 1998, three weeks after Peggy’s disappearance. Peggy Sweeten did not appear in court for the proceedings and a divorce was granted on April 6, 1998, court records show.

According to the warrant, the elder Sweeten told his son he filed for divorce because he had gotten a call from his wife saying she wasn’t coming back.

[...]
 
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Peggy Sweeten, 52 at the age of her disappearance, was last seen Jan. 17, 1998.

At the time of Peggy Sweeten's disappearance, her husband told authorities she had left with a man she'd met online, but Patrick Sweeten, the couple's son, said his mother did not use email. The Oklahoman previously reported that none of Peggy Sweeten's personal belongings — including her car, clothes, photos or mementos — were missing.

Detectives said that Patrick Sweeten had told investigators in 1998 that he'd noticed a 55-gallon drum had abruptly gone missing on his parents' property. When the son questioned the father about the whereabouts of the drum, he was dismissive and said he knew nothing about it, Patrick Sweeten told investigators.

Last Wednesday, local fire officials, sheriff's deputies and investigators used an underwater drone and a magnetic locator as they began searching the deep waters surrounding the Sweetens' old lakefront home. Friday, officials found a 55-gallon drum standing upright but covered in sludge. Mesh buckets were used to pull some of the contents from the drum.
 
April 2023 rbbm.
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''GROVE, Okla. (KSNF)– Authorities believe the disintegrating and rusted-out remains of a 55-gallon drum at the bottom of a northeast Oklahoma lake may hold clues to the disappearance of a woman missing since 1998.

Peggy A. Sweeten, 52, was last seen on Jan. 17, 1998.''

''Patrick Sweeten told investigators in 1998 he noticed a 55-gallon drum on his parent’s property was suddenly missing. When he questioned his father about the barrel, his dad shrugged his shoulders and said he didn’t know anything about it, Wall said.

Nexstar’s KSNF reached out to James Sweeten for comment, but he did not return phone calls.

On Wednesday, the Tulsa Fire Department, Cherokee Nation investigators and Delaware County sheriff’s deputies used an underwater drone and magnetic locating equipment to search the 15-foot waters that surround the boat dock area of Sweeten’s former residence.

On Friday, divers located a 55-gallon drum upright submerged in sludge. Divers used mesh buckets to extract some of the contents from the drum.''

''The 2011 search warrant stated James Sweeten was involved in an extramarital affair at the time of Peggy’s disappearance. Officials said that at the time, James refused to submit to a polygraph test and refused a noninvasive search of his property.''
 
Must read article! It's quite lengthy. :)

May 14, 2023
[...]

In an exclusive interview with Fourstateshomepage.com, Jim Sweeten’s own sister, Carolyn Houston, and her daughter, Missy Bender, talked about how they believe Peggy’s demise came at the hands of her husband.

[...]

“At one point in Patrick’s life he was going through some marital problems and was questioning his father about legal issues relating to property,” Bender said.

Jim reportedly said it was easier “to put a bullet in her head than go through a divorce,” Bender said.
MISSY BENDER, MAY 14, 2023 INTERVIEW

[...]

Patrick Sweeten believes his mother confronted his father when he returned from an educational seminar about a renewed affair with Debra Hammond, who later became Jim’s wife. During the argument, the younger Sweeten believes his mother probably threatened to expose his father’s alleged shady financial dealings involving Patrick’s great-grandmother, Edith Swift.

Some of the questionable dealings included allegations of fraudulently obtained property and stock certificates.

Edith Swift began working as a telephone relief operator at the Southwestern Bell Telephone Company in Neosho, Mo. in 1914. She stayed with the company until 1961 and in those 46 years, she purchased 827 shares of stock. At the time of her retirement, she was in the top 13% of employee and non-employee shareholders in the Bell System, according to an Oct. 2, 1961, story in the “Telephone Times.”

Carolyn Houston, Swift’s granddaughter, wonders if the stocks were transferred into her brother’s name and if they were sold, who authorized the transfer and sale?

“There is great secrecy and mystery surrounding the stock,” Houston said. “Even to this day.”

“My grandmother was not legally capable of selling the stock when she entered the nursing home in 1975,” Houston said. “She was diagnosed with dementia in 1976,” she said.

[...]

“The deed transferring Swift’s home to Jim, listed the married man as ‘a single person’ and it was notarized by a woman who lived in Coffeyville, Kansas who worked at the college where Jim taught adjunct classes,” Houston said.

“Edith Swift’s signature was forged,” Houston said.

[...]

Jim said he returned from a superintendent’s conference and found that Peggy had left a note along with her wedding band and engagement ring, Patrick Sweeten said.

Jim also told a private investigator Peggy took furniture, including her grandmother’s hutch, and antiques.

Again, there was never any evidence to back up Jim’s claims, according to investigators.

“The note said she had found someone else,” Jim Sweeten told his son.

At Patrick’s insistence, Jim said he filed a missing person’s report in June 1998. However, there is no record of a missing report filed with the Delaware County Sheriff’s Department.

[...]

The divorce lawyer told investigators in 2011 “James’s main concern and rush about the divorce was to get the property in his name,” according to a search warrant.

Shortly after Peggy disappeared, Debra Hammond divorced her husband on April 1, 1998. Her job concluded in June 1998, and she and Jim moved in together at the lake house. The couple got married on Dec. 27, 1998, in Las Vegas, according to the search warrant.

According to Jim and Debra’s Christmas letters for the next couple of years after their marriage, the couple lived a charmed life; spending Christmas in Key Largo, taking snow skiing trips to the Colorado Rockies and Breckenridge, vacations to Yellowstone, an Alaskan cruise, and spending nine days in Switzerland.

[...]
 
Jim Sweeten, Patrick’s father, is considered by Delaware County authorities as a “person of interest” in the disappearance and presumed death of his wife. In April, those state and local authorities located a 55-gallon drum in a cove near Sweeten’s former Grand Lake residence.

Investigators and divers begin the retrieval process on Monday morning to pull that drum from the murky waters of Grand Lake, where they believe the remains of Peggy Sweeten lay in a watery grave.

Mother’s Day is bittersweet, she said. “There are no texts, no phone calls, no visits.”
 
“The bottom of the barrel remains stuck to the lake bottom, but divers were able to pull up the sides of the barrel,” Beck said.

Beck has several nagging questions about the barrel and how divers found it intact near the boat ramp.

When first located the barrel was standing upright partially submerged in the Grand Lake cove.

“Something had to weigh it down for it to be upright all these years,” Beck said. “What probably has happened is whatever has weighted it down has been has been washed away into the lake.”

Wall said he wants to revisit the shed and bring out a new team of cadaver dogs and reinvestigate Jim and Peggy’s former residence with a forensic luminol test that is able to detect trace amounts of blood.

“A luminol test can still show up something after all of these years,” Wall said.

Jim refused to submit to a polygraph test and refused to allow a non-invasive search of his property and thought “he should consult an attorney,” when questioned in 2011 by investigators, according to a search warrant.

“James appeared to be deceptive and evasive” and “appeared to be attempting to find out how far the investigation had progressed” and what the investigators knew and “what direction the investigation was headed,” the search warrant stated.
*Hang on Peggy, they are trying to get you out. Don’t worry. Just a little bit longer…
 
"We found one metal barrell or metal bar. that by itself would not be enough weight to keep that... in the matter it was upright with sediment around it so it would have to have some weight systemp up there at some time so there could have been something in there that floated out. there is no top on the barrel," said Delaware County Sheriff James Beck.
 

(KOAM) - A person of interest in the Peggy Sweeten disappearance in Delaware County, Okla. has reportedly killed himself in south Texas.
The Delaware County Sheriff's Office posted to its Facebook page that person of interest James Sweeten contacted the Weslaco, Texas Police Department about wanting to harm himself.
James Sweeten was Peggy's husband.
 
MAY 18, 2023
Delaware County Sheriff's Office confirmed that in the early morning of May, 18, 2023, James contacted the Weslaco Police and said that he wanted to take his life.

When police arrived at his home, they found Sweeten had died from a self-inflicted gunshot wound.

“Police found his body in a shed close to the residence,” Wall said.

It is unknown if Jim Sweeten left a note.

The Weslaco Police Department confirmed they received a call at 8:05 a.m. at Southern Comfort RV Park located at 1501 South Airport Drive, lot 187, in Weslaco, Texas.
 
I'm surprised he took his life when they hadn't found her body and don't seem on track to find it if it wasn't in the barrel. But obviously, they stirred up fear and old memories for Jim Sweeten. It doesn't seem like they were even getting close to the standard of evidence to arrest him, but in his state of mind, maybe it seemed so.

It's pretty obvious he was guilty, however there's lots of cases where someone is obviously guilty and there's not enough evidence to arrest them, much less convict them. He was a troubled person for sure. If he had lived I don't know whether it could ever have been definitely as in legally established he killed Peggy. He should have just gotten a divorce. At least he didn't live the rest of life in peace.
 

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