I found his mother's obituary which lists her survivors. I found his sister on FB.....so what do I do now?
ETA: I found an obit on him: Joseph F. Eskeitz, 67, of Reading, Pennsylvania, died at 2:00 p.m., Monday, July 11, 2011, in his residence. Cremation rites were accorded on Monday, July 18. Burial was in Trenton, New Jersey. A memorial will be held at a later date.
Obviously someone knows he is deceased, right?