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    6 year old boys have oral sex in School bathroom

    A shocking story surfacing within the La Joya School District has many parents on edge. Police say two six-year old boys were performing sexual acts on each other, on campus.

    There was a police report taken on the incident that happened April 1. The alleged encounter took place at Emiliano Zapata Elementary School on 7 1/2 Mile Line and La Homa Road.

    We are told the two six-year-old boys in question, were performing oral sex on each other, in the restroom.

    Minutes later, another six-year-old student walked in and allegedly discovered what was happening.

    Later that night he told his parents, who then reported the incident to the school principal. The following day a police investigation was launched.

    Eventually, because of the age of the suspects officers decided not to pursue the case.

    They say it was an isolated incident.

    However, La Joya school district leaders insist they took immediate corrective action. They say parents of all of the students involved were notified. Counseling services were also provided to the kids.

    This has also changed Zapata Elementary's restroom policies.

    Children are now monitored when they go to the bathroom. If at all possible, students are escorted by a teacher and if not, coaches randomly visit the restrooms.


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    I'm speechless.

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    The 6 year old boys I know play with cars & like to color, play games... how would these two boys know this behavior and have a conversation and agreement on doing this with each other?

    I just can't wrap my head around it

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    They should be looking into if these boys are being molested at home,how would a 6 yr old know about oral sex.

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    Quote Originally Posted by CinnamonGirl
    They should be looking into if these boys are being molested at home,how would a 6 yr old know about oral sex.
    Movies- porno or maybe even regular R rated movies
    Just when I think that I have seen the most depraved things a human can do to another human, somebody posts a new story...........

    Why is it that when a custodial parent fails to provide for a child it is called neglect and is a criminal matter. But when a non custodial parent fails to provide it is called failure to support and is a civil matter?


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    Exactly. I used to work at a store that also rented video's. You WOULD NOT believe how many parents chose to write into their accounts that their children had permission to rent ANY movie they wanted!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sheromom
    Exactly. I used to work at a store that also rented video's. You WOULD NOT believe how many parents chose to write into their accounts that their children had permission to rent ANY movie they wanted!

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    Surely we don't think that it's only in the 21st century that 6 year olds are discovering their bodies and playing at sex?

    We don't have to condone it in order to recognize that 6 year olds have been "showing you mine if you show me yours" since the beginning of time.

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    This is the *most* disturbing news!!! No healthy 6 year old should know about oral sex. Yes, Cass...cars, trucks and legos are what little healthy boys play with.

    Somewhere, somehow, one of these little guys was molested. Someone told this little guy how special he was, how special "it" was, and made this little guy, an innocent, believe he *is* the only special boy in the world. This little boy probably wanted to "share" being special with one of his bestest buddies....

    Search and LE will find out what happened to this innocent. I hope both little boys will come out of this okay....

    There is *SO* much out there lately concerning all these sweet innocents. What are we all missing somehow to have these stories becoming more common??? What are we missing????
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    Quote Originally Posted by LovelyPigeon
    Surely we don't think that it's only in the 21st century that 6 year olds are discovering their bodies and playing at sex?

    We don't have to condone it in order to recognize that 6 year olds have been "showing you mine if you show me yours" since the beginning of time.
    Playing "Doctor" is as old as time. Oral sex is *TAUGHT* and not to innocents playing "show me yours and I'll show you mine".

    LP, you surprised me with this statement. Totally....
    "I went to the bank and asked to borrow a cup of money. They said, "What for?". I said, "I'm going to buy some sugar".

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    I don't think these young boys had to have been molested to discover oral sex. I certainly hope that wasn't the case. Children do explore and experiment, and sometimes discover what adults would rather they certainly did NOT discover so young.

    Oral gratification does extend much farther, and much younger, than most of us wish it did.

    I don't endorse this behavior at ALL, but I do think it happens "naturally" as children explore.

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    LP, I was going to write that as a Mother of 3 children, all of different age spans, I am *very* much aware of what is out there in the real world. I was going to go into this whole growing up "thing". The bottom line is what my knowledge and gut completely tell me:

    No young child at the age of 6 knows about oral sex. No young child at the age of 6 should know HOW to perform oral sex. Any young child that does begs for the question of, "Who has touched you?".

    I humbly disagree with you that this was a simple case of "kids being kids". This was, and is still, not normal or healthy for wee ones.
    "I went to the bank and asked to borrow a cup of money. They said, "What for?". I said, "I'm going to buy some sugar".

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    LP you suggesting that 2 six year old boys having oral sex in a bathroom is natural exploration makes me ill

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    Well, I don't approve of it and wish it weren't so but I think it may very well be natural exploration for 6 year old boys to discover oral sex. I don't think kids have to "know" about oral sex in order to discover it for themselves.

    I hope that neither of these children was abused. I hope their mutual act was discovery and nothing more, even as uncomfortable to us adults as it is.

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    I am afraid I would have to agree, kids by this age tend to explore more with their eyes and hands, not their mouths. They usually give that up after the toddler stage. Oral sex would be something that was probably introduced to them in some way.
    Just when I think that I have seen the most depraved things a human can do to another human, somebody posts a new story...........

    Why is it that when a custodial parent fails to provide for a child it is called neglect and is a criminal matter. But when a non custodial parent fails to provide it is called failure to support and is a civil matter?


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    I agree, one of these children WAS exposed to the idea or image of oral sex! There is no doubt on my mind.....
    I used to work in social services at a childcare center and we had a similar situtation where a boy and girl - in PRE-K (around 5 years) - were caught in the class room. The kids had made a tent out of chairs and blankets and they were playing in it. The teacher was shocked.
    Sure, kids are curious but I agree that the curiosity doesn't involve touching - in a deliberately sexual manner unless they have been exposed to that behavior somehow- through abuse, family or movies, etc.
    Children of that age are not developed enough psychologically to comprehend the concept of what sex is in our culture or make sense of the emotions and sensations experienced by adults! Normal development suggests that a child/human is gradually exposed to sexual situations and allowed to experience these things at a pace that is comfortable for the individual. They choose (consent) to participate in sexual activities as they develop the maturity to understand and deal with it.
    That's why it is so damaging for kids that or are abused - the effects are life long. It is very sad.
    I guess sexual predators lack the ability to understand what they are doing to their victims. I just don't get why would an adult want to have a sexual experience with a child - or any person who cannot even understand what is happening. I just don't get what is really wrong inside these people..... It's very upsetting...
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    Ok. I am appalled at this story. HOWEVER.... Children are human. If you have children, you've seen them play with themselves inappropriately, especially when bathing them. Obviously to them because it feels good. Now I'm no psychologist but I have read that children have the ability to be creative with their bodies. And it's not unheard of. I'm not too sure these children learned it from anywhere.... other than possibly walking in on their parents accidently?? Or finding a magazine they shouldn't have.

    I don't think this will be damaging. I have to admit that my parents told me they "caught" me and a friend "checking" eachothers private parts to see if we had the same things.... I think we were about 3 or 4. Now I don't remember it, but I assume I didn't "learn" that from anywhere.... and the fact that I don't even remember it, I don't feel was a damaging experience at all. Just children being curious about their bodies, which is normal.

    Engaging in oral sex ISN'T normal... but being curious is.

    I'm sure other people have been told similar things when they were young children??

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    Quote Originally Posted by irishrose
    No young child at the age of 6 knows about oral sex. No young child at the age of 6 should know HOW to perform oral sex. Any young child that does begs for the question of, "Who has touched you?".

    I humbly disagree with you that this was a simple case of "kids being kids". This was, and is still, not normal or healthy for wee ones.
    But one shouldn't leap to a conclusion that the child has been molested. It could be an older child who has introduced it to the younger one(s) or even another child younger or the same age, who might have been molested or seen older children engaging in it. It doesn't always mean that an adult is abusing one of the children.

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    Quote Originally Posted by LovelyPigeon
    Well, I don't approve of it and wish it weren't so but I think it may very well be natural exploration for 6 year old boys to discover oral sex. I don't think kids have to "know" about oral sex in order to discover it for themselves.

    I hope that neither of these children was abused. I hope their mutual act was discovery and nothing more, even as uncomfortable to us adults as it is.
    I completely disagree with you on this. As the mother of a now 9 year old boy, I can tell you that putting someone else's penis in his mouth is NOT something he would have EVER thought of. That is NOT a NORMAL thing for a 6 (or even 9 year old) boy to think of.

    Either one of those boys has been molested or they have seen too many things in that household (parents, videos, etc) - both scenarios make me sick to my stomach.

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    I think the boys may have even acted out some of the horrible slang phrases that adolescents, teens, and even some adult males toss out at each other.

    I certainly hope that neither boy has been molested by a person older than themselves.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Goody
    But one shouldn't leap to a conclusion that the child has been molested. It could be an older child who has introduced it to the younger one(s) or even another child younger or the same age, who might have been molested or seen older children engaging in it.
    THAT IS MOLESTATION!!! HELLO?!?!?! I suggest you educate yourself as that attitude is DANGEROUS to children!!!!!!!!!!
    It's NOT ok or normal or "no big deal" for a child to molest or rape another child.


    From your post you seem to indicate that it's only molestation if an adult does it?? WAKE UP!!!!

    Speaking from expirence child on child molestation is just as damaging as adult on child molestation is .
    A child molester may not (due to age) always be held accountable criminaly but they are molesters.Its sad because its the cause of they themselves having been abused .They can grow up to be adult abusers.
    This is a RAMPANT problem that needs to be addressed (as I think its beginning too) and not written off as "exploration" or "harmless".
    "Playing Doctor" and oral sex are two WHOLLY different animals and there is nothing natural for two 6 year old boys to be engaged in this behavior and Im comfortable saying this not only a professional but as a Mother as well as a victim .
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    Quote Originally Posted by irishrose
    Playing "Doctor" is as old as time. Oral sex is *TAUGHT* and not to innocents playing "show me yours and I'll show you mine".

    LP, you surprised me with this statement. Totally....
    Agree with your post -- except for your surprise with LP's statement. IMO it is par for the course.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jules
    I completely disagree with you on this. As the mother of a now 9 year old boy, I can tell you that putting someone else's penis in his mouth is NOT something he would have EVER thought of. That is NOT a NORMAL thing for a 6 (or even 9 year old) boy to think of.

    Either one of those boys has been molested or they have seen too many things in that household (parents, videos, etc) - both scenarios make me sick to my stomach.
    Jules, I totally agree with your post. Even my 13 year old son wouldn't think of this!!!!
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    Quote Originally Posted by great_tezi
    Jules, I totally agree with your post. Even my 13 year old son wouldn't think of this!!!!
    I think you would be surprised at the number of 13 year olds who WOULD though!! I've read articles about how common oral sex is amongst middle schoolers now....it happens more than most would want to even admit. Not saying it's right because I don't think it is, but the kids see it as not being sex (hmmm..wonder where they got that idea?) so not as bad as participating in intercourse.

    FWIW when my daughter was 6 she was playing at the playground with some friends...and one little boy asked another girl to put his pee-pee in her mouth...and she did. My daughter and friend ran home immediately and told us that their friends were doing something gross. We confronted the parents of the two children involved and were told we were overreacting! It was no big deal to them...children will be children and children will explore. Knowing the parents as I did I am sure the children saw it on video and were not abused or molested. These parents exposed their children to things we would never think of. Their 2 yr old was in love with Ozzie Osbourne. Some people just don't have the same values as most of us...sad but true.

    But therein is proof that some kids are exposed to this stuff early on...as my daughter was at age 6. If someone were to jump to the conclusion that my daughter was molested because she knew about "putting a boys pee pee in a girls mouth" at age 6 they would be way off base!!
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    Hi Lady,

    I agree with your post. The middle school thing scares the crud outta me! My nephew is in 6th grade and my sister-in-law was telling me she received a note home from the school saying the kids were not allowed to wear the Lance Armstrong bracelets anymore (the yellow rubber-looking ones). The school said that those, along with all the other colored ones, were symbols of how far a person was willing to go with sex. She was SHOCKED to say the least. Here she had by buying my nephew (who knew nothing of the hidden meaning in them) all these bracelets in different colors because he thought they were cool.

    When my daughter was in middle school there were 2 girls that were pregnant - one in 7th grade and one in 8th! I couldn't believe it.

    While my son LOVES scary movies, he is not allowed to watch them unless we see them first and can fast forward through the "nekkid" parts. We restrict what he has access to and, to my knowledge, he has never been exposed to anything sexual other than seeing hugging, kissing and cuddling.

    To me, it's amazing what parents allow their children to watch and do. I can't believe those parents of your daughter's friend took things so calmly. I would have been horrified had that been my daughter. Playing doctor or "i'll show you mine if you show me yours" is one thing - but this is something far different.

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