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It has been mentioned on this thread before, that for the most part, family and friends have been very quiet. I am not trying to insinuate what anyone else’s reason(s) for that might or should be.
My opinion only: I read through this article again today. As I read it, I tried to imagine reading it from a loved one’s standpoint, and what this article might then mean or say to me. What stands out to me is that there is an inference that this crime occurred as a result of unsafe practices and lack of awareness, rather than due to the hands of a murderer. And that, without those factors, no need to be fearful because Fargo is actually safe and always has been otherwise. It sounds very blaming of the victim, and oxymoronic to me.
I clearly understand that this wordage is standard protocol, and that this is acceptable in our society due to many factors.
I am ashamed of what we have learned to accept.
http://www.valleynewslive.com/story/26624807/breaking-bearson-death-confirmed-as-homicide
“Fargo Police tell Valley News Live they cannot comment on specifics of the case, but they feel there is no threat to the community at this time. Lt. Joel Vettel says there is no reason to believe people should be living in fear, and Fargo is still a safe place to live.
Vettel did say there is a concern after these events. He realizes the first reaction for people might be shock and alarm. Adding people should have a heightened awareness.
Both departments agree people should look out for their own safety.”
People - some of this is getting a little "Oliver Stoneish".
I come to this site every day hoping to hear the news that the case is nearing resolution. I'm consistently disappointed like all of you.
But i just refuse to believe the police are not being tactical, professional, and thorough in investigating this.
The posts are interesting but i just cannot believe anything nefarious is going on in regards to the LE efforts. Does anyone really believe they're suppressing a supposed news video or even could if they wanted to?
Also, I tend to agree with the poster who said we need to back off of family and friends and they're reactions to the tragedy they are living. Afterall, we seriously don't know a thing about what is really going on with them. Has it come to arriving at conclusions about a persons motives and integrity and guilt or innocence solely based on social media posts? Or lack of them?
I don't intend to quash discussion - this is all interesting - but let's be realistic. Us outsiders are getting crumbs and trying to make a cake out of it.
I know we all want justice for Tom. Let's hope we get it no matter how long it takes....which honestly....may be a ways off.
Thanks for listening.
(BBM).People - some of this is getting a little "Oliver Stoneish".
I come to this site every day hoping to hear the news that the case is nearing resolution. I'm consistently disappointed like all of you.
But i just refuse to believe the police are not being tactical, professional, and thorough in investigating this.
The posts are interesting but i just cannot believe anything nefarious is going on in regards to the LE efforts. Does anyone really believe they're suppressing a supposed news video or even could if they wanted to?
Also, I tend to agree with the poster who said we need to back off of family and friends and they're reactions to the tragedy they are living. Afterall, we seriously don't know a thing about what is really going on with them. Has it come to arriving at conclusions about a persons motives and integrity and guilt or innocence solely based on social media posts? Or lack of them?
I don't intend to quash discussion - this is all interesting - but let's be realistic. Us outsiders are getting crumbs and trying to make a cake out of it.
I know we all want justice for Tom. Let's hope we get it no matter how long it takes....which honestly....may be a ways off.
Thanks for listening.
One last thing. It occurs to me that the long wait for autopsy results are likely due to testing for something out of the ordinary. Would bath salts-synthetic marijuana qualify? I know synth drugs are a big problem in this part of the world and can cause a user to do some very irrational things. I'm guessing here of course but are these routinely tested for since these "drugs" are newer to the scene? If not, perhaps the tests take longer having been around for a relatively short time.
Its just one thought. There could be a hundred reasons that make perfect sense in causing a delay. And my hope is this is a formality that once resolved will lead directly to an arrest.
I just have a general question about the supposed video of him at the dorm and the discussion surrounding it. What are you guys getting at? What is the importance of the video or whether it exists? Just curious. I can't really tell if you guys are trying to point to a cover-up either by the university or police department, if you think the backpack is important, or if it is something else altogether. Could anyone enlighten me on this?
Would like to add that I don't see the backpack as being important to the case. It wasn't too long ago that I graduated from college and it was very common for students to carry around a backpack on the weekends. When I was going to house parties with my friends we would often have at least one in our group carrying a backpack with our beer or liquor/mixer of choice for the weekend. It's possible he was carrying drug paraphanelia in the backpack as well, but even that isn't out of the ordinary. College students drink before they are 21 and/or smoke a little weed. Neither of those things are out of the ordinary so I don't think the backpack itself is relevant in determining what happened to TB that night.
I just have a general question about the supposed video of him at the dorm and the discussion surrounding it. What are you guys getting at? What is the importance of the video or whether it exists? Just curious. I can't really tell if you guys are trying to point to a cover-up either by the university or police department, if you think the backpack is important, or if it is something else altogether. Could anyone enlighten me on this?
Would like to add that I don't see the backpack as being important to the case. It wasn't too long ago that I graduated from college and it was very common for students to carry around a backpack on the weekends. When I was going to house parties with my friends we would often have at least one in our group carrying a backpack with our beer or liquor/mixer of choice for the weekend. It's possible he was carrying drug paraphanelia in the backpack as well, but even that isn't out of the ordinary. College students drink before they are 21 and/or smoke a little weed. Neither of those things are out of the ordinary so I don't think the backpack itself is relevant in determining what happened to TB that night.