She still hasn’t been found I’m pretty sure , haven’t checked her Facebook for a few days or a week but every time I do there’s no change, just the initial message from her daughter saying that her mom is missing - in 1981 Kelly and I met at a Beer party in Huntington Beach Ca where I’m still living right now , about less than a mile from where the party was - so , i’ll Tell the story in the shortest amount of words that I can think of as I’m laying in bed right now, fiancé laying next to me falling asleep -
Kelly and I talked for a few hours at the party, liked each other , kissed , I walked her home, (she was staying/visiting her older sister who lived in HB very close to where I lived - the next day after talking on the phone, I went to meet her sister and her brother in law - nice people, they liked me I liked them, Kelly’s visit here from Arkansas was some sort of opportunity for a new life or became an extended stay which resulted in she and I getting an apartment together, she was 17 I was 19, my first time moving out of my moms house, Kelly’s sister approved I guess she was an emancipated minor, we lived together for , about 6 months I think? We both had jobs, she spoke with her mom and dad on the phone often, then told me one day my stepdad is sending me a round trip ticket to visit them in Arkansas, she went, we spoke on the phone everyday, on the 30th day she said she’s not coming back, I cried, didn’t change anything I was , extremely sad - friends that came over I told them to leave and was just in a bad place because I loved Kelly, so I get a roomate in same apartment complex and Gradually get over it. Along comes, 2012 I believe it was, Facebook , bam, Kelly Ann Stigar, found her sent her a message , it was on - within a few months she was at my house in Huntington Beach Ca , drove from Arkansas , she got lost and I drove about an hour to where she was to put gas in her truck , first saw each other we both smiled and hugged - it had been 30 years - I went to work everyday, there were issues in the house such as items missing, gradually degrading relationship, then that was it - graffiti on my house that she denied , I’m not going to get into all the **** she did but I suggested she go back to Arkansas - she did after getting her debit card refilled or whatever so she bails, good , I should have went through her truck before she drove away with a bunch MORE of my stuff - so she’s home , weeks go by , Facebook accounts blocked , I texted her she texted me, wasn’t exactly nice stuff pretty much me asking her about items that were missing since it took me days maybe weeks to gradually notice things missing, anyway, so - couple years went by and I’d check her Facebook just out of curiousity , no longer blocked , then I see her daughters post about Kelly missing - check into it every once in a while , tonight decided to do a google search for Kelly Ann Stigar, tapped a link or two, one of them to websleuths where I read a couple things about Kelly and decide to become a member so I can post or reply as well as explore the website -
That was NOT , the least amount of words possible or however i put it in the beginning, sheesh -
If anyone finds this information interesting then that’s good , and if anyone has any updated information that would also be good - at this point I’m assuming any information about Kelly will not be good - I know her well enough , she didn’t willfully leave her purse and her drugs / medicine and phone and keys /
To sum it up I’ve spoken with Kelly’s daughter through messenger a few times about it and , she’s convinced her mom is deceased - that hit me pretty hard at first , still does maybe she’s alive - I don’t know but , not looking too f*cking good at this point - by the way I mentioned no names , other then Kelly ann Stigar who is missing -
do I happen to remember her sisters name? Brother in laws name? I sure do, first and last names as well as her daughters name and even her grandchildren at the time - have pictures of Kelly and I together if anyone would like to see them , a couple pictures of us in 1981 as well as one or two of us during the 30 year reunion - final
Sentence for now - what a trip , I wish she would have just been normal when she came back, I would have married her - Kelly , whatever happened , dammit, in hiding maybe and all just some kind of hoax? I seriously doubt it -
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