08-30-2006, 12:28 AM #1
DIVORCE did not seem to be an option for PR and JR
Divorce seems to be an option often exercised when a child is murdered.
Walshes came close.
The little girl who was kidnapped and murdered near a car wash, her parents divorced, I don't remember her name, but the mother had let her walk home alone from her little girlfriends house.
IF IF your husband murdered your beloved daughter that you doted on and lived so much of your life for, and or IF you had found him sexually molesting her, would you stay with him?
On the other hand if PR had lost 'it' and strangled your beautiful little child, one who cried for you when you were gone on business trips, this according to the man who tended the garden, would you stay with her?
Would the two of you stay UNITED and continue enjoying your lives together? Travel together, continue to point a finger at an unfound and unknown sexual pervert from a foreign country for the DA of Boulder to find for you?
Would you continue to have legal representation for yourselves?
The only reason I can see where I would stay with a husband or a wife would be IF IF 'WE' were protecting a loved one.
Color me a strange color IF you wish.
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08-30-2006, 01:08 AM #2Registered User
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I picked this one:
'IF IF your husband murdered your beloved daughter that you doted on and lived so much of your life for, and or IF you had found him sexually molesting her, would you stay with him?"
Me, personally, no way!
PR, imo maybe. I think she did. She did. IF IF IF lol (your way), there had been some kind of an altercation which arose after discovery of a sexual incident, and along with JonBenet getting seriously injured, which caused both of them to feel responsible and thus they worked together staging an intruder/kidnapper, then yes, I can see them staying together. Happy? No. It became a struggle they each had to endure for their freedom and the sake of B.
Why why why, do I stay here, when I am so tired that is a better question
08-30-2006, 09:49 AM #3Originally Posted by Camper
08-30-2006, 10:06 AM #4Former Member
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The problem with this question assumes the Ramseys are guilty. You are correct when you say that often the death of a child divides the parents and they end up divorcing. Maybe this is because one blames the other. But in this case, if the Ramseys are not involved, (which I believe) and if they had identical recollections of the events of that day, then it would explain why they were so together, because neither of them would or could blame the other.
08-30-2006, 12:32 PM #5
I agree in part. That’s why I never believed John Ramsey to have been molesting JB. Buying the whole Burke did it theory is a stretch for me, only because I don’t believe the Ramsey’s would have let him out of their site so quickly after the crime. I DO believe however that Patsy committed this crime, and at some point John chose to cover for her. Perhaps at the time he didn’t want to believe it, but during the process implicated himself. John told Patsy to call 911 and she did not stay on the line. She went into full acting mode. I am still unclear at what point John participated in the cover up, but I still have a hard time believing he would have let her write that ransom note.
Perhaps the disguise in handwriting was to disguise it not only to police but to John Ramsey as well.
08-30-2006, 12:47 PM #6Registered User
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Having known multiple victims of abuse, they do not behave how you expect them to. They often appear to be in denial and act or speak in protection of the abuser.
If you as an outsider bring up the abuse, they will snap at you rather than getting angry at the abuser.
Protecting the family ideal comes at the expense of personal truth and justice.
The PR/JR relationship is one of the most interesting aspects of this case.
08-30-2006, 12:51 PM #7
The Ramsey'sWould the two of you stay UNITED and continue enjoying your lives together? Travel together, continue to point a finger at an unfound and unknown sexual pervert from a foreign country for the DA of Boulder to find for you?
This is what I think happened, for what's it worth.
I think that PR walked in on JR molesting JBR... I think that PR picked up something to hit JR with and accidentally cracked JB... The startling of JR, could of been how JBR ended up chocked to death (accidental)... They now though, are involved in this together and have to stick to gether, (more or less to keep an eye on one another) Their only way of staying out of arrest was to be the united front, never allowed to be interview separatley....
Anyway, I think they had no choice in their minds, but to stay together and then with PR's cancer cropping up all the time, she needed someone right?
08-30-2006, 12:57 PM #8
Although I agree that the death of a child also kills a lot of marriages, I think there is something to be said for solidarity in the face of adversity.
Whether or not you believe the Ramsey's were involved in this crime, there is no doubt that this crime has resulted in near constant adversity in their lives. Maybe this brought them closer.
08-30-2006, 02:25 PM #9
"The little girl who was kidnapped and murdered near a car wash, her parents divorced, I don't remember her name, but the mother had let her walk home alone from her little girlfriends house."
"On the other hand if PR had lost 'it' and strangled your beautiful little child, one who cried for you when you were gone on business trips, this according to the man who tended the garden, would you stay with her?"
Yes, because if not, I have to admit that I screwed up one good marriage only to marry a monster. That's hard to take.
08-30-2006, 02:32 PM #10Originally Posted by Camper
08-30-2006, 04:41 PM #11Originally Posted by Linda7NJ
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08-30-2006, 04:44 PM #12Originally Posted by sharkeyes
Often times they appear to be THE pillars of society
08-30-2006, 05:23 PM #13Originally Posted by Linda7NJ
Anyway, my parents would never have divorced. No way. My dad was "allowed" to do whatever he wanted and my mom stayed home and pretended to be the perfect mom and wife. It was a crazy world to live in while trying to deal with my own personal hell. Anyone else looking at our family thought we were nice, middle-class folks with a happy life. Boy, this is just one example of how wrong appearances can be.Simplicity...patience...compassion
08-30-2006, 05:46 PM #14Originally Posted by gaiaThis is the year to locate Mark Dribin http://www.websleuths.com/forums/sho...ht=Mark+Dribin NamUs MP#876 and Ilene Misheloff http://www.websleuths.com/forums/sho...lene+Misheloff NamUs MP#6410 and bring them home to their families!
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08-31-2006, 12:09 PM #15
You ladies know the score:
Mr. Big Time. He's friends with everyone. But he's really a monster.
You know, I can't count how many times I've heard people say in this case, "scum is pretty easy to spot."
DON'T I WISH!