JBean graciously took time out of HER busy day to post some suggestions to make it easier for people to understand how the threads work. Christine et al have followed up with some other great suggestions. In the time it takes for people to type and complain, they could have read JBeans post and learned a few ways to move around the board easier. I offer this suggestion to all the complainers. If you think it is so bad here, look at some of the other "sleuther" sites. I guarantee you will back here pretty quick. The "others" are so much crazier to understand and move around, with nasty people who discuss more gossip than facts. It is worth the little extra time it may take to move around here. And if people would stop posting a new thread everytime someones sneezes or Pms them, then the site would not be bogged down as bad. If there is a topic, such as about the lawyer, the babysitter etc, and you have something to add under that subject, post to that thread, don't just start a new thread. JBean is so much nicer than me--I am getting so annoyed with all the disrespectful comments around here today. Honestly people, we are all big kids, we can learn to get around here. This is a FREE site, with mods who VOLUNTEER their time, and an owner who has not asked a dime from anyone. Be respectful!!!