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    Casey Anthony Relationship History

    ( JBean, I did do an advanced search on this topic but if I once again missed it, which is very possible, please delete and direct me to it if you wish).

    I was once again reading JG's interview with police officers and I began wondering about something.

    I read a lot of opinions about the fact that KC liked the chase, and she broke up with boyfriends when she grew bored or the excitement wore off.

    HOWEVER, there are lots of facts that support that she was not the one ending these relationships, but that the men ended them, or she was forced to end them because the men did not feel the same way as she felt about them.

    Case in point, Brandon S., Ricardo, I know there are others. I thought it might be a good idea to begin a discussion about each past relationship, what could have gone wrong, why the break ups, etc.

    I think this gives key insight into KC's personality, as at her age relationships were VERY important in her life, and I still believe that through no fault of his own, Tony gave her reason (partial) to do away with her daughter.

    Any thoughts?

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    I think that there is a Casey's Men thread floating around here somewhere ... also ... you need to remove last names!
    Clue: Satsuma Edition

    It was the psycho-sicko in the trailer park with a brick-o-block!

    "Admit nothing, deny everything and make counter accusations" ~ "inside" motto of the CIA and the entire Anthony family!
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    IDK-I think KC was usually the one doing the leaving. She always had one foot reaching for the next boat before she stepped off of the sinking one. She wants the closeness of feeling loved, but has no idea how to maintain a relationship. She moves on pretty fast. With Ricardo, she was leaving him, but unsure how "into her" the next guy was at first and ended up back with Ricardo for a little while. She uses a lot of excuses for leaving them behind, but they are manufactured. She stirs up the hornets nest and smiles, knowing good and well that the outcome will allow her to walk away as a good girl done wrong by a bad boy.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Clock's Tickin View Post
    IDK-I think KC was usually the one doing the leaving. She always had one foot reaching for the next boat before she stepped off of the sinking one. She wants the closeness of feeling loved, but has no idea how to maintain a relationship. She moves on pretty fast. With Ricardo, she was leaving him, but unsure how "into her" the next guy was at first and ended up back with Ricardo for a little while. She uses a lot of excuses for leaving them behind, but they are manufactured. She stirs up the hornets nest and smiles, knowing good and well that the outcome will allow her to walk away as a good girl done wrong by a bad boy.
    I know she "left" Ricardo, but I read that it was because he wasn't serious about her. She left Jesse because she thought he paid too much attention to Caylee.

    Brandon, if I remember correctly, left her. Tony was forever provoking her by teasing that he was going to leave her.

    I know she constantly had another in the wings, but I think it may be because she was afraid of being alone and not because of the excitement.

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    I hope this is on-topic, it just always blew me away that she left JG because he "loved Caylee more than her". She didn't realize what a blessing it was to have someone accept her child as his own. The love one feels for a child is so different than what one feels for a partner.

    If she wanted someone to care for her and love both her and Caylee, she would have stayed with JG. Instead she chose to throw him to suspicion because she believed his love for Caylee was not normal? Please.

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    I may be waaaaaay off here but I believe rather than Casey being a player, Casey had her heart broken my many men, in various ways. I think she knew she was being used at times and she hardened herself but was unable to stop the "fantasizing" of living "happily ever after".

    Take her convo texts with Amy, most likely referring to Ricardo - when she said she cannot stop crying.

    Take her waaaay powerful anger per Tony and his roommate when he would joke about not being with her.

    Take her outburst over Brandon regarding the "miscarriage", and the needy texts with Tony after she was arrested for the first time.

    That she needed Tony's number and that was the sole purpose of her call to her family from jail.

    Take the texts between her and the other Tony - read between the lines. Does this make sense?

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    Also, regarding Jesse - she is engaged. She seems happy. He obviously loves her (she believes at the time). She begins to see his love for her daughter and a jealousy builds. She is always always searching for that elusive feeling of being the center of attention, of being a "Sharon Stone" from Basic Instinct - of being irresistible to men.

    But I don't think she was irresistible to men.

    I think she was being used - sex gave her gratification, but she was hollow and empty inside because the men did not LOVE her. But Jesse LOVED Caylee.

    ALSO: She constantly seemed to throw other men back in the faces of her exes. Look at the No Clothes party, pics of her with other men no doubt perhaps trying to make Brandon Jealous? Telling Ricardo about kissing Tony? Introducing Tony to Jesse?

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    Her relationships whether with boys/men, females and family members were for validation. If she didn't get that validation, she moved on.

    Only she would know what the definition of validation meant or means to her. It sure wasn't Caylee.

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    I think KC could not stand to be alone. The constant texting, almost always having a boyfriend and a backup, spending her days hanging out with friends, etc. I see this as a young woman whose self-worth she saw in the eyes of others and not from within herself.

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    I believe KC is a sociopath and I do not believe she had any emotional attachment to any of the men in her life. With JG she needed a baby daddy and with XY&Z she needed sex. She used men for what they could do for her or give her at the time. I think her infatuation with TL was nothing more than being envious of his work and school life and wanting that same life for herself -- so she attached herself to him. JMO


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    Quote Originally Posted by countzero View Post
    Her relationships whether with boys/men, females and family members were for validation. If she didn't get that validation, she moved on.

    Only she would know what the definition of validation meant or means to her. It sure wasn't Caylee.
    OK, but moving on would mean that she was ending the relationships due to not being validated, right?

    I'm starting to think it wasn't her choice to move on from these men - it seems through reading the various interviews and content available that the men were moving on, maybe not physically, but in their own ways - she broke up with them to HURT them, which may or may not have worked. I am not so sure it was out of boredom that she was fleeing from relationships.

    Again only MO.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Disguiseduser0308 View Post
    I hope this is on-topic, it just always blew me away that she left JG because he "loved Caylee more than her". She didn't realize what a blessing it was to have someone accept her child as his own. The love one feels for a child is so different than what one feels for a partner.

    If she wanted someone to care for her and love both her and Caylee, she would have stayed with JG. Instead she chose to throw him to suspicion because she believed his love for Caylee was not normal? Please.
    Yeah I agree ... I was a single mom for several years and it was always my hope to find someone that had a big enough heart to love us both ... and by the grace of God I did! But this seems to be KC's MO ... she dumped Jesse because he "loved Caylee more than her" and tried to make room in his life for both of them. She was desperate to hold onto TL, who set boundries about Caylee (no staying over night) and told her that if he were ever to have kids he would want boys ... but claimed to love KC. It seems that of primary importance to her was finding someone that loved her independently of Caylee. Someone that she could have for herself ... I believe that was her motivation in getting rid of Caylee the way that she did ... making up a kidnapping story ... that way, in her mind, noone could blame her and EVERYONE would put her first again. And it seems to have worked in part, at least as far as her immediate family goes. Maybe she overestimated TL's feelings for her ... probably her biggest regret ... that she lost him.
    Clue: Satsuma Edition

    It was the psycho-sicko in the trailer park with a brick-o-block!

    "Admit nothing, deny everything and make counter accusations" ~ "inside" motto of the CIA and the entire Anthony family!
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    Can't believe she is 4!!



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    Quote Originally Posted by Roze View Post
    I believe KC is a sociopath and I do not believe she had any emotional attachment to any of the men in her life. With RG she needed a baby daddy and with XY&Z she needed sex. She used men for what they could do for her or give her at the time. I think her infatuation with TL was nothing more than being envious of his work and school life and wanting that same life for herself -- so she attached herself to him. JMO
    You think she used men for sex? Interesting. I was going the other way - especially reading the texts between her and Tony R.

    I don't think she loved sex. I think she saw it as an annoynace. I think she liked the POWER sex gave her over men.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Seebra View Post
    You think she used men for sex? Interesting. I was going the other way - especially reading the texts between her and Tony R.

    I don't think she loved sex. I think she saw it as an annoynace. I think she liked the POWER sex gave her over men.
    She could very well have liked the sex and the power/attention. She strikes me as a thrill seeker and what better thrill?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Seebra View Post
    Also, regarding Jesse - she is engaged. She seems happy. He obviously loves her (she believes at the time). She begins to see his love for her daughter and a jealousy builds. She is always always searching for that elusive feeling of being the center of attention, of being a "Sharon Stone" from Basic Instinct - of being irresistible to men.

    But I don't think she was irresistible to men.

    I think she was being used - sex gave her gratification, but she was hollow and empty inside because the men did not LOVE her. But Jesse LOVED Caylee.

    ALSO: She constantly seemed to throw other men back in the faces of her exes. Look at the No Clothes party, pics of her with other men no doubt perhaps trying to make Brandon Jealous? Telling Ricardo about kissing Tony? Introducing Tony to Jesse?
    Excellent points. I've always gotten the feeling that Casey wanted some man to rescue her. She had that in JG, but for whatever reason, it didn't turn out to be the fairy tale she had envisioned.

    I believe Jesse loved both of them with everything he had. He had no reason other than love for both Casey and Caylee to stick around after learning Casey had lied to him about Caylee's paternity. Although, things are never as easy as they seem and perhaps that's the only reason Casey could verbalize as her reasons for leaving.

    I know nothing about the other men in Casey's life. Time to do some reading on them.

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