02-03-2010, 08:08 PM #1
Threadiquette- Questions about rules welcome here
The threads should be topic specific and we should all try and stay on topic as much as possible.
Because there were so many general discussion threads open, there is confusion where to post things.
If we keep the threads more focused that confusion will disappear.
If you have a thread called The Smiths it doesn't tell anyone what belongs on it.
So break your thread into topics about specific things about the Smiths
1. Tammis' background
2. Arrest- release information
3. Timeline surrounding gabriels disappearance
4. Evidence to date
and so on.
if you have a thought about something, look and see if it is being discussed. if it is ,bump that thread and continue discussion there. Don't start a thread just to ask a single yes or no question. Look and see if your question fits into a topic. if you have a new topic idea and it is not being discussed go ahead and start a new thread. be sure to search first.
Please don't post the same thing on 2 threads. I know it may have overlap and can go on two threads, but please pick the best one or we have parallel discussions going on.
Think about being able to retirve information at trial or as new developments come up. It is hard to isolate discussion in a general discussion or broad topic thread, but it is easy to find a specific topic and update it with information.
You will get into a groove before you know it and follow the lead of posters that have been here a but longer.They can be very helpful and provide guidance if you are unsure.
Thank you! the goal is to be able to discuss every aspect of the case and devote threads to those apsects.
02-03-2010, 08:53 PM #2
"Threadiquette" I love it!!!
02-03-2010, 09:50 PM #3Inactive
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JBean, I hope it's okay to ask this here. There are constant questions about the rules on posting from Facebook and Myspace. Could you please address:
- is paraphrase and link the allowed way to post from FB/MS?
- is it allowed to post a screencap of FB/MS?
- is it allowed to post a screencap of FB/MS that's captured from a news video?
- what if the FB/MS posting has been deleted, but we have a copy of it?
- what if the FB/MS posting has been deleted, but it's posted somewhere on the net?
- what if I can't link to it - can I discuss it anyway?
- what if I really really really want to post it anyway even though everybody is telling me it's against the rules?
- is it okay for me to post something I think is against the rules and just put 'a mod can delete it if it's against the rules'?
Also, could you address posting emails? Two types of emails - an email one of us may have received directly, and an email someone else claims to have received and has posted on the internet.
- Can these be posted even though there's no way to verify it's a real email? If so, how should they be posted?
- If we can't post them, can we still discuss them even though we can't substantiate them?
Also, could I have a please?
It would be so helpful just to be able to link to this info as these questions come up frequently.
Last edited by BeanE; 02-03-2010 at 09:56 PM.
02-03-2010, 11:30 PM #4
I made some new threads and tried my best to bring some of the old posts to them in some type of order. I hope they are ok? If not please tell me what I am doing wrong. Thanks.
02-03-2010, 11:53 PM #5
you are doing great debloree and thank you.
BeanE I will answer your post in a little bit.
02-03-2010, 11:53 PM #6
feel free to leave me questions here and I will answer as I am able.
02-04-2010, 12:22 AM #7
Regarding facebook,twitter, and myspace you can link but do not cut and paste. But the goal is to really only link to those that are directly linked to a case.
IOW, we don't want to post to someone's mother, brother, employer, milkman , or postal carrier just because they know the main player. It just gets too invasive and half the time we are not even sure it is the right person. When a post starts out, I found 5 people with this name do you you think any of these are [insert person here]? that is not a good thing.
It will often be up to mod discretion as to who can and cannot be linked, but the general rule of thumb is if they are named in the media specifically as having some role or are being questioned or have information then you are probably safe to link. No screen caps and no cutting and pasting. If a social media is set to private and you get in the back way and post what you see, that is not a good thing!Private means private.
Just imagine it is you if you cannot decide and you shoulod be able to figure out if it is ok.
You are free to discuss what you may come upon,but if it is just a lot of gossip and rumor it won't fly. People open facebook accounts and post whatever they want and to carry that as some sort of inside info is careless. but, sometimes there is really valuable information that may even come into evidence as in the Caylee Anthony case.So, if you know for a fact it is the right person and they are named outright in the msm as someone linked to the case it should be fine. IF IT IS A MINOR DON"T EVEN THINK ABOUT IT!!!
If something was posted as public and then removed you might be able to post it, it is up to te mod of the forum and it depends on who, what, when and where.
The mods are listed at the bottom right of the forum under the index, they can generally help. If not, they will ask admin for guidance and we will all decide what is best.
Generally we try not to invade everyone's privacy and if the linked information has no bearing on anything, then leave it out.
We moderate here. Some people love it and some people hate it. Up to you to stay or go, choice is yours. Complaining about our rules doesn't help. if you have a suggestion or think of a better way, bring it on! We are far from perfect and welcome your input as long as it is civil and basically polite.
02-04-2010, 12:26 AM #8
>> is it okay for me to post something I think is against the rules and just put 'a mod can delete it if it's against the rules'?<<
This right here will get you a time out.
We don't read every post
If people are giving you some advice, they probably are trying to save you a TO. It is up to you to know the rules. We try and let each poster know what is going on when they screw up, but sometimes it is just too much and the mods can't be sending everyone a personal run down on the rules. PLEASE ALERT on an offending post or one that is breaking the rules. Don't quote it and carry it through the thread. the thread will end up pulled for review until a moderator can get to cleaning it up. The more time it takes the longer the thread with all your hard work will be gone.
02-04-2010, 12:46 AM #9
Also, could I have a please?
Yes, but you have to feed it ,walk it, and clean up its poop.
02-04-2010, 01:11 AM #10Inactive
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- Jan 2010
- Pelham, Alabama USA
Thanks for the thread! Mods are often unappreciated out in the Interwebz...
02-04-2010, 01:16 AM #11
JBean, whenever you wander back through...would you rather that the "regulars" remind the newbies of the rules or that we back off? It can be a little difficult to keep track of everything, especially since the rules are a bit fluid. (That's not a bad thing, but it takes a while for the word to get around when they change.)JMO. Unless there's a link, I can't prove it.
02-04-2010, 01:44 AM #12
If you see that one older poster has let someone know that they broken one of the fluid, mechanical-procedural type rules we probably don't need 10 people telling that person as well.
BIG BIG Exception to this is if you see rude,OT, namecalling, hostile,trollish,attacking,argumentative type rule breaking. Those types of a posts should be alerted on (little triangle in the top right corner of each post) and not addressed in any way at all by other members. Those are vacationing type posts and you should alert, ignore and scroll right by. If you tell someone you are going to ignore them or that they are being rude or otherwise attack them back , you may find yourself on a no expenses paid vacation as well.
Does that help?
ETA: Regarding alerts. The alerts go to the moderators mailboxes. They are not online all the time. So, if time goes by and the offensive post is not acted upon, it may be because no one has been online to look at it yet. please don't threaten us in the alert text box about what you will do if we don't do what you want immediately; and don't alert on the same post over and over. We all volunteer and do the best we can. thanks.
Last edited by JBean; 02-04-2010 at 10:20 AM.
02-04-2010, 02:28 AM #13
Thanks, JBean. What a great thread. Let me just say, I REALLY appreciate this and will probably reread often. ;o)
All kinds of hugs!
02-04-2010, 04:51 PM #14
If a thread falls to the back page, just post on it and that will "bump" it to the front page. No need to start a new one
02-04-2010, 05:00 PM #15
If an administrator or a mod comes in and really screws up your threads, they can be given a TO. However good luck getting someone to fix their mess while they are gone on TO.
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