I am not really shocked. I feel like his true colors were showing through this custody battle. Not that I know a whole lot about the how and why of the custody battle. The ex wife sure wasn't unfit when he had a baby and life with her, he moved on to another woman and wants to take the child with him
I may be talking out my butt tho, the ex wife may be a monster IDK.
She had custody of the daughter and ended up doing to jail for six months for tax evasion. She had ample opportunity to work this out in advance and not go to jail but didn't do what they asked her to do. The daughter went to live with Jesse and Sandra for that six months. The program she went to was a coed halfway house type of a set up, so there were men there that had gotten out of prison but under supervision. She met Jeremy Aikman in that facility. He is an admitted skinhead, and has and was doing time for meth production, gun charges, and assault charges.
She married him at the first opportunity, in violation of her parole agreement and his. He had never met her child, she was bringing him home until the judge stepped in. That is where the custody battle and refusal to return the daughter originated from. Even when she was told she could lose custody of her child she chose to remain married to the newly found felon.
When she was doing her post jail interview she was defending her choice to marry him AND promoting the adult website they were doing together. This was during the custody battle and before a judge had ruled.
I feel bad for the daughter.
I feel bad for Sandra.
It is easy to say she should have known and should have seen it, but women are prone to thinking they see the real man behind the bad boy.
This news sucks...and that woman is GROSS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I am so sorry Sandra.....
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What lies behind you and what lies in front of you pales in comparison to what lies inside of you....
Ralph Waldo Emerson ~
After the jail time it was all about this lunatic she married, the things she was doing with him on the internet, and where she was conducting that "business". The old porn career was her doing movies on a set, the porn she was doing with this guy was being done pretty much in the home with an internet feed. And even with intervention she thought it was totally reasonable to the have the skinhead-methproducer-illegal gun possessing-turned porn producer with her kid.
Poor kid is probably bonded with Sandra. Sandra has said she adores his kids, all of them. And for what? Some skanky chick that sold him out to a tabloid to get her name in the press? Bleck bleck bleck....
I just remembered something from watching the Celebrity Apprentence when JJ was on the show. Another contestant was often out of it due to his abuse of alcohol and Jesse spoke up and said he might want to look into his addiction problem as it was not doing him any good. Jesse said he knew this because he was sober now for nine years I think he said. Therefore, it's safe to conclude that he used to be a high guy and obviously ran with a pretty deviant crowd considering he had married a porn star. Then Sandra meets him after he's been sober for awhile but doesn't really understand the seriousness of his past behavior and the depth of his deviancy. She probably likes that he appears to be a 'cool' guy who has turned his life around as it appeared from the outside. She wasn't judging him about his past but hoping she would add good to his future and him to hers. Little did she know that addiction runs deep when not arrested by a pretty young age. She did not take into account that his morals had gone too far south and he was probably not too honest about that with her. I'm making up this story as I go along. I'm thinking Jesse probably wanted to live better, to do better but he failed AGAIN this time at Sandra's expense.
The aspect that really gets to me about this is that she was so glowy and open about how she finally had another person to lean on, who had her back (her words). She seemed so secure about their love, so trusting. If she didn't doubt him, who am I to question her perceptions? I felt happy for her. So to hear this news right after her 'glory' moment, feels almost personal for me. It's causing me to feel negative about trusting another person (as I learned years ago when my heart was broken) but still, I was so happy for her that she could. Her attitude seemed joyous. So much for that feeling - now I'll just return to my skeptic feelings and stay poised for the worst.
I feel really bad that she was at a peak in her career and whamoo! The rug is yanked out from under her.
The dead cannot cry out for justice; it is a duty of the living to do so for them.
Lois McMaster Bujold
I feel so bad for Sandra, but at the same time I never understood why she choose to marry Jesse. They seemed like polar opposites. I get the whole business of being attracted to the "bad boy" - been there, done that, had some fun, but when it comes to settling down with someone for good you have to look at the whole picture! I'm pretty tolerant of peeps, to each their own, but I can't imagine myself ever marrying someone that was once married to a porn star - was okay with it - AND had a child with!! Call me a prude or whatever, but that's just not someone I would be attracted to! HELLO! Sure I could maybe be their friend, but marry someone who was okay with all that? Never.
Poor Sandra. I hope she finds the strength to get through this, kicks him to the curb and NEVER goes back. He's a SLIME BALL! JMHO!
Oh...and that mistress. EEEEKKKKK! How could he? Look at Sandra! She's so physically beautiful and seems so smart, so sweet, so classy - and then you have this tramp! I don't get it. I just don't. I swear...I will never understand what goes through some men's heads! Nasty!
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I just looked her pics on TMZ. I had a hard time getting past the tattoo on the forehead, but the girl had her arm pits tattooed as well! HER ARM PITS, people! YIKES! What the H.E.-double-toothpick was JJ thinking!
Just got the news and it really upsets me too. She is so pretty and classy. I found him to be a big bore on CA too. I never knew what she saw in him. They seemed like opposites. NOW NOW, I read here about his shady azz past. How could she marry this slime bag? I cannot see her marrying someone who was once married to a porn star either. I guess I'm a prude too.
Just hoping she kicks his azz to the curb for good. No second chances for this dirtbag. Yuck.
Poor woman, it's like this jerk kicked us all in the face.
Just saw the pictures.
How could he? .....OMG.
Class just can't be bought, it either exists or doesn't. Wow. I can't believe he
would throw Sandra aside for her..
does anyone remember the movie she did HOPEFLOATS? this is now her real life . she was so good in that movie. maybe he felt inferior after she won awards and just became a real jerk. goes to show us woman that sometimes no matter how rich or beautiful some one who cheats will want variety - i cried in that movie hopefloats as it was my life too at time. she is probbly devastated or maybe she is thinking- i better get out before he takes me under with him.
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Why is it that they're only sorry after they get caught? I only wish the best for Sandra in dealing with this mess. I hope the focus stays on what a positive person she is, not his dirtbag azz!
It gets worse.
Read more: http://www.tmz.com/2010/03/19/jesse-...#ixzz0idVJzzCmThe woman who reportedly had an affair with Sandra Bullock's husband Jesse James has another bombshell to drop -- a full scale Nazi photo shoot.
TMZ has obtained the shocking photos of Michelle McGee, which were taken almost a year ago. We're told the Nazi-themed layout -- complete with a swastika armband and backdrop -- was the photographer's idea, but that Michelle was very enthusiastic.
In one photo the letter "w" is on Michelle's left leg, and the letter "p" on her right. We're told Michelle tells people it stands for "white power."
Read more: http://www.tmz.com/2010/03/19/jesse-...#ixzz0idW3RS8OJesse James' Alleged Mistress -- Webcam Model
Michelle "Bombshell" McGee -- the woman who allegedly came between Jesse James and Sandra Bullock -- can be yours ... for just $7.99/minute.
Oscar -winning actress or "cyber girlfriend" -- which would you choose?
http://perezhilton.com/2010-03-19-mo...-hoe-is-a-naziMichelle's ex-husband, Shane Modica filed some legal documents in January that add to the already pretty hefty list of damaging evidence against her.
Not only does he alleged that she slept with gang members and used the name of their 5-year-old child as a stage name for stripping, but he also claims that his former wife was prone to make the Nazi salute in the house and would rearrange the fridge magnets to spell out "White Power."
Oh good, she's a mom.
http://perezhilton.com/2010-03-19-je...-for-interviewJesse James' alleged mistress Michelle McGee reportedly collected $30,000 for her interview with InTouch about their affair.
Dani Madrano, McGee's former boss at SoCal Glamour Girls, reveals when Michelle told her about meeting Jesse at a strip club:
"I said, 'Wait, a minute — isn't he married to Sandra?' And that's when she told me, 'Oh, well. That's just a sham for publicity. I'm his girlfriend.'"
Usually do not pay attention to issues like this but I think Sandra is the 'REAL DEAL' and a great person. Makes me sick &
JJ hope you are happy with the decision you made.
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