It is amazing George didn't make Cindy one of the two he alerted about wanting to die. He has so many reasons to be depressed. I wish someone had gotten him into grief counseling months ago. I personally hope the Dr decides it is NOT in George's best interest to see Cindy. I think he needs his distance from her. She pushes & pushes & pushes & just doesnt know when to stop.
My heart goes out to George. He is so heart broken & I think has done so many things to try & keep his family together. I hope he gets all the help he needs & realizes Casey killed her child. I know it must be tearing George apart that he didnt protect that baby. I am not sure anyone could have protected Caylee. George is in my prayers & I am so very sorry this has happened.
So if Ca tries to do the same now, how will you feel?
And its
not suprising he didnt contact CA. He knows that killing himself would be his final acting of making her carry the burden alone. And it
was a cry for help. You dont contact people unless you want to be saved by them....
You leave a letter for them to find after.
The documents clearly state that the fiery arguments were between KC and GA....He is not some weak pathetic man who is controlled by his wife.
You can bet this would have happened a a long time ago, if it wasnt for CA's strength that he can lean on.
Who's there for her now? At what point does she get to stop being the strong one, and allow herself to crumble, and feel the pain and loss.
We have a responsibility as members of this forum, to choose our words wisely, knowing that there are consequences to our actions, or statements, and that it could very possibly have contributed to GA's suicide attempt. Yet all of a sudden people are praying for the man they vilified on this very forum.
Give the man some credit. Seriously. To all the people who say GA was stopped from talking becuase of CA.....GMAB!
He is a grown man, who has chosen to lean on his wife, instead of on his own two feet.....(Most likely because of a depressive illness.) But he is still more than capable of standing up for himself.
We judge the lack of responsibity taken by key players in this case, and yet nobody wants to believe that the hate posted here could have contributed to the mans depression, meaning
we need to take some responsibility for that.(if we have a conscience anyway)
He needs to take responsibility too, and kc etc....
Suicide is complex and I can tell you all from personal experience that when you feel worthless and like you just cant hold on anymore, having people confirm your worst feelings about yourself ( no matter how wrong they might be) definately pushes you that bit further to actually do it, instead of thinking or planning it.
Give them all a break. They have suffered more than we can ever know. You dont have to like them....just respect the notion that none of us are perfect, and that EVERY life is valuable.
JMO
