It is time for HER parents to do a massive intervention, take her out of the mother-inlaw's grasp, give her time to learn and accept the facts, if they give her support with the children and pregnacy she will move faster to accepting the person she married (so called) is a monster.I understand. While I was appalled by her choice of words, I'll admit that I'm one who expresses anger when frightened, which is a strange reaction but mine, regardless. She must be very scared right now. Hopefully she'll be able to gain perspective with a little time. In a way, the ' family has also been victimized ... and two more children are involved.