Not arguing with your valid point, just thinking out loud... Maybe it is because it is still a sad and devastating situation either way. Even if she comes home tomorrow, as a parent there is going to be such sadness that she was taken, sacred, without her family, etc..at this point there can be a good outcome, but a terrible thing has happened either way. I don't see them acting as if there is no hope, but how long must a week feel to them? When every minute that passes they wait for good news and every minute they are let down. To us, removed, we wait for news and are frustrated by the lack of development, but most of us are still eating and sleeping and getting our kids ready for school. The more I consider it, the less I even feel comfortable making judgements about them. I want to see a miracle, I am anxious for any news or new leads, but I can only imagine how hard it would be to lose a child, have the world scrutinize my marriage, my life, my words, talk about how I should be acting... I am more in my mommy mind than websleuther mind right now, I guess. Time for bed.
