Thank you woodforest. Wow it really throws a different light on things for me watching this video, knowing that DC had been searching the woods 3 days prior to this. Cindy's demeanor looks defeated to me.
After watching this and seeing how enthusiastic and robust GA seemed, I really don't believe he had any idea, at that stage, what Cindy already knew.. that Caylee was dead!
BBM
Sorry, excuse the rambling:angel:, but wanted to share a few thoughts about Cindy and DC possibly finding Caylee and how that changed some dynamics between CA and GA:
IMO, the strengthening of George's demeanor was a direct reaction to Cindy's weakening demeanor. In the video, we are witnessing Cindy losing her white knuckled grip on the steering wheel (possibly for the first time ever) and in response, George puffs out his chest and attempts to take over the helm (possibly for the first time ever). She lets go and George takes control. For the first time in their relationship, they are PARTNERS.
HWIM: The Anthony's are clearly a Matriarchal family and Cindy has fought to control the lives of everyone in it. She most likely criticized GA and said he failed them. He was "not man enough" for the job:chicken:. Of course, GA did little to prove his worthiness as a role model or partner and never succeeded in being respectable or responsible in the eyes of his family. But, did CA ever really intend to allow GA that position anyway? She is a control freak to the extreme
She never wanted to be challenged. She wanted everyone on her terms because she knew best. CA held that as a weapon to shame him, emasculate him and then later exploit his guilt and pass responsibility onto him for the families failures:banghead:.
George is weak, but not
naive.. Listening to all of George's interviews with LE, it's painfully obvious that he already knew Caylee was dead
. He just didnt know what to do about it or how to make it better. Cindy needed a body to prove to herself Caylee was dead. Without the body, the denial she was spewing:snooty: prevented GA from moving forward. So now they both KNOW the truth
, but its the past dynamics that determine how they will proceed. They are both liars:liar:, that's for sure. George is a liar:liar: but not in the same way that Cindy and Casey are liars:liar::liar::
amongst other things, CA is a
DENIER:snooty: and GA is
DISINGENUOUS:loser:.
CA (and KC) deny the sky is
blue and insist, "All of you are idiots! The sky is clearly
green!":waitasec:. GA lies to everyone when he says, "Yeah, I
believe I'm seeing a clear
green sky over here too!"
Cindy wants to vindicate herself to the public and George wants to vindicate himself to his family. Cindy is determined to rewrite the past to prove that she isn't a failure. She WAS a Perfect Mother/Partner:innocent: George is determined on writing the future to prove he WILL BE the Perfect Father/Partner:innocent:
So here we have the end result. Yes, Cindys heart is broken but so is her ego. She crumbles under the reality that she
was wrong. Georges heart is equally broken but he has little ego left to be broken.
He was right all along about KC so he responds with
strength. They balance. George is finally needed and he steps to the helm while Cindy tells him which way to go! Off to fly the deep Green Sky...:dance:.
