Security came to me to make sure I was ok. They escorted me out the back so I wouldn't have any conflict with him. So when I walked around front he was standing there. Um, he's waiting there he's like where do you think you're going? He goes you're not going up to the room, all you're gonna do is go over the balcony.
Snipped from jersey*girls fabulous transcript that she so kindly did for us all :blowkisses:.. With the key statement bolded and then extremely questionable portion of the statement underlined and highlighted RED for emphasis..
I'm just remarking on this specifically at the moment(tho I have thoughts on the segment as a whole).. But found the ^above^ Bolded, underlined, and then highlighted Red statement to be so very troubling that I had to point it out and comment my concern..
First, I'm quite certain very few even caught this upon watching the episode.. And I'm going to assume Judge Marilyn totally missed as well otherwise I cannot seeing her just letting a claim that the plaintiff threatened the defendants life in throwing her off/over the balcony from their 9th floor room, just pass on by without so much as even a comment or admonishment about such a threat..*
Sadly, what this says to me is that Michelle quite likely was threatened in ways just like this all the time.. Thus it becomes pretty standard and not shocking as it should be when your fiancé threatens to throw you over your 9th floor balcony.. As we see it's just part of the story of what occurred that night.. As we see it just rolls off Michelle's tongue along with the other details.. This for me leads me to believe it wasn't abnormal or an unusual occurrence.. Sadly I believe it was just how it was with Dale and sadly she wasn't even alarmed by such threats as she had become in some strange way accustomed to the threats.. This is not unusual.. For a woman who suffers verbal or physical or both abuse and over time it no longer becomes shocking but sadly just becomes the "norm"..
I believe that Michelle's being "conditioned" over the years to God knows how many threats is the reason she speaks of such a threat in such a nonchalant way and in doing so no one was even drawn to the words she spoke which, I'm sorry to say were essentially a death threat.. Some may believe that to be over dramatic and maybe it would be if the girl who I'm speaking of wasn't very like dead right now as we speak.. And most likely her death was at the hands of the very man whom we can all see in her statement bolded ^above^ did threaten her life that night by telling her she was going off/over the balcony of their 9th floor Hilton hotel room!!!
Seeing as that's what we are dealing with here I don't see it as over dramatic in the very least.. I just wish to God that this damn PC had a court reporter so this Judge or someone could have/would have seen in black and white the very real threat that this man was alleged to have stated.. And it all was stated right there in that court room.. It makes me sick as I'm certain there is a transcription floating around during the editing process of this show.. Yet sadly no one even noticed or bothered to say something about it..
It may have been conditioned into Michelle that it was a normal, everyday occurrence that Dale threatened her, but deep down this girl knew it wasn't right, wasn't normal, and chose to leave for good.. I believe that her stating this in open court was her, if even just subconsciously, she was drawing attention to these threats by simply mentioning them in a courtroom and in front of the world wide viewing audience..
Sadly it's not being picked up until it's too late and this beautiful young mother is gone!!!
