Personality Disorders really are about nature. Kids are born that way. The illness can then either be dealt with by the family or not dealt with, and the way it manifests itself can destroy an otherwise normal family.
I think LE would love to charge the A's with obstruction but with the public sympathy it wouldn't ever fly.
Right, and doing it all for her darling daughter Casey. Stop covering for her, it isn't going to matter anymore, just stop. Everybody has now seen what your family is all about so there really isn't anymore reason to go on with this farce.
This is what I'm wondering about, goes back to my question on how can sociopaths be held fully accountable? Whether nature or nurture, it does not seem that sociopaths "choose" to be the way they are, so how can we hold them as fully accountable as we do those who are not sociopaths? It may not be classified as a mental illness, but clearly it is some kind of illness. Who would want to mess up their lives this much if they could exert normal human controls over behavior? I am reading about how they "don't care" as if the "not caring" is something they are doing on purpose, and of course I can understand how it can sure look to others like it is on purpose when the others have to deal with the results, but if sociopaths don't know HOW to care, then I don't see how they can be held fully accountable. Yes, in terms of intelligence they can understand there is a law against murder, but if that is "just words" to them, if they don't understand FEELINGS, so that murdering someone doesn't mean anything to them, then I fail to see how it can be said that they understand what the law means.
Mind you, I'm not trying to make excuses or argue, I'm trying to nail this down because it seems that at a certain important level they aren't responsible for their actions, and so how, in a humane society, can we flatly condemn them?
I am uncerttain if Cindy has mental illness or not, but my gut tells me that there is definetly some "issue ?" with this entire clan !
It is important to me to see the motion hearing on Friday. I believe Ch 9, Orlando is broadcasting it live on the net.(10 30 am EST). I am dying to hear what Strickland says about the searching in private......... motion. It is surely going to be good IMO ! I think that judge is very conservative, and will not tolerate her nonsense, or the bond woulkd not have been set at 1/2 mil !! He senses that she did do SOMETHING to her daughter.
I had said that I am going to Niles/Trumbull Co./Ohio and pull as many public records , if there r any on this family.IF there was a criminal report on the George/Dad incident, it is older, so should archived, not available on line.I want to check on Cindy's family as well. One never knows what may be out there about this dysfunctional clan !
It is approx. only 1 hour from me, so I will go either Friday, after the hearing on line, or Monday. I hope to dig up some good stuff.....one never knows.
I also want to see whaat I can learn about any prior organized crime affiliation. It is predominant behavior in that area, Niles/Youngstown. I have a relative in Niles, who hopefully will know something about who and when does the organized crime.
Maybe I am nuts, but.....not quitee to the degree of Casey ! LOL :woohoo:/COLOR]
How old was Casey when they moved to Florida, do you know?
On the Greta program when she toured the A house, she said "This is Casey's room and has been since she was 3 years old", so probably around that time.
Thanks. I wish I knew how to dig around to find out if she has a juvie record. I know it would be sealed but I'm just curious.
This is what I'm wondering about, goes back to my question on how can sociopaths be held fully accountable? Whether nature or nurture, it does not seem that sociopaths "choose" to be the way they are, so how can we hold them as fully accountable as we do those who are not sociopaths? It may not be classified as a mental illness, but clearly it is some kind of illness. Who would want to mess up their lives this much if they could exert normal human controls over behavior? I am reading about how they "don't care" as if the "not caring" is something they are doing on purpose, and of course I can understand how it can sure look to others like it is on purpose when the others have to deal with the results, but if sociopaths don't know HOW to care, then I don't see how they can be held fully accountable. Yes, in terms of intelligence they can understand there is a law against murder, but if that is "just words" to them, if they don't understand FEELINGS, so that murdering someone doesn't mean anything to them, then I fail to see how it can be said that they understand what the law means.
Mind you, I'm not trying to make excuses or argue, I'm trying to nail this down because it seems that at a certain important level they aren't responsible for their actions, and so how, in a humane society, can we flatly condemn them?
You would think the reporters on this case would be ALL over something like that! I bet she doesn't, she's got Cindy there to cover up for her, just like she did when KC stole from her grandparents. That, to me (if I had the severe misfortune of being her mother), would have been the point I called the cops on her and filed charges. But, no. Cindy once AGAIN covered for the sociopath. Thereby, reinforcing the behavior.
I don't know though, there came a time when my mother couldn't cover up for me anymore and I began having to face the consequenses of my actions. I'm not a psychopath but I was quite a piece of . and IMO there is a trail with these kinds of people, a history. Trouble in school, petty arrests. little things where one bucks authority, shows they are used to getting there own way. There has to be something. I am just having such a hard time believing this is the first time she's been caught because she isn't very bright.
Perhaps that's how she ended up in relationships with police officers.. favors for making things go way? I don't think just thinking allowed.
This is what I'm wondering about, goes back to my question on how can sociopaths be held fully accountable? Whether nature or nurture, it does not seem that sociopaths "choose" to be the way they are, so how can we hold them as fully accountable as we do those who are not sociopaths? It may not be classified as a mental illness, but clearly it is some kind of illness. Who would want to mess up their lives this much if they could exert normal human controls over behavior? I am reading about how they "don't care" as if the "not caring" is something they are doing on purpose, and of course I can understand how it can sure look to others like it is on purpose when the others have to deal with the results, but if sociopaths don't know HOW to care, then I don't see how they can be held fully accountable. Yes, in terms of intelligence they can understand there is a law against murder, but if that is "just words" to them, if they don't understand FEELINGS, so that murdering someone doesn't mean anything to them, then I fail to see how it can be said that they understand what the law means.
Mind you, I'm not trying to make excuses or argue, I'm trying to nail this down because it seems that at a certain important level they aren't responsible for their actions, and so how, in a humane society, can we flatly condemn them?
You ask valid questions, you really do and they make sense. I understand that you are not trying to say Casey should be allowed to get away with this, you are trying to understand Psychopathy.
In understanding such an unknown (there's no blood test, etc) a lot is simply opinions, even with the professionals. They can't even agree on Nature or Nurture. But one of the things all agree on is that Psychopaths know right from wrong and still they choose wrong, they choose to hurt and use people and lie and steal from them over and over again. They do it willingly, knowingly and vindictively. They enjoy it.. they seek out people to take advantage of.
It's the ability to choose that makes them not insane. FWIW, and not that it even really matters but I personally do not think that Casey is a "Psychopath".
So what would you do with someone like KC, then? Instead of jail, send her to an insane asylum?
This is what I'm wondering about, goes back to my question on how can sociopaths be held fully accountable? Whether nature or nurture, it does not seem that sociopaths "choose" to be the way they are, so how can we hold them as fully accountable as we do those who are not sociopaths? It may not be classified as a mental illness, but clearly it is some kind of illness. Who would want to mess up their lives this much if they could exert normal human controls over behavior? I am reading about how they "don't care" as if the "not caring" is something they are doing on purpose, and of course I can understand how it can sure look to others like it is on purpose when the others have to deal with the results, but if sociopaths don't know HOW to care, then I don't see how they can be held fully accountable. Yes, in terms of intelligence they can understand there is a law against murder, but if that is "just words" to them, if they don't understand FEELINGS, so that murdering someone doesn't mean anything to them, then I fail to see how it can be said that they understand what the law means.
Mind you, I'm not trying to make excuses or argue, I'm trying to nail this down because it seems that at a certain important level they aren't responsible for their actions, and so how, in a humane society, can we flatly condemn them?