Just jumping off your post here. I think we all prejudge to a certain degree. It is our nature. We can't help it. I am using your post dear one because every time I see a post from you - I run screaming from the room,, :floorlaugh: I KID!. Actually my brain immediately assigns your gender as male because of your pic/avatar. Now I KNOW that it is not you,that it is someone you are fighting for,but the way our brains work we see certain things and assume that it plays in each situation.
I know I am rambling but I just wanted to put this out there. I also wanted to do this with offending anyone because I do not know you beyond what you write on the posts.
Where I grew up -Savannah Ga and Where I have lived the past 10 years -Walterboro SC ,Whites were and are the minority. And some of the other groups were well known for their bad behaviors. It is like this all over the south. Sad but true. It is not because *Us White Folk* don't want to get along (with some exceptions), It is because the Black communities as a whole are suspicious of us. And a lot of them,ESPECIALLY TM's age embrace the Lifestyle. So even if we came across a good kid we would still be very cautious because our minds have already formed an opinion.
Just my Very Humble Opinion. I just do not think that people who have not lived it can make proper conclusions.
