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Do all humans lie. Yes. Like so many other things it's a continuum. Pathological lying is a foundational component to psychopaths/sociopaths/narcissists. It's lying on steroids. There is a huge difference. I often tell patients that dishonesty or selective recall/expression of the truth may have a temporary gain for them but the path they are paving away from their true self will increasingly make it difficult for them to experience genuine contentment, real intimacy and greatly increase their risks for major drama the more comfortable they get with placing dishonesty bricks in the path. Psychopaths/sociopaths/narcissists have vaccuous emotional selves, thus they don't emotionally "get" the reason to abstain from their rabid dishonesty. In fact it is quite the opposite, they use it as a great skill set by which to acheive their objectives and to plunder/exploit those around them.
 
As far as lying goes with regards to LM. He very well may have accurate posts ribboned throughout his tortured smorgasbord of online entries. However, given the breath and depth of his dishonesty he makes his own testimonies suspect. The shear magnitude of his lies differentiates him from the "normal" population and in equal proportion compromises the trustworthiness of the veracity of his claims.
 
CARIIS said:
(LOL, and it was NOT "sillybilly").


Is there something would you like to share -- we are here for you Billy !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Thanks CARIIS, but not at the moment. i'm fine I think

sb aka SB ;)
 
I am starting to question if he got too big for his britches!
Maybe he thought about torturing people and
started killing cats but when he
killed JL he got sick then chickened out in his grand plan
and is now trying to back out of things.

I get the feeling he thought he was hardcore because
he killed those poor kittens and then gave himself
the impression that he could be up there with the " big boys"
like Gacy or Bundy.

Then he actually did it and wasn't as excited as he
thought he'd be. Maybe was a bit disgusted but
followed through for " the fame"
Then got caught immediately and doesn't have
the guts to toy around how he set himself up to.

He probably had the idea he'd be messing
with police in the way that Hannibal lector
did but just isn't sick or smart enough to do it.

Just a theory
 
HastingsChi said:
Magnotta knows Batman? ;-)
This changes everything...


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LOL you turkey ;) ... did i have the wrong name? Sorry if i did ... and didn't mean to even scare Batman in the whole process.


ETA: OKAY got it !! It was Alex West, not Adam ... apologies to both wonderful gentlemen
 
As an ex stripper I can tell you it's not all about fluid motions though that can help at times. Eye contact and charm go a long way. These aren't ballet dancers (male strippers). And most dancers won't be remembered. They hop clubs pretty quickly usually, fit stereotypes, dress up so that they don't even look like their normal selves, use fake names, often don't even make close friends at work, etc.

There's no reason not to believe he was capable of doing fine in the sex industry. The vast majority, while never big names, can make a decent living off of it.

Shimmers said:
Ok on some random note, is there footage of him actually stripping? I, for one, can't believe he was very succesfull. In the MSM footage where you can see him walk or move, he did come across as "stiff" ( esp. the upper body ). Not someone with fluid motions, which you should somewhat expect, since one is using music as a prop to discard certain clothing items.
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RE: Dancing Abilities

If I recollect correctly, LM did his stripping while very young...around age 19 (not sure on this..)? Anyway, much of his tippers and eventual prostituting clients where much older, over 50. Although it may have been technically "legal"...I still find it as having both a pedophillic vibe and having sex with predatory types. IMO, the older male predators could give a *advertiser censored** about his dancing skills.

An ironic thought I have about this is that after years and years of having been preyed upon by older men....he himself preyed upon an innocent. Doubt this was conscious but none the less it's ironic.
 
HastingsChi said:
And he made such an impact in the adult film industry that not one blog, film review site or message board highlights, mentions the name he used in *advertiser censored* or hyped his performance...



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You have forgotten that yours truly (aka "perv") accidentally gave him a :star1: rating in some telephone directory in Toronto. That's gotta count for something ;)
 
sillybilly said:
You have forgotten that yours truly (aka "perv") accidentally gave him a :star1: rating in some telephone directory in Toronto. That's gotta count for something ;)
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His only positive review as an escort came for your rating... :floorlaugh:
You realize that because of your post-crime positive rating of Magnotta that was done while he was still at large that you're likely on some sort of government or LE watch-list :floorlaugh:
 
HastingsChi said:
His only positive review as an escort came for your rating... :floorlaugh:
You realize that because of your post-crime positive rating of Magnotta that was done while he was still at large that you're likely on some sort of government or LE watch-list :floorlaugh:
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:what: a meek heh heh ... have been for years i think
 
CARIIS said:
It is so fascinating to me; yes he lied a lot, a lot more than most folks not suffering with NPD.......but the illness in and of itself makes it not lying! It is relentless efforts to be perfect great etc. etc
.
BUT, and again, moderators, I am not attacking, but have any of us not told white lies? All it is about, (I am making numbers up), is that for someone not suffering with NPD, we lie 9.8% of the time.

Does that mean that we are never honest? No it means we white lie 9.8% of the time!
His illness mandates that his % of lies is 89.4% of the time.
The point is:
No one, is ever , anything , always ....

It is a human impossibility...

..
There are so many truths in this guy’s stuff, , I will kill , I like bondage - all sorts of stuff - did he embellish yes NPD, did he cut and paste to appear smart, yes, NPD - but at the same time, was he not totally honest in declaring things that no killer has ever declared AHEAD of time.?.................I SHALL KILL.....

So, if I can online, for three years, tell the world I like killing, blood, feces etc., when he tells us his mother tied him up – no one believes him. How does this make sense?

Lying involves risk. If I can tell the world I am killing, who could possibly think me saying my parents kept my baby brother in the room for days is a LIE?
…..if that is not the ultimate example OF HONESTY I need you guys to help me see what I am missing!!!!!!!!!
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I think I get what you are saying, but I disagree with your theory about lying not being lying if you have NPD. That's like saying a compulsive liar's lies are lessor lies because of their mental problem. Let me try to understand... I think what you are saying is that their lies are relative to our own given the fact that we are normal and they have a disorder. Is that correct? Or are you just saying that someone with NPD makes up lies or embellishes to feed their disorder rather than lying just for the sake of lying, or lying just to harm others? I'm not sure there is a staunch difference. A lie is a lie despite the reasoning behind it.

However, I share your sentiments towards those who choose to believe the horrible and disgusting things Luka has posted yet they refuse to believe anything that might encite empathy or compassion, such as his allegations of abuse. Like I've stated previously, people only hear what they want to hear and only believe what they want to believe.
 
IMO, there's a big difference between fibs, little white lies and flat-out pathological lying. Luka is a pathological liar, so trying to determine the truth in anything he's said or projected is a shot in the dark for any of us and almost an impossibility. Pathological lying can stand alone, but is also common in narcissism, anti-social PD, sociopathy and psychopathy, BPD, etc.

Other than what LRM has said online, we only have a very few facts to rely on in even beginning to know the truth .. statements by those who have known him personally and the facts we have learned from LE about the crime and the investigation.

Too many articles on the subject to choose any one link that is better than others, but just a quick google of pathological liar will keep one busy for ... years?
 
jellybeanz said:
And just a few days later, minutes into Christmas Day, was on extreme bondage forums looking for a date to force him to eat ****, beat him up, rape him, dump him miles from their abode naked and humiliated then joke about it all when he got back home.
He felt nothing for nobody but himself.
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Talking about christmas, I was looking at this post here:
http://www.animalloversweb.com/cgi-bin/forum/Blah.pl?m-1321927536/
and wondered if this is how LM got inspired to make that christmas cat video?
was it released right after that post or the previous year?

Also, I've just read that craiglist ad you guys discussed in earlier threads,
http://montreal.en.craigslist.ca/pet/3028025108.html
and after I compared the contents with cutelittlenemo1 posts on animallovers and petsugar pet-peeves, there is no doubt in my mind that ad was written by Magnotta. It is the same story he used before. Even the expression "time waster" from the rape S&M board ads. I'm so sad for the dog from the video, hope he didn't suffer a horrible death like JL :(
 
I'm so sad for the dog from the video, hope he didn't suffer a horrible death like JL
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IMO, the puppy was in the dumpster and went out with the trash. I hardly doubt LM cared enough about the animal to "find it a good home". He was ankle deep in Lin Jun's blood and busily butchering, washing and packaging body parts. To imagine him actually editing his video while body parts were scattered throughout his hovel is mind jarring. No, I don't see him "caring" for the puppy. He dispensed of the puppy after it performed its role in what would become LM's ghoulish magma opus.
 
Mozzmo said:
IMO, the puppy was in the dumpster and went out with the trash. I hardly doubt LM cared enough about the animal to "find it a good home". He was ankle deep in Lin Jun's blood and busily butchering, washing and packaging body parts. To imagine him actually editing his video while body parts were scattered throughout his hovel is mind jarring. No, I don't see him "caring" for the puppy. He dispensed of the puppy after it performed its role in what would become LM's ghoulish magma opus.
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maybe I didn't express myself properly since english is not my native english.
I know the dog is dead, in the craigslist ad is says the dog 'will be in heaven'. I just hope Magnotta killed at once and didn't make him suffer. That's what I meant. Hope I made myself clear
 
maybe I didn't express myself properly since english is not my native english.
I know the dog is dead, in the craigslist ad is says the dog 'will be in heaven'. I just hope Magnotta killed at once and didn't make him suffer. That's what I meant. Hope I made myself clear
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Ah, okay. Anybody's guess how the puppy was killed. I'm not a dog owner and am unclear as to a dog's natural instincts to lick/nibble away at human blood/flesh. I highly suspect he either didn't feed the dog as to make in so hungry it would eat human or that he enticed the dog to do so by putting something appealing to a dog on on Lin Jun's open wound as to get the puppy to munch on it. Given, he killed 4 cats in 3 horrible ways, I don't think we could know the "how" on this one. I had wondered if he'd mail the dead dog somewhere but that has not manifested so I'm sticking with my first hypothesis, that it's buried in the dump somewhere now.
 
sillybilly said:
Reading back through the excerpt from the email to Adam West, I notice that he consistently uses capital "I", whereas in other online ramblings he uses "I" and "i" interchangeably.

In more recent years (and in light of extensive online communications with peeps who don't know me personally), I have started to do the same thing consciously ... because i don't wish to be perceived as arrogant through the use of too many capitals. However, not sure LRM is that deep consciously. So, i wonder about his mood in that particular correspondence ... does he subconsciously vacillate between feeling insignificant (the small "i") and then going into megalomania when he consistently uses the capital "I".

Another thought is that, like me, he made a conscious decision to use the small "i" online .. but in his case it was an attempt to make himself appear less intimidating so that unsuspecting peeps would think he was trustworthy and harmless.

I was online back in the BTK days, and a poster confided in me that their user name was carefully chosen and in all small letters to appear less imposing in the event the killer was online and might choose to make contact with the poster. (LOL, and it was NOT "sillybilly").
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I don't know about the i or I stuff, but I noticed that in his posting in the closet, he isn't consistent where he uses upper and lower case. If you look at a picture of the closet writing, it is sort of emphasizing certain words with caps, but sort of not. I'm not sure is there is any psychology to this or not, but just something I noticed as well. It almost looks like it's written as a title of a book or movie.
http://fullcomment.nationalpost.com...-the-most-horrendous-images-i-have-ever-seen/
 
Well I think his family will be called by the crown to appear in court so hopefully they will shed some light on his dysfunction. If you recall family said they had not seen for some time and mentioned how much he had hurt the family. LM's post online could be what they were alluding to, the posts against the family.
 
pippirose said:
Something occurred to me:
LM always lists himself as "bisexual", yet has he ever really had a sexual relationship (not counting alleged abuse) with a woman? Does he even find them sexually attractive? All his *advertiser censored* has been gay *advertiser censored*, gay escort, and his relationships have been either with men, or transgendered individuals.
So he isn't really "bisexual", then, is he? But he seems to have a problem with identifying himself as "just" gay.

Regarding his transgender girlfriends--maybe he's attracted to the woman part (nurturing, love), but for sex, there has to be male anatomy.
I don't believe he has gender confusion regarding himself--I doubt he wanted to be a woman, or there would be more photographic evidence. Cross-dressing, full drag. Even hormones, to have breasts. Most transgendered people practice their life as the opposite gender for years before they do any permanent changes. He didn't seem to do any of that.

His stories of incest may not be a total lie, in his mind. They may be a fantasy of his--(his mother, his step-mother, aunt, sister).
This would make him feel shameful. He knows it's wrong, and it makes him feel really crazy.
He may really love the women in his life, but was in turmoil (especially in his teens, when his sexual identity was forming). Combine that with sexual abuse as a child...
Maybe he even molested his sister?

All just thoughts. So many questions...so little facts.
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I think labeling himself as bisexual has a wider appeal to a wider audience in some sort of twisted way of thinking; if you're considered bi, then women might find that more appealing and want you too. IMO it its with the whole narcissism and wanting to be super famous. Some say James Dean was bisexual, while many said he was gay. (Makes me think of the South Park episode where butters is innocently labeled bisexual and sent to a place to fix him)
 
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