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04-23-2010, 07:01 PM
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What do you think triggered Tiffany T. to plan an escape from her home life?
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What do you think triggered Tiffany T. to plan an escape from her home life?
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Antisocial personality disorder - (lacks remorse or empathy for others, inability to tolerate boredom)
Depression – Major depression affects a person’s family and person relationships, work or school life, sleeping and eating habits, and general health.
Bipolar disorder – people experience abnormally elevated and abnormally depressed states for periods of time in a way that interferes with functioning
Postpartum depression - can lead mothers to be inconsistent with childcare.
Other (feel free to state your thoughts)
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04-23-2010, 07:10 PM
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Other: Lust, sex.
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Lust. Pure and simple. I've been there. It can make you do very stupid things.
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04-23-2010, 07:11 PM
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Other: Lust, sex.
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Great minds, lol.
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04-23-2010, 07:12 PM
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Btw, it says "your home life". I think you meant "her home life".
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04-23-2010, 07:34 PM
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Checked other: Tiffany was unhappy in her marriage - found someone who made her feel sexy and felt appreciated again - and away she goes!
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04-23-2010, 07:52 PM
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No diagnosis needed: plain ole lust mixed with a serving of selfishness.
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04-23-2010, 08:01 PM
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Btw, it says "your home life". I think you meant "her home life".
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Thanks DairyGirl, correction done.
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Hard to know for sure, since we know very little about her relationship with David and their families. Judging from how they responded in the media, ( and we have only heard /seen THEM) I get the impression there were lots of expectations to conform to the Christian ethos built up around her. If he was "too busy" to notice she was unhappy, who knows how bad that relationship was for her. If she had found happiness and fulfillment in her marriage, she'd have no reason to notice the attention of an outsider. His smirking during the interviews really gave me the creeps. I'm inclined to think that she actually did let him know she was leaving, and he pulled the call out the posse thing for revenge. Just my take on it. I have no doubt that being away from her daughter is very difficult for her, and that will be why she returns to face the music at some point. Again JMO
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04-23-2010, 08:09 PM
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Well, I'm stating the obvious I know but -- she chose to go down a road that I think she will ultimately realize was not the "answer" to whatever void she was feeling in her life. It's easy to romanticize another person and the idea that the person will make your life better -- that this person will love her more. It's all "magical thinking" and perhaps indicative of someone who just felt unappreciated and uncared about. Of course this is no justification for what she did - and she (hopefully) will come to understand this. I'm guessing that one day she'll look back on this and be appalled at the irresponsibility of her actions and how they affected her baby, her husband, her family and her life. So that's my vote -- very poor judgement wrapped into romance/lust and the notion of the "grass looking greener." I hope for the sake of her baby and her family she can put her life back together. If she's no longer in love with her husband, she at least needs to consider her child.
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04-23-2010, 08:11 PM
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p.s. to leave and not inform loved ones of her whereabouts is not only irresponsible, but cruel...maybe she does have a narcissistic/antisocial personality, in which case, she may not be fit to be a mother to her child.
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04-23-2010, 08:24 PM
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I think the pressures of living the "perfect" life was too much, as well as wanting to experience the world. Some people are not meant to fit into the marriage/motherhood box (I'm one of them) and maybe she is the same. Her family may have been so strict she felt like pleasing them was the only answer. When really she needed to go out and do what she wanted, find herself and make herself happy FIRST. That would not selfishness, it's self awareness!! Then when she's had her fun and done her thing, decide if marriage/family and a life in Xenia, OH is for her. JMHO 
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Psychiatric issues resulting from postpartum physical changes + romantic opportunity.
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04-23-2010, 08:46 PM
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Other: Just like she said herself, she wanted a new life.
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She was over it. She realized that the life she had built was not the one that she wanted, and maybe Tre offered her the life she thought she wanted. She made a rash decision.
But everyone knows that after having a baby, you don't always feel at your sexiest or most appreciated, and while it was possibly that way at home, maybe Tre showed her or made her feel these things...
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i think she met a different kind of man from any she had met in her religious upbringing/schooling/life at just the right time, when she needed an ego boost...never underestimate the power of flattery when one is not feeling their most attractive (post-baby weight, maybe) and took what she was feeling for "love".
I said "2" boyfriend
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I think she was wasnt her real self in her current lifestyle (previous now) and in fact I dont ever think she was........
she met someone who made her feel alive and more like how she really is inside....
and yes I have been there done that......you just know.....it feels right
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She got to a point in her life where none of it was important. It was very cowardly and childish to leave the way she did.
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04-23-2010, 11:13 PM
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I don't know about her, but for me the hardest year of my marriage was the year after our first child was born. It's such a huge change, and you really have to work to stay connected. I can definitely see how it could be easy to think the grass is greener elsewhere when another man is giving you attention and you don't have to cook and clean for him.
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04-23-2010, 11:18 PM
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I vote other. Because something is seriously wrong with her marriage for her to even become attracted to another man.
She had a job and a 1 year old baby. I can't see her being bored. But I could understand her being lonely.
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Originally Posted by celticthyme
Hard to know for sure, since we know very little about her relationship with David and their families. Judging from how they responded in the media, ( and we have only heard /seen THEM) I get the impression there were lots of expectations to conform to the Christian ethos built up around her. If he was "too busy" to notice she was unhappy, who knows how bad that relationship was for her. If she had found happiness and fulfillment in her marriage, she'd have no reason to notice the attention of an outsider. His smirking during the interviews really gave me the creeps. I'm inclined to think that she actually did let him know she was leaving, and he pulled the call out the posse thing for revenge. Just my take on it. I have no doubt that being away from her daughter is very difficult for her, and that will be why she returns to face the music at some point. Again JMO
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You pretty much cover it for me, celticthyme, perhaps with the added pressure and depression of being a new mother who was still working.
A person who is very unhappy but doesn't have the resources, emotionally or financially, to divorce and set up a new home as a single parent might "fall in love" and run away. Whatever drove her to leave, at least she didn't do what so many narcissists do--kill the spouse or the child or drag the child on the road with her. The baby's safety was never a question. That speaks, to me, of some unselfish love and concern.
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she was immature and impulsive. She knew her family and church family would be concerned yet she chose to run off with the paper umbrella. And a paper umbrella is what I think her affair will be.. and she will lose a lot of what she formerly took advantage of; ie: stable home life, family, church family, lack of drama.
What she did= especially the lying around in dayton for a few days before taking off to florida... she needs to recoup those costs in monetary ways... as for the moral recoup that is up to her.. I could care less. What she has done to scar the future missing woman cases is what I am concerned about. Whether she or anyone else wants to admit it she has changed the landscape of future cases in a bad way and she needs to own up to that.
SHAME ON HER!
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She didn't learn from her family and her church that life is not a rehearsal.
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04-24-2010, 06:18 PM
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I think it she just wanted to fulfill HER desires - the idea that somehow she just couldn't live up to "expectations" is bogus IMO..
She was just being plain old selfish ...
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I can't recall her age at the moment, but at some point you gotta grow up and realize that it's not all about you -- and you gotta go big picture and long term in your perspective of things. If she decided her current lifestyle wasn't for her, the mature "grown up" thing to do would be to inform her husband, and take the necessary steps to change her life. Running away and leaving everyone to worry about her safety was beyond selfish -- it was rather heartless. I don't blame her that she felt unfulfilled -- after all, it's her life -- but I do think the manner in which she chose to seek "fulfillment' left much to be desired. I think her family deserved better.
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