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Old 02-11-2011, 02:52 PM
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AL talks about eating, sleeping, running, dieting, eating...only 1 or 2 mentions of Merissa and only then as me & m are driving to...
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Old 02-11-2011, 02:55 PM
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For those of us at work and without FB access can someone please give the overview of what FB says? (of course, if that's allowed don't want to break the rules!)
To summarize? Mom says nothing. She posts about her other kids, life, cooking, etc., but nothing about Merissa being missing. There are a few posts where she does address her, but they are few and far between (most summarized up-thread).

I did notice mom had a FB account for her youngest kid, but the middle boy doesn't have one, nor does Merissa. There is no "Pray for" or "Help Find" FB page for Merissa.
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Old 02-11-2011, 02:58 PM
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O/T, but what is the criteria for listing in the NCMEC database and internet site?
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Old 02-11-2011, 03:07 PM
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So quick trip to OK with the mom on the 9th.
Mom and Merissa leave TX by 11:04 a.m.

At 12:58 they are at a rest stop eating chili.

2:44 p.m. in Norman and it's sleeting.

Merissa takes over FB on Mom's phone and asks someone (another family member?) if it's ok if they drop the stuff by her house before they check into their hotel.

No other postings until 4:10 p.m. on the 10th. Mom is headed back to TX but no mention of Merissa being with her.

May have stopped and spent the night somewhere???

Back home at 3:06 p.m. on the 11th and can't wait to see hubby and other kids... again no mention of Merissa.

Merissa mysteriously reported missing on the 12th???

No mention of Merissa since... no help find my daughter pleas... no missing FB pages... no media coverage?????
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Old 02-11-2011, 03:09 PM
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Spoke with NRH PD and she is still missing. She was reported missing by her mother.
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Old 02-11-2011, 03:11 PM
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http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?...174721&sk=wall
Comments on Jan. 9, 2011:
Merissa posts that it is her being mom's assistant on FB.
Comments on Jan. 10, 2011:
Mom says she had an appt in OK.

http://www.facebook.com/home.php?sk=...97590330252063
FB search shows this start of a missing Merissa page:
But is shows as a closed group, with only one person in it.
When that person is clicked on, there is no mention of Merissa.

Not understanding what is going on, as other posters have mentioned, there are no news articles out there.
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Old 02-11-2011, 03:12 PM
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That timeline does make the day(s) leading up to the report sound somewhat suspicious.
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Old 02-11-2011, 03:14 PM
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http://www.missingkids.com/missingki...65110&seqNum=1

And this says missing date is Jan. 12, 2011.

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Has anyone outside the family seen Merissa since the 9th?
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Something isn't right...
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Old 02-11-2011, 03:34 PM
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Not one person in her family has mentioned that she is missing or even an "endangered runaway." I don't understand that.
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Old 02-11-2011, 03:37 PM
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Never mind got confused with Durr's case sorry
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Old 02-11-2011, 03:57 PM
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OK I can't hold back....



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Old 02-11-2011, 04:17 PM
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Well it certainly appears that mom knows how to set up a FB page for something important to her

http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?...06938246000750
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Old 02-11-2011, 04:25 PM
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Well it certainly appears that mom knows how to set up a FB page for something important to her

http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?...06938246000750
OK I'm going on overload now. Her daughter is missing and she's planning a wonderful birthday bash for her hubby????

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Old 02-11-2011, 04:28 PM
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Never mind got confused with Durr's case sorry
One huge difference... at least Durr's parents are concerned and actively looking for her, getting media attention and posting all over the internet trying to find their daughter.

Merissa's on the other hand and too busy with life and birthday party planning. No mention whatsoever of a missing child. I'm absolutely flabbergasted.

I know I need to but I just cant!!!!
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Old 02-11-2011, 04:39 PM
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OK I'm going on overload now. Her daughter is missing and she's planning a wonderful birthday bash for her hubby????

oops, my bad for not saying, that was last March if that helps.
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Old 02-11-2011, 04:41 PM
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One huge difference... at least Durr's parents are concerned and actively looking for her, getting media attention and posting all over the internet trying to find their daughter.

Merissa's on the other hand and too busy with life and birthday party planning. No mention whatsoever of a missing child. I'm absolutely flabbergasted.

I know I need to but I just cant!!!!
To be fair, the BD party was last year (Saturday, March 27, 2010), but I do agree that she is more than adept at using FB for personal important events.
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oops, my bad for not saying, that was last March if that helps.
OK I'll reduce it back to one !
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I am completely at a loss for words and baffled. This is the strangest thing I have yet to research or read thus far. Where is Merissa? Does anyone care about her?
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Wow, this is pretty much in my backyard.. bless her heart, it does seem a little strange that the mom is not more proactive in her missing daughter... sad.
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Can mom be considered legally 'negligent'?

Her MISSING daughter is only *14*!

eta..What I mean by that is her obvious nonchalant attitude/behavior re: her missing daughter..Not so much that she actually went missing..KWIM?

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Old 02-11-2011, 05:38 PM
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Also gleaned from mom's FB that the Merissa's younger sister has a cell phone. I wonder if Merissa had one too.

I also wonder if Merissa had run away before where she ran to. Could she have gone the same place again if so? Did she really run away? I'm just so confused here.
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Old 02-11-2011, 05:52 PM
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Taking a wiiiild guess here, but is it possible that the "Merissa problems" could be that she had mental health issues/addiction. The appointment in OK was to see some type of specialist/treatment facility and the Mom left her there. She returns home, a few days later the facility calls and tells her that Merissa left. Mom files a missing persons report but figures she's around somewhere and will turn up again like she always does. (I'd personally still be concerned, looking and raising all kind of hell....she's a 14 yr old GIRL!!!)
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Old 02-11-2011, 05:54 PM
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I created a FB group.

http://www.facebook.com/home.php?sk=...96891810336738
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