Messages for Kyle - Page 4

WandaPlayWii · #76 12-06-2008, 04:24 PM

I hope that there are resources for counseling available to you. Not everyone in your life has to be a monster. This can be your beginning of an enjoyable life now. We do not know what all you went through, but as you rebuild your strength, your emotional health, and your physical health, people will be there to support you - even if it is only through prayer. It will take a long time to adjust to healthy relationships, if you have ever had any, and to respect authority figures again. There is another path for you on the other side of the rainbow following this terrible storm you have been through. I believe counseling can help you to overcome the circumstances you have been through. I encourage you to continue to brave and actually use those kinds of services. I know it will not be easy. You are not alone. I have no idea why these things happened to you. I cannot say there was a reason. But, I know there are people who can now express how much they care about you, and there are people praying for you. I look forward to reading about the next chapter in your life and hope you will choose to share your survival skills with all of us as part of your journey to better health. This must be a confusing time with feelings of relief, anger, guilt, hope, shame, etc., all coming out at once. You did not deserve the treatment you endured, and please seek counseling to sort through the confusing feelings. There is relief on the other side of recovery. May God Bless You.

gitana1 · #77 12-06-2008, 08:49 PM

Dear Kyle:
You are a beautiful soul and an amazing survivor! You have been badly treated in your life by those who were supposed to love and protect you. That is unacceptable, unfair and very, very sad. But, I hope you know that it is not the world! The world is a wonderful place and there are wonderful people in it who would love a kid like you! We all do already and we have not even met you! I hope you also know that NONE of this was your fault. Not at all. No matter what. Although most people in the world are good and kind, there are some who, for whatever reason, are not. What has happened to you has sadly happened to many other children, but it can never be the fault of the child. It is always the fault of the abuser. But your life is now going to change. You saved yourself! Wow! That is incredible and it shows how strong you really are! And now it is going to be a much better life for you. It may not always be easy as you work to get through your past, but I know you can and WILL do it. A person as strong as you can do anything. You're amazing! You are going to make it and have a lovely, happy life from now on! We are so proud of you! God bless you and keep you, Kyle. You are in our prayers, sweetheart.
Anna

chicagofa13 · #78 12-06-2008, 10:06 PM

Kyle, we're all thinking of you and praying for a complete recovery in every way. You are an amazing survivor, don't ever forget that!!! God Bless You!

crazy_yarn_lady · #79 12-06-2008, 10:19 PM

Kyle,
What amazingly strong person you must be. I hope that you can find the strength in yourself to heal from this horrible ordeal. You deserve all the love and happiness in the world. My husband and I both wish you all the best.

Isabelle · #80 12-06-2008, 11:36 PM

Kyle,

You are beautiful and you are loved. Bless you. I wish you every success the future has to offer. Be strong, you are an amazing survivor.

Isabelle,
Ray'sMom

faithhopelove · #81 12-06-2008, 11:50 PM

Dearest Kyle,
Do you know that you are a HERO as well as a Guardian Angel? Yes you not only had the courage to free yourself you also freed the 4 other children from the house of horrors. What you had to suffer for so long put you in the very place to save the lives of other children as well. That is something to be very proud of. Everyone is proud of you too. Now accept the love coming your way, accept the help that is offered you. Now this Gramma advises you to set some goals for the things you have wanted to accomplish. Stay strong. You CAN do it. Lots of love to you, Gramma

snowme · #82 12-07-2008, 02:22 AM

Kyle, you are loved. You are valuable - you have great worth. Never, ever forget that!

ArizonaGiGi · #83 12-07-2008, 06:15 AM

Dear sweet Kyle
I wish that I could give you a hug every single day for the rest of your life.
You are loved by people you will never meet but we will think about you, pray for you and love you forever. Please always remember that.

dandy · #84 12-07-2008, 09:07 AM

Dear Kyle,

You have touched so many of us and we all certainly will walk with our eyes more open and aware. Unfortunately, you have seen the worst in people and I truly hope that you will now experience and know the best in people. I will be praying for inner strength, courage and peace for you today and every day.

Bobbisangel · #85 12-07-2008, 09:25 AM

Hi Kyle,

I just want to tell you that you have so much courage and a strength that amazes me. You lived through something that most of us cannot imagine and you had the courage to leave when you had the chance. You took a chance and you made it. It took a lot of courage to risk getting caught but you took that risk. That is something to be proud of. Never forget that you are not a victim....you are a survivor.

You are young with your whole life ahead of you Kyle. You can do with it what you want. I hope that you chose to get your education now that you can. You sound like a real bright young man and I'm sure that you can be whatever you want to be if you want it bad enough. From everything I have read you seem to be a really nice person. Don't let what happened to you make you a bitter person because bitterness doesn't hurt the other people...it eats at you like a cancer and you are the one that will suffer.

I wish you everything good in life Kyle because you deserve it. And above all...remember...you are a survivor and that gives you power. Being a victim makes a person feel helpless/powerless. I know this from my life experience. So be a survivor and take good care of yourself. You will be in my thought and my prayers

Barbara

Truthwillsetufree · #86 12-07-2008, 06:30 PM

I am no great philosopher or counselor but I have told my kids who are now in their 20's to find the beauty in life, a person has to find the beauty in the small things. Right now things in your life might not be so pretty to you but if you try to find one small thing everyday, bigger and more beautiful things will come. With your courage and the persistence you have already shown, I have no doubt you will succeed at whatever you set your mind to do.

cali_mommy · #87 12-07-2008, 06:32 PM

Dear Kyle, Please know that you're in many people's thoughts, and prayers, mine included. You are a truly strong young man to endure all you have. I wish I could tell you that there are not monsters in this world but there are. However not all people are bad, and once you begin to heal you will see that. Hopefully your story will bring much needed awareness to child abuse, and in doing so save many children from going through the hurt and pain, so wrongfully inflicted on you. It may not seem like it now, but God has a purpose for all he does, and I truly believe you will be the reason why that undecided neighboor, friend, or loved one, finally picks up the phone and saves that child from their never ending nightmare. Your pain,fear,and unhappiness are not in vain, please remember that. Your road to recovery will be paved with many bumps and setbacks along the way, but many people like us here at Websleuths will be there to hold your hand along the way. You may have thought that nobody loved or cared for you, but the outpouring of love and support sure to come your way, will prove otherwise. Get some much needed & deserved rest and nourishment, and try and enjoy the Holidays. Your life is just beginning, God has good things in store for you, and soon this will all be a distant memory. God bless you!!! Love, Amber in California

charo · #88 12-07-2008, 07:08 PM

Dear Kyle,
You have touched many hearts around the nation. Please know you are now safe from the turmoil you have been through and you among people who will keep you safe. You will no longer be tortured and you will slowly gain trust in people and have a normal life. Maybe one day after you get all these messages, you can join us on Websleuths as there are wonderful people here who care. Please know we are all thinking about you and pulling for you- keep your chin up and your head held high- you get well soon and hope we hear from you one day. God Bless you and I am so sorry for what you have been through but it over now and its time to move onto a new life. Will keep you in my thoughts.
Hugs from Charo in Florida

cfromcanada · #89 12-07-2008, 09:38 PM

Dear Kyle,

I am so sorry that the world has let you down so far. When I heard your story I was deeply saddened but also inspired by the courage you showed when you escaped. There are many people who have you in their hearts and prayers. I am one of them. I wish you all the best and a future full of love and kindness that you have been denied.
Love Carmen (Canada)

easttexas · #90 12-07-2008, 10:39 PM

Dear Kyle,

I am so happy that you were able to save yourself from such horrible people. That means you know you are worth saving! And you are. You have a journey of healing in front of you. Listen to your heart and let good people show you the way to a better life. I will be hoping and praying for your new life just as MANY other people are.
Good luck and God Bless you.

With love,

Ronda

Eulalie · #91 12-08-2008, 02:17 AM

Dear Kyle -- you are a very special and courageous person. I am so deeply sorry for what you have endured, and I am sending you much love and many prayers for healing. I pray that beginning right now, your life grows in joy and kindness, love and peace. You are a survivor, and you deserve a happy, loving life.

Love, Eulalie, Pittsburgh, PA

barb0301 · #92 12-08-2008, 04:39 AM

Dear Kyle,

As I read your story, I was truly heartbroken as I thought of the horrors that you went through. However, the courage and strength that you showed by freeing yourself and by approaching people for help truly inspired me. I am so happy to know that you have made the initial step into your new life, and that you made that courageous step all on your own. That is someday going to be a very empowering memory for you to look back on - you took control of your own destiny at that moment.

Your life will go through many, many changes now. Rest and let your body and your soul heal for a while. Take a look around you at the people that visit, the people that care for you in the hospital. Notice how well they treat you, and understand that this is the type of person you will be interacting with from here on out. We ALL care about you, we ALL want you to get better, and we ALL wish you had never had to go through the horrors that you did.

It will take time, but you will learn to trust again. Open your heart, and hold out your hand, and it will come to you. People will give you their hearts and their trust, and in turn, you will learn to return yours back to them. It isn't easy at first, but when you feel those first feelings of trust and love, they will be so wonderful, and so overwhelming. There are many, many people who will love you in your lifetime.

Spread your wings and fly, Kyle ! You now have the opportunity to do anything you want to do, be anyone you want to be, and accomplish anything you want to accomplish. Try many things, learn what you enjoy and what you are good at, then find a way to study it and make it your life's work.

You will be greatly blessed over the coming weeks, months and years by people wanting to help you overcome what has been done to you. Let them help you, but don't let them overwhelm you either. Accept their kindnesses when you are feeling up to it, and decline them kindly when you are not. Take it step by step, day by day, and you will be fine.

We are all here for you, and we all love you and want to watch you shine in your new life. I wish for you a long and happy life, spent building a wonderful relationship with your brother Austin. Tell him too, that now is his time to shine also. The two of you can grow into wonderful young men together - there is nothing stopping you.

If you need us, we are here, and I hope you come to visit us one day. I'll be watching for you to fly, baby - I know you will !

Many hugs,
Barbie

Jodibug · #93 12-08-2008, 08:46 AM

Dear Kyle-

I hope that you will have many bright wonderful days ahead. I pray that your horrible experience will soon be a distant faded memory.

Know that you are in my thoughts and prayers always.

~ Jodibug

palmerk · #94 12-08-2008, 11:28 AM

Kyle,
We are all glad you had the strength and courage to get away. You did NOTHING to deserve such poor treatment. I will be praying for you.
Kathy

Shavaun · #95 12-08-2008, 02:32 PM

Kyle,

You are and will always be in our hearts.

Shavaun in Portland, OR

Share-in · #96 12-08-2008, 09:56 PM

Hi Kyle,

I have come here to tell you how much you mean to me. You are one terrific young man and a brave one at that. You not only have helped yourself but you have helped other children, too. Your courage and bravery rocks and people from all over this world want to help you. You are a hero in my book!

Believe in yourself, Kyle, and know that God and his angels are with you always. Also remember you are in many, many people's prayers and we all want you to get better. We all have faith in you and know that you will succeed in whatever you want to do. You ROCK in my book.

God Bless You
Grandma Sharon

drumstick · #97 12-09-2008, 08:40 AM

Dear Kyle,

You are truly a miracle of God's compassion.

Please allow yourself time to heal and grow stronger.

Someday you'll look back at all of this and remember how far you've come but for now, give yourself the gift of time.

You have the prayers of a nation on your side.

God bless you, Kyle.

drumstick~

t93 · #98 12-09-2008, 05:40 PM

Dear Kyle,
You can be anything and do anything. Don't let this define you. I send you well wishes and prayers as you are amazing and a source of inspiration for your strength.

marlap · #99 12-09-2008, 05:51 PM

Dear Kyle,

You are brave!

You are a hero!

Bless you and I hope that the sun comes out and stays out!

You are loved!

Marla

txsvicki · #**100** 12-09-2008, 06:33 PM

Dear Kyle,

I'm sorry you have gone through such things and had to be so afraid. You're a survivor, and almost considered an adult. You can then make your own decisions. I hope you get all the help and resources available so that you can move forward and live free from now on.

Sincerely,

Vicki