Need to check background on a close family member. I just want information available to stay informed of suspicions I’ve had which most all have been correct in the past. Has gone from job to job entire life, always needs money, etc. We suspect drug use but alcohol/partying has been always been in the picture. This person is calculating, devious & down right nasty when not getting their way.... meaning money needed at the time. One family member has continuously given in to this person, therefore the life long cycle. My husband & I do not participate in supporting this person but they continue to try to get money when desperate. Want to know of an online source that’s safe, accurate as possible AND keeps my identity discreet. Question: do people know when someone does a background check, other than an obvious prospective workplace?