RBBM: Yes, suicide is complex and I don't think it is logical at all. My cousin killed himself almost twenty years ago, but he called 911 to give his approximate location and to let them know where he left his final letter to his family. They didn't find him for two days, but it would have been so much longer if he hadn't called. And I will say, it wasn't entirely unexpected. He had a head injury from an accident and just couldn't seem to recover, but his doctor told him to go do something that he enjoyed doing before the accident, never thinking he would shoot himself in the head. He had been through so much, therapy, surgeries, meds, ect, and he just couldn't take how he felt. I have to say my aunt handled the obituary with grace, while not coming out and saying he "unalived" himself, she did say he got eternal relief from the pain he was suffering.
With Mica, I just don't know if the Pastor/Husband was involved, but he sure has my hinky meter in high gear! He really needs to be quiet to members of his church and public about what went on behind closed doors.
JMO, MOO, and all other disclaimers.