Little things have taken on larger meaning for the Ramseys. The first summer they moved to Atlanta, Burke wanted to take a friend from school with the family for a week's vacation in Michigan.
``We'd never met the parents,'' John said. And we thought, well, this'll be interesting, to see if these parents will let their kid go with convicted child murderers, at least convicted in public. And they said, `Great, of course he can go.'
``Later, we got to know the parents, and we said, `You know, it was really meaningful to us that you allowed your son to go with us, knowing what you probably thought about us from the media.'
``And they said, `We never even thought about that. We met you people, and we said, there's no way. It's insane. It never crossed our mind that he couldn't or shouldn't go with you.' ''