Without going into detail, I will say that my best friend died in her sleep three months ago. Oh, so many questions...no autopsy was performed. I spoke to her at least twice a day, every day. I couldn't have been more shocked when I received that phone call on that Friday morning. Nor more devastated. You go through so many things in your head, on an endless loop.
There comes a point where you just have to find a peace you can sit with, so you can go on yourself. If that is what Shane's family has chosen to do, I can completely understand that. For nothing will bring him back. The only 'answer' for me was that God needed her in Heaven more than I needed her here. If you believe in Heaven, it is comforting to accept that your loved one is there, free from pain, sadness, stress or illness.
It doesn't make it okay, but it makes it tolerable.
My prayer for his friends and family is that they can find some sort of comfort in the good memories they have of him and knowing that he touched so many lives, even after he passed from this world.
Shane...Sleep on sweet babe and take thy rest. God called you back, He thought it best.
I don't mean to offend anyone with my spiritual views, they are my beliefs, and I understand that not everyone feels the same. There is room in this world for everyone whatever they believe.