Also, if we are going to search and speculate about possible motives for stepdad to harm her.....:thinking:
There is one that has always niggled at me....but it may occur to me and seem possible, only because I am a childhood abuse survivor---so I would lean towards this scenario, where most would not think about it...
But is it just a sad coincidence that KA was currently dealing with that difficult situation, where she felt she had been sexually exploited by her two friends when she was drinking with them a night or 2 previously?
In my mind, she may have shared that story with her stepdad, in a vulnerable, emotional moment. And he may have reacted in a very predatory and aggressive manner with her, seeing it as the perfect time to have his way with her too. It might have just been the perfect opportunity and he took advantage of it.
They were alone on his large piece of land, no one would miss her for several hours, and so he had plenty of time to cover up things....
This is my first post on WS, though I've been a long-time lurker, so I hope I'm doing this right. I'm not sure why this particular case stuck out at me enough to make a first post, but well, here I am. :wave:
I saw this case on Disappeared just yesterday, and I read most of the 1st and 3rd threads on here. I agree with everyone who has said the stepdad is responsible. And I agree with katydid that Katelin's previous night may have been a catalyst (BBM above). But I'm going to come at it from a different angle.
What if the stepdad's motive wasn't sexual
attraction, but rather sexual
revulsion? I've read WS posts that Katelin felt uncomfortable around her SD (despite what the mom said on Disappeared). Do we know if SD approved of her relationship with and engagement to another woman?
Here's what I envision.
Katelin is dropped off at her SD's around 9:20am. He notices something is clearly bothering her and, although Katelin either knows or suspects SD doesn't approve of her lifestyle, she decides to tell him about the drunken threesome the night before. IIRC, Disappeared described Katelin as "despondent." In a situation like that, she may have thought she could trust him, that maybe her obvious pain and tears would be enough to break through his disapproval.
SD however uses this to question Katelin's sexuality. After all, the threesome involved a male, and Katelin is just 19—maybe she's going through a phase. Already "vulnerable and emotional," Katelin is now (rightly IMO) shocked and offended that, instead of compassion and understanding, she's getting a lecture on why she really isn't who she knows she is. An argument ensues and escalates into aggression and finally murder. It wouldn't be the first time a parent or step-parent killed their LGBTQ child.
SD then used Katelin's cheating as a cover-up, using Katelin's phone to text Amber something to the effect of "I can't come back; I cheated on you." Does anyone know when this particular text was sent? If it's part of the 11:56am text Amber received, and if this 11:56am
MST, then this would've been
1:56pm EST, just four minutes after SD's 1:52pm text to LS saying he dropped Katelin off. SD was careful to do it in proper sequence to make it look like Katelin was texting now that she was alone at the mall.
What do you all think?