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Thanks for updating, Niner. Still watching.Update for Hewett:
11/07/2018 Jail Docket - Other (8:30 AM) (Judicial Officer Cox, Lonnie)
WAIVED APPT OF ATTY
Result: Held
11/30/2018 Status Conference (8:30 AM) (Judicial Officer Cox, Lonnie)
link: http://publicaccess.co.galveston.tx.us/CaseDetail.aspx?CaseID=1428298
Thank you for sharing this and helping me better understand. And I’m so sorry you were put through something so awful.As to the bolded above, I have heard firsthand, from many survivors of childhood sexual abuse, about why they never told anyone when they were young.
I was in a survivors support group, and then stayed on as a volunteer, for several years. It was kind of like AA, but for survivors of incest/ and abuse.
A very high percentage of survivors don't tell anyone,for many years. Often, they will deny it as children, even if counselors or teachers, know and want to help them.
When you are a child, you easily get intense things like this twisted in your mind. You feel shame and guilt. Even though you are the victim, your abuser purposely tries to make you feel like you are to blame. they say 'you wanted it', you sat on their lap, it was your fault. You are a bad girl and if anyone ever finds out you will be in big trouble. And you are often threatened. My abuser threatened to hurt my baby brother if I ever told anyone.
You are afraid you will be taken from your home and from your siblings. You will go to juvenile hall because you are the bad one and it is all your fault.
That is the general essence that I heard so many times. SHAME AND GUILT. Even though we learn as we mature that we were the victims, when it is happening, it is a shameful, painful experience.
OK, I just have to say something about the go fund me page. The funeral home is paying all funeral expenses, why do they need donations?
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OK, I just have to say something about the go fund me page. The funeral home is paying all funeral expenses, why do they need donations?
In the Jordan Belliveau case the family started a go fund me page because the family needed new clothes for the funeral, I almost puked.
(Snipped for space) I am so very sorry that you had to endure that Katydid! I too am a sexual assault survivor, but it was never by a family member, just a couple of people who were close to me. I agree with the feeling of shame and guilt, I openly talk about my experience now, but I still feel the shame and guilt as I talk about it. I feel like it is very important to get my story out, so that it will hopefully help others who may be in a similar situation. Thank you for sharing your thoughts & experience with us!You are afraid you will be taken from your home and from your siblings. You will go to juvenile hall because you are the bad one and it is all your fault.
That is the general essence that I heard so many times. SHAME AND GUILT. Even though we learn as we mature that we were the victims, when it is happening, it is a shameful, painful experience.
Omg how can they slash bond in half what the hell is that judge smokingThis will be on KBTX (CBS) - Bryan, TX @ 10 pm (CST) News:
Rusty Surette with KBTX posted the following on his Facebook page on 1/8/19 about 15 min. ago:
Rusty Surette
15 mins ·
BOND REDUCED:
We learned today a Galveston County judge slashed the bond in half for Kenny Hewett. He's a suspect in the 2018 brutal death of Hazana Anderson along with the child's mother, Tiaundra Christon. We'll have more on this tonight on News 3 at 10.
Rusty Surette