FBI credits teamwork, determination in Jayme Closs search; has hope for other missing children cases
We are learning more about the Jayme Closs investigation from an FBI agent assigned to the case. Justin Tolomeo, FBI Special Agent, and a team of 250 FBI agents and personnel worked nearly round the clock to bring Closs home. In the end, it was Closs herself who broke the case.
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Justin Tolomeo
A law enforcement agent for more than 30 years, Tolomeo says solving crimes against kids matters.
"It is a threat to life of a child," Tolomeo said. "We are going to pull out all the stops and move rapidly and flood resources into that area to help with the investigation."
Tolomeo and his team worked 24-hour shifts to follow up on thousands of tips. None panned out and the FBI scaled back its operation, but Tolomeo says his team never gave up.
"We did everything we possibly could and I again, I said it, Jayme herself that gave us that break," said Tolomeo.
Tolomeo has yet to meet Closs, and his work isn't done. There are more missing children.
I still wonder if they brought in their psych. profilers, or if it even would have helped.
I DO think the FBI was behind a lot of the keywords and things in some of the press conferences. ALL of the aunts' joint appearance seemed very FBI psych. expert vs local sheriff, especially the visual cues, which I don't think I've EVER seen before in any family statement when a person was missing.
The sweatshirt for both warmth and a sign that they had her things safe and waiting for her return, the Starbucks full bottle as a sign of special treats and good nourishment ( to a teen) when she returned- also that they didn't forget what she loved- a parental type of trait which would have helped her a great deal, not an empty bottle, and of course, Molly, who behaved so perfectly in the spotlight with the noises and strangers.
There is so much to be learned from this case, and I do not mean " at the expense of the victim" but about how a person who is believed to be a first time double violent murderer and also very separate crime of kidnapping a young girl at gunpoint and holding her in what I believe were very substandard conditions for her 88 days.
There is much to be learned about Jayme's frame of mind and her escape attempts and her ability and strength of will and character to keep trying to escape, and then the success phase, which we DO know a bit about from the Ariel Castro survivors who engineered their escape after so many YEARS, We believe the child victim in that case was the impetus for the door banging and getting the neighbor's attention, but still, they did remarkable things to get help.
Jayme's confidence in her long- distance running may have given her the courage to leave in ice and snow and wearing JP's shoes, we believe, and cold and shivering.
Every one of us has special inner strengths. Every one reading this has survived some fear, loss, disappointment or anxiety, for such is the stuff of life if you've lived long enough.
The human spirit in a person who is not fragmented into jagged pieces like JP can survive so much. We do it in different ways, not the same at all, which is also amazing to me. Some people will look at the long term outcome, " the big picture" such as wanting to have a family one day, or getting that degree they want, while others will focus on minute to minute situations changing and evolving, evaluating and seeking the exact moment to act in amazingly positive ways, then DOING IT.
One thing I do when I'm worried or anxious about something is to ask " OK, what's the worst outcome, what's the best outcome, and what is the likely outcome?"
If I'm pressed for time to think it over, I just ask " What's the worst that can happen to me if I go here, or do this, or don't do that?"
Usually, the WORST isn't bad at all, and I end up laughing at my anxiety or worry.
There is a book about surviving trauma in the face of great odds which helped me understand how we use our past, our present, and the future we want to survive. It's " When Hell Was In Session" by the late U.S. Senator and Vietnam War POW Jeremiah Denton.
He lived while many others in the same conditions died. It wasn't that he was lucky, it was that he had an extremely good ability to adapt to the changing torture, to the changing isolation levels. They could not break his will, his spirit.
Jayme has a special strong spirit as well. I imagine her parents instilled strength of character as a virtue in her. She likely used a lot of lessons she had been taught, maybe without realizing all of them. I think this is true of Elizabeth Smart as well. Strong family lessons and seeing the parents' examples in life.
HER WILL TO SURVIVE DID NOT FAIL HER.