CA - Bakersfield 3: Disappearance of Baylee Despot & murders of James Kulstad & Micah Holsonbake #2

[Bsc87bsc]

Can anyone tell me when Baylee began dating MQ? My understanding is that there was another boyfriend before him, but after her estranged husband.

I’m curious if it was the guy she had a restraining order against

 

[MrsWells]

I’m curious if it was the guy she had a restraining order against

I think it might be, I’m hoping the B3 acct can clarify.

 

[Bsc87bsc]

I think it might be, I’m hoping the B3 acct can clarify.

I feel like we know nothing about Baylee, do you all feel the same?

 

[MrsWells]

I feel like we know nothing about Baylee, do you all feel the same?

I do.

 

[Dobie12]

I feel like we know nothing about Baylee, do you all feel the same?

Yes, unfortunately I agree.

 

[MrsWells]

I've been looking into her ex boyfriend - the one in his early 30's, against whom she obtained the restraining order. That has turned up quite a few SM links that have helped me understand more about several of the friendships.

I'd really like to know whether or not he's been ruled out as a suspect in Baylee's disappearance. At this point, I'm guessing he hasn't been.

 

[MrsWells]

That ex-boyfriend has been friends with SH on SM even as far back as 2012, and they have many connections to one another. I'm wondering if it's possible that they met through her. Also wondering if he could be on our chart.

There is an Instagram account with the same name as the one he uses on his three FB accounts, but I'm not sure it's him. If it IS, he also follows SB's "fiancee", or former fiancee, who appears to be (or have been) an escort.

 

[Dobie12]

That ex-boyfriend has been friends with SH on SM even as far back as 2012, and they have many connections to one another. I'm wondering if it's possible that they met through her. Also wondering if he could be on our chart.

There is an Instagram account with the same name as the one he uses on his three FB accounts, but I'm not sure it's him. If it IS, he also follows SB's "fiancee", or former fiancee, who appears to be (or have been) an escort.

Wow, very interesting! Any chance we can get his initials?

 

[Dobie12]

Just to clarify, the ex boyfriend of BD is the one she had a restraining order against? This person is NOT MQ? Didn't she have one against MQ, or was that a different kind of incident? I guess I'm in need of refreshing on these details. Thank you

 

[Bsc87bsc]

Just to clarify, the ex boyfriend of BD is the one she had a restraining order against? This person is NOT MQ? Didn't she have one against MQ, or was that a different kind of incident? I guess I'm in need of refreshing on these details. Thank you

There was an ex bf, and there is a restraining order against a guy who is not mq or her ex husband. We’re just not sure if the restraining order guy was an ex bf. she did not have a restraining order against mq

 

[Dobie12]

There was an ex bf, and there is a restraining order against a guy who is not mq or her ex husband. We’re just not sure if the restraining order guy was an ex bf. she did not have a restraining order against mq

Thank you for the info.
Wasn't there also a domestic incident with MQ? I feel like there was something found a while back, but maybe I'm confused.

 

[Bsc87bsc]

Wow, very interesting! Any chance we can get his initials?

Is it JR

 

[MrsWells]

Just to clarify, the ex boyfriend of BD is the one she had a restraining order against? This person is NOT MQ? Didn't she have one against MQ, or was that a different kind of incident? I guess I'm in need of refreshing on these details. Thank you

I wish we knew the time frames of each relationship.

 

[MrsWells]

That ex-boyfriend has been friends with SH on SM even as far back as 2012, and they have many connections to one another. I'm wondering if it's possible that they met through her. Also wondering if he could be on our chart.

There is an Instagram account with the same name as the one he uses on his three FB accounts, but I'm not sure it's him. If it IS, he also follows SB's "fiancee", or former fiancee, who appears to be (or have been) an escort.

Here I am to retract once again, I apologize. The profiles that I thought were his are not his. That profile is linked to many of the players in this mess, so I thought the odds of it not being him were slim - but it's not him.

I'll share any pertinent info, but I just saw a post from him denying any involvement in the disappearance of Baylee or Micah. He posted it on Feb 12th. I wonder what LE's position is on whether or not he was involved.

 

[MrsWells]

I certainly don't believe he was involved in Micah's or James' death, and he may not have been involved in Baylee's disappearance, but I felt like it would be crazy NOT to at least look at a person against whom she (at one point) feared enough to file for a restraining order.

 

[Bsc87bsc]

I certainly don't believe he was involved in Micah's or James' death, and he may not have been involved in Baylee's disappearance, but I felt like it would be crazy NOT to at least look at a person against whom she (at one point) feared enough to file for a restraining order.

Totally agree

 

[Bsc87bsc]

So I’m curious, when people keep saying human trafficking in relation to the b3 do they mean women who are willingly going into prostitution?

 

[Jetta02]

I rewatched both Dr. Phil episodes. I have so many more questions now! Where do I begin?

First of all, on the chart all the arrows seem to lead back to Micah. Then they said that all these roads lead back to Micah: James, Ryan, Family Member, Friend, Baylee, Gunseller1, Gunseller2, Gunseller3, Baylee & Micah friend. The families have said that Micah seems to be the center of it all.

Is Micah (MH) the distributor?

 

[Jetta02]

I rewatched both Dr. Phil episodes. I have so many more questions now! Where do I begin?

First of all, on the chart all the arrows seem to lead back to Micah. Then they said that all these roads lead back to Micah: James, Ryan, Family Member, Friend, Baylee, Gunseller1, Gunseller2, Gunseller3, Baylee & Micah friend. The families have said that Micah seems to be the center of it all.

Is Micah (MH) the distributor?

Is Micah (MH) the bookie?

I'm not sure which role connects you to everyone?

 

[Bsc87bsc]

Is Micah (MH) the bookie?

I'm not sure which role connects you to everyone?

I get confused on with what James Baylee and Micah’s roles were. If Micah is a bookie, it would make sense bc he worked in finances and his mom has said he’s good with numbers. BUT, in my understanding, bookies in rings like this don’t use drugs bc then they can’t be trusted.