Ok. I reviewed your post when I was less distracted. I don't know much about the admissions process. But a lot of stuff to consider in your post.
I think that at least with athletes they have a talent of some kind. A skill. It's not contrived. And it provides value to the community who enjoy sports. It also brings revenue to the college because people pay to attend sporting events, buy college sports tchotchkes, etc.
I mean we can debate whether sports should play such an important role in our culture or educational system but at the least, those admitted to a college due to sports have shown they are hard workers and are committed to their skill/talent. Which actually exists.
Then there's the thing about an A at a private school not being the same as an A at a public high school.
I'm not sure how you're meaning that (like that colleges view the candidates differently based on grades and schools?) but yeah. There's a difference.
But in what way? And is it in a way that should give the students from a private school a better chance at admission in the few slots?
For example, the A's that a child who has had every advantage in life from the time they're in utero, with the best health care, no economic stressors, the best access to enriching extracurriculars, private tutors, etc., aren't those A's comparable to a middle class kid who works hard and is super bright and has parents who ensure they're maximizing their potential?
Also, some of those A's at private schools are obtained the same way there's rich kids got accepted - by cheating, parents doing homework or hiring someone to do it for their kids, bribery, etc.
And what about poorer kids who grow up in challenging conditions and attend overcrowded, subpar schools, without any economic advantages, and with lots of stress that living in a depressed, economic area brings? If such a kid who may have to worry about navigating crime in the neighborhood, maybe gangs, drugs, who has to deal with parents working 2-3 jobs, sometimes having utilities shut off for non payment, or not enough always to eat. Not the best foods, etc. - If such a kid perseveres and gets great grades, graduates, but maybe doesn't have top test scores because their schcool didn't focus on that and because they didn't have thousands for fancy test prep, shouldn't all of those struggles and perseverance be a consideration that mitigates the low test scores?
I mean I think I'd rather have that kid one day be my doctor than someone who had it all handed to them and never knew struggle. Because the kid who faced challenges and got to college has a determination and likely an intellect unmatched by many rich kids who get accepted to top-tier colleges.
So when those kids are given special consideration in the admissions process, THAT I'm for. Because there shouldn't be a set criteria for admissions that favors only one way of looking at achievement.
I think the bottom line is that elite colleges should make room for a diversity of students and look at things holistically. Maybe A's from a regular, bright kid who worked hard and had honest, hard working parents who ensured they met their potential, and A's from a lower income kid who struggled but survived and achieved, should be given equal weight to A's from a richer kid at a fancy private school, who had every advantage handed to them, despite a disparity in test scores.
Especially now that we've seen those test scores can be bought.