This has crossed my mind several times. “Meet me at our spot” is not an illogical thought, especially reeling from a loss. The thought of meeting a friend, ex or love interest after a tough time is appealing, especially after sadness and loss, regardless of time of day. However, if this was ML and ?’s “spot”, I think someone would know. Maybe not point blank but I think somehow “Hatch Park” would come up in a regular convo (having been there, being familiar with the area etc) therefore at least one of her friends would recall her having mentioned it bs being completely confused as to why ML was even in that part of town and remarking that they knew no one. JMO