For those that didn't listed to the J for Justice podcast last night here is an article:
'I talk to Magen every day' | Heidi Broussard's friend shocked at charges
I hear the comments here on the nature of the HB and SC relationship and its ups and downs as just being a characteristic of their dynamic as they were on/off for years and often didn't live together. HB based on what her friend said worked hard over the years to support herself and her children.
The reality is that the HB/SC relationship played out over nearly 10 years, 2 children and the reality is that HB and SC were not married even though they appeared to be living together at the time of HB death. SC is an unwed father of 3 children (2 with HB and 1 with a woman believed to be his ex-wife).
The HB/SC relationship was by all accounts unhealthy psychologically and was upsetting to HB friends based on the interview last night. It was hard for friends to truly understand the ups/downs of the relationships as HB hid many of the details from her friends and SC worked over time to isolate HB from her friends (classic DV tactic)
HB, according to her friends, didn't believe in holding grudges and she believed the best in people, including SC. I think this is all well and good however until the other partner takes advantage of those aspects in a relationship as it appears, according to friends that SC this to HC did for many years. In the J for Justice interview it was disclosed that SC would go on benders (drugs/alcohol), not be financially responsible and wasn't a co-parent with any consistency. I guess a partner can accept these issues but when the issues in the relationship veer off to the other partner isolating their partner from friends and family and going down the path of dragging down the partner and playing on self esteem, intelligence and confidence, to me its hard to support much of what goes on in the relationship and it seems like the friend we heard from last night might just agree.
According to the friend that spoke last night SC was highly manipulative and really worked hard to drag down HB as a person and as a Mom and he was enabled in his behaviour by his father, Ty, who routinely used money to smooth over situations created by his son.
HB according to her friend worked around the clock, all while taking care of her children, to provide a home and food etc. HB paid a big price IMO for maintaining the relationship with SC and her friends say that over time SC never changed and his treatment became more and more abusive psychologically over the years. According to her friend, HB worked really hard to be able to afford her small apt. in Austin as it allowed her to put her beloved son in a school that by all accounts was excellent.
I just hope CPS does right by the 2 children and that the 2 children don't become another tragic aspect of this horrific case.
MOO