So true.... Violent and volatile is a great description. I picked up my book that I have been reading for about a year, but don't make much progress in as it is pretty tense. I finally arrived at a the Personality Disorder chapter and Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) is first... Some facts about BPD and triggers etc are below... Based on what I have read etc., I feel that Gannon has been victimized by LS for an extended period of time. Probably for a good part of LS and AS's marriage. Should would have hit it well from AS. He got older and it was not that "easy" anymore as Gannon maybe stood up for himself more and/or found his voice, which, of course, threatened her control over him and other family members. Facing divorce and losing her job added to this and she completely lost control and did the unthinkable. But I also think that she has significant narc traits... A deadly combo...
JUSTICE FOR GANNON!
- Impulsive, emotionally unstable, and shift moods rapidly for periods that may last from a few hours to a few days.
- Depression is common in BPD and can magnify inappropriate, intense anger and an inability to control that anger. "The utter hatred vented by individuals with BPD can be withering. Their sense of self can be so fragile that the slightest insult or criticism can produce in them intense feelings of rejection, abandonment, and shame. And when rejected, the borderline individual may discharge his or her hatred in attempts to destroy the victim's career, reputation, family, friends, and, in some instances, the victim's life."
- As we all know, rejected borderline individuals often threaten suicide. They experience chronic feelings of emptiness or boredom, and often make frantic efforts to avoid real or imagined abandonment.
- They tend to project their disavowed, unacceptable thoughts and feelings onto others, whom they then try to control.
Resource:
Robert I. Simon, M.D.
Bad Men Do What Good Men Dream
I’m a licensed professional counselor and my thoughts exactly about her being a borderline. But we can’t diagnose without assessing a person thoroughly. They often have poor interpersonal relationships, the victim, fear of abandonment but also will push people away and then freak out, suicidal ideation, feeling empty. This sums up a borderlines relationships; I hate you don’t leave me. I’ve been thinking she done the interview backwards only for vanity reasons. Borderlines usually experienced trauma as a child. Can be pretty emotionless when it’s not about them. Not all but many I’ve dealt with. Go to extremes to keep people when they are going to leave, will threaten suicide or claim to pregnant to make the person leaving feel bad so they stay.