Homo Habilis
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I didn't see anything at all, not near the bridge nor on the road to Spalding.Ooo do let us know.
I didn't see anything at all, not near the bridge nor on the road to Spalding.Ooo do let us know.
Thank you for letting us know. Wonder where they are searching now then? I really hope they find her.I didn't see anything at all, not near the bridge nor on the road to Spalding.
Thanks I'll remove that post. I completely forgot they did big projects like that. SW had tagged the presenter a few times that's why I thought it was their house.If you match the dates of the photo to the show, it was the Peterborough episode where they did up the nearby centre that cares for disabled children-
http://www.littlemiraclescharity.or...in-need-as-part-of-the-diy-sos-bbc-programme/
Sorry if anything I said offended you. I know that looking after a child with a disability or illness is one of the hardest things you can do. And i wasn't having a go about the go fund me pages either because I have family members that have had to pay thousands of pounds to buy wheelchairs and adapt their homes because you don't just get handed it. It was badly worded. Sorry again.The topic of Munchausen by proxy (or Fabricated/induced illness as it is now termed) keeps being brought up.
The 3 children are diagnosed with a genetic illness, they've had multiple operations on the NHS and no doubt genetic testing. Here in the UK you can't just ask for tests or treatments to be done and hand over your credit card.
If those children had surgeries it's because they absolutely needed them.
Whatever has occurred with Bernadette, there is absolutely no evidence of and Fabricated or induced illness.
I am the parent of a disabled daughter following a Stroke at 13 and myself and my children all have a genetic illness.
The judgement from some on subjects that they very obviously have zero personal experience of is troubling.
Sarah's social media 'campaigns' for her children aren't at all unusual for families with rare illness. You want to tell the world and find other people who are sharing your journey.
Also, disability benefits don't just get handed out ... many here seem to be under the impression that if your child is disabled and 'needs a wheelchair' that some service just drops one off at your door the next day and that is far from the truth. You can be told your child isn't eligible, there's no funding, there's no wheelchair that suits their needs and your only option is to fund it yourself and they can cost hundreds to thousands. Many families are forced to campaign and G-F-M to buy equipment.
I'll also add that from what I know of the children disability, they can have periods of being well and mobile when there's no tumour causing issues so there are times when they may seem 'okay', that doesn't mean they are.
Eek. What about if they do not find her?
Eek. What about if they do not find her?
The topic of Munchausen by proxy (or Fabricated/induced illness as it is now termed) keeps being brought up.
The 3 children are diagnosed with a genetic illness, they've had multiple operations on the NHS and no doubt genetic testing. Here in the UK you can't just ask for tests or treatments to be done and hand over your credit card.
If those children had surgeries it's because they absolutely needed them.
Whatever has occurred with Bernadette, there is absolutely no evidence of and Fabricated or induced illness.
I am the parent of a disabled daughter following a Stroke at 13 and myself and my children all have a genetic illness.
The judgement from some on subjects that they very obviously have zero personal experience of is troubling.
Sarah's social media 'campaigns' for her children aren't at all unusual for families with rare illness. You want to tell the world and find other people who are sharing your journey.
Also, disability benefits don't just get handed out ... many here seem to be under the impression that if your child is disabled and 'needs a wheelchair' that some service just drops one off at your door the next day and that is far from the truth. You can be told your child isn't eligible, there's no funding, there's no wheelchair that suits their needs and your only option is to fund it yourself and they can cost hundreds to thousands. Many families are forced to campaign and G-F-M to buy equipment.
I'll also add that from what I know of the children disability, they can have periods of being well and mobile when there's no tumour causing issues so there are times when they may seem 'okay', that doesn't mean they are.
I’m so sorry if my post hurt you in any way. I’m just spit balling trying to theorize motives. I know how difficult it can be for people taking care of those with disabilities. Almost every woman in my family is in that field and I can’t imagine having to do that 247. It wears on them and still they get to come home to relatively healthy families. It breaks my heart that the system is so broken that you have to work your booty off and fundraise for simple necessities like wheel chairs. It disgusts me that here in Canada we mostly have to pay out of pocket for things like insulin. I wasn’t aware of how the system works in the UK. I was just going off the Gypsy Rose situation in the US but still, I think most of her equipment was fundraised? I should have been more educated before posting.
I’m sending you and your family all my love. <3
You’re totally right that governments don’t approve of things that make sense. Amen!I'm not at all hurt or upset or in need of sympathy, I'm just explaining what the system is like here in the UK when you have a disabled child.
People who don't live in that world assume things that aren't fact because, most often, they make sense but, governments don't approve of things making sense
My guess is blood and witnesses. There’s a lot of kids in that house that probably know a whole lot. Whether they overheard or saw something. MooLE must have some serious evidence that Bernie is dead and S&S are responsible! Intrigued to see what it is! Blood? Phone data? Witness? Both of them not talking, especially the mother is unbelievable to me. Knowing your daughter is out there, I can’t grasp it.
Moo
I wondering that too. It might just be that she took them when she was arrested or the house was a mess and they didn’t want to wait to find them? That’s all I can think of.Re SaW's 'identical' car to ScW. I wonder why the police had to smash the back window? I'm assuming to get in? Therefore the parents were unwilling to give police the keys? Thoughts please.
What a mystery. It has been suggested that her last message pinged off a tower out near Spalding, which is why the searches started out in Cow Bit. However valid this theory is, I do not know. But if it be the case, and one assumes the parents have murdered her, one of them would have driven out to the sticks at 1am to send the message.